Programmers should not make the next Beckham

According to the 24th episode of "dwelling" provided by netizens for 3 to 30 seconds, I believe that Beckham is engaged in C ++

That book is "large-scale C ++ Program Design"

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There must be some people in history who have no name, no money, just spent their whole life with their loved ones. They don't need to miss or write love stories. Their love words are in the ears of their lover, saying that their life is in poetry, and their happiness does not leave any trace. Although fragmented, I still feel quite touched. When Chinese men hate song Siming and Chinese women hate seaweed, many people often ignore a real problem.

Chinese men hate song Siming because they cannot become song Siming, while Chinese women hate seaweed because they cannot touch song Siming. This has become a false proposition.

Many media and even some officials have publicly criticized the vulgar nature of the worm, which has a great negative impact on society, the TV series made song Siming a negative social character, but he became a favorite of all people. The "Seaweed" minor also had a big difference with the previous trend, there are two extremes of liking her and hating her camp.

Whether dwelling has a negative impact on society, I don't know, and I don't want to discuss anything that reflects the huge distortion of social collective values. The so-called * theory of sociology is like a shit in my eyes, many things do not matter right or wrong. The so-called is just a value choice for everyone. The forward of mankind is the forward of the collective, and it is necessary to give a judgment to a thing, does that make sense?

Although this is not what I want to talk about, the love between Song Siming and seaweed may or may not be what I care about, whether it is love, or vanity or attachment on the pretext of love is their own choice. In reality, such a choice is everywhere. When a woman goes to a blind date, what is the difference between having a car and having a room? When I break away from my feelings and talk about marriage, I always feel that these women are essentially no different from the ones I have. Of course, I don't think there is anything wrong with it. The value orientation is different. In my life, I cannot blame others for their value orientation. Everyone has an equal and independent choice. What does she need?

I don't talk much about things outside of the subject. The topic I want to talk about today is because I saw an article in a girl's blog called "Don't lose your Beckham". suddenly there were a lot of feelings.

Everyone will love a person deeply. Beckham's love for seaweed is so bad:

His salary is not high because he wants to save money, and he is reluctant to buy delicious clothes, but when his girlfriend seaweed glances at Haagen-Dazs ice cream, he will not hesitate to buy this luxury ".

He can't take seaweed to high-end restaurants, but will happily leave his favorite braised pork with seaweed. He can give his salary passbook to his girlfriend and yell at her: "Everything is yours! Please kindly accept it !"

Every morning, Beckham prepares breakfast for the seaweed and even squeeze toothpaste for her. At noon, he will chat with the seaweed on MSN: "Hello pig, where are you going to eat at night ?" He will call her after work in the evening: "Where are you now ?" After dinner, he will walk around the community with her. He plans to marry seaweed within a year and make money to buy a house within two years. Seaweed is the only heroine in all his future plans.

Mr. Beckham is young and has not made much deposits yet, but he is diligent, steadfast, and kind. He has a clear career plan, and he is definitely close to his goal. If seaweed is willing to be patient with him, the dream of having a nest in a big city is not that hard to achieve. After all, young boys are not afraid of money, but are not willing to work hard. As Xia Lin in "struggle" said to Lu Tao: "As long as you keep working hard, regardless of whether you have any money, I always love you !"

He likes to look at Beckham. He is such a big boy.
He always gives way to seaweed. He likes to joke and tease seaweed.
A good handsome boy who combines love and reason will make little romance.
I suddenly envy seaweed, envy everything she has, envy Beckham so love him.

I often hope that when I hesitate, someone else will tell me, what about me!
Then I bought my favorite ice cream, which is a little extravagant for us.
I hope there will also be food prepared for me to treat me as a child and make me happy.
I hope that someone will call me immediately when I play the word "depressed" on Q.
I hope someone will take me out to celebrate every memorable day.
I hope more ......

Even after knowing that the seaweed had been betrayed, Beckham cried so much that morning that he was afraid of waking up the seaweed.
He covered his mouth with a towel and said with tears:
Seaweed I love you, I can't give up on you, I already love you to the bone.
When Beckham went to Haiping's house for dinner, he pretended to be happy with his face and gave the gift to Ran. He said, "Ran, see what this is. Come and kiss me.
When I was eating, Beckham put a big mouthful of tears in the bowl, holding back the tears and smiling.

That is Beckham. Although not rich, it is warm, enthusiastic, conscientious, and attentive.
He will cry and tell seaweed that I should let you know what a loyal Beckham is.
He is the one who has to make people feel bad.

We all know that James cannot give anything for seaweed. Whether it's passion or material.
But Beckham gave all the seaweed. She loved her and loved her, saving her money to buy a house and preparing to get married and have children.
Song Siming, however, gives a hand-lifting hand. He wants seaweed, family, government, and seaweed.
But without these, he still needs song Siming.
And Beckham, that is, Beckham, then a heart, all for seaweed.
He pet her and let her go. What seaweed says will hurt people, not just the only child.
He is called a seaweed pig, but his pig grew up and was taken away by others.

Beckham had a heart, and they all gave it to the seaweed. In the end, the seaweed abandoned the heart and let others go.
The young man in the sun has a wonderful life. He has breakfast in the morning and his arms in the night. He can wander around the street and eat a stall together.

Instead of making a phone call and saying that I have a meeting or simply hang up. If I want to eat together, I want to go to a high-end restaurant. I can't always stay with you. If I want to cook for him, I want to cheat him and say "virgin, walking down the street couldn't hold him in his arm and he said he had to give birth to a child.
Always be cautious about when to find the original configuration.

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Because this article is so well written and sad to me, I did not post a single word. It was such a Beckham. After the TV series became popular, however, Song Siming was defeated and received a sympathy score. This may be the reason why many people are asking.

When a man is young, no matter whether he is a hormone impulse or confused by some uncertain genes, there will indeed be such a period of time that the person who loves is more important than himself, it may even feel that there is no one in life, and life will be meaningless. This is love. But how many girls will put this love in their hearts?

When women in a social group become more and more practical and utilitarian, and do not pay more and more attention to love, will Beckham still have a market? In this age, will you choose to make a Beckham?

When I was a freshman, my brother from the top bunk told me that we want to love and those who love us, because love is two-way. With unilateral love and devotion, no one will cherish and feel bad. Therefore, the love of Beckham has accomplished nothing beyond the heartache of the people all over the country. Maybe this is not the mistake of Beckham, or it may not be the mistake of women in society, because the human being is a zombie, whether it is a man or a woman, or something around him, even better, we may not always cherish and care about it, but we will always regret it after we lose it. The reason why such a story is overwhelmed by millions of people, it is often because it tells people the secrets at the bottom of their hearts.

When many men fall in love with a woman, they will put their self-esteem to a point that is inexplicably low. For a woman, they will sacrifice everything they can sacrifice and treat her well, if they do anything for her, they think it is love, but is it love? If you bow your knees to get love, will such love be considered so holy?

I do not encourage everyone to become beckham at all. Because of his love, he gave up on herself and women depend on men. It is not a good word. Women also need men's security, A man's inclusiveness, a man's mind, and a man's spirit will only be good for a woman. If she cannot give more, she will transfer her needs for men, it is hard to say that the love of seaweed for song Siming is not in the body of vanity. Song Siming can give the sea algae any Beckham, whether it is material or not, but what is behind this material?

Men have the dignity of men, behind the dignity of men, men must have the strength of men, not to wait for the established love, a word is meaningless, how long can it last? How long can it continue? Is it a lifetime? Who can ensure that Beckham will be so good to seaweed for a lifetime? What else does Beckham have when it does not have such a good word?

Actually, I always think that every man will become song Siming. The key is whether there is such an opportunity and ability. In my heart, a man's heart is always eager for power and desire, this is why the Meteor Garden, Japanese TV series, Korean TV series, and Hong Kong TV series are so deeply rooted in the hearts of everyone who is eager to cover the sky with only their hands, the ability to easily pinch a few people with just a few ants. But the question is, how many people have finally implemented it? People who cannot achieve it, so they have to live in the *, and then attach them to those who have achieved it, dance with a great moral, and blame, but completely forget, he may one day be the target man.

Many people advocate their ideals and are cynical when they are young. But as the years change, they gradually become the ones they hate. Then they close their eyes and talk about their young ideals, after that, I sighed and said that this beautiful youth, this damn society, and then continued to live the so-called drunken dream life. This may be the growth of life.

I have always thought that a man's life is a process of dream destruction and growth of bad people in the eyes of myself, because the vast majority of people eventually become a person he hated when he was a young man, Song Siming's growth into song Siming must have gone through a lot of people's experience, it also wiped out a lot of advantages that he once considered to be excellent. After he honed many shortcomings that he thought were shortcomings, he could go to that point. James is Song Siming, who just graduated from college. He has nothing but hard work. He is a White Paper and may have a girlfriend like seaweed, this is also why Song Siming said that he saw the breath of youth from the seaweed, whether it is the wrist or the means, or the strategy, everyone's heart is always something that will let him touch a certain nerve, you can't stop it.

However, Song Siming, a White Paper, may have encountered the same problem as Beckham. He cannot give anything to the person he loves. Maybe the person he loves will leave Tom like seaweed, he may also be willing to follow him. Whatever the outcome, Song Siming, a young man, cannot be a perfect person. There are not many people who like him, at least it won't let people all over the country enjoy this. Because he is nothing, he cannot grow into a type that girls like. The light and righteousness cannot see the glory behind them, too many powerless people make him unable to stand out at all. However, when Song Siming grew up and became a man with only hands covering the sky, his glory came out, because he can do many things and let people see his emotions, he has become the focus of controversy.

When song Siming was a startup, he grew up a little bit. Maybe he could go even better than song, maybe he could not. This is not the key. The key is that when he grew up, will Beckham see the youth of other girls like song Siming? When you love, you love it. When you don't love it, you don't love it. I always like this sentence. What's the white horse saying in the west wind. Who can guarantee Song's love for his wife when he was young, just like Beckham's love for seaweed?

What is the difference between a woman's choice of a man and gambling * Bo? When you close your eyes, you may be able to choose one with thousands of choices. Because of the love-based and material-based choices, who knows the final results? There is no difference in the results, but where is the key? When we cannot talk about the results, everyone will talk about the process.

Love-based marriage, there are hardships along the way, there is happiness along the way, there is a romance along the way, and based on material? It may be blank. There is nothing. Jinshan Yinshan is put there, but it is pale like it. After decades of life, I close my eyes and miss my youth and find that love is a blank space, it may be sad.

If the seaweed does not meet song Siming, his life may be like song Siming and his wife, who will grow up with Tom and laugh together with Tom, I grew up to be a charming man with me, but then I learned from each other. What then? You cannot imagine. But the big face will still be like song Siming. It is difficult for people to resist * temptation *, especially when attractive men give up a mature atmosphere. Song Siming has never met seaweed or other girls. Another story, destined person, doomed character, and doomed story may be a TV series.

When I was bored, I joked with some girls that I divided women into two types: training men with hard work and seeing the harvest, the harvest will be taken by another woman. Everyone may say that the former is the wife, and the latter is the third child, but it may not be because the former may be the first or second girlfriend who grew up with you, and they will accompany you as coquetry, with you, we can say that the society is unfair, that we can endure loneliness, that we can endure the white eyes of others, that we can never meet, and that we can walk around with you without fear. When they stand out with you, you are no longer unable to dominate your own destiny, no longer have nothing in your pocket, and when you start to be around, you may despise their existence, because they are no longer young, when they accompany you and care for you for the least ambitious Year of Youth, they have spent the most proud years of their lives. At this time, their eyes begin to grow abnormally high, they often see young girls who are with the first type of girls.

Men are not long children. They need to be trained by women to cultivate their character and temper, and teach them to learn to endure and learn how to accept the disappointments of life, they also gave them the opportunity to understand the hearts of women. After a few years, when their material keeps up with the pace, they will become so attractive and mature between young girls, men who have experienced family life and social practice have a competitive advantage compared with the first-time boys, so the second category of girls appeared.

In the dwelling, Song Siming's wife is the first kind of human beings, and seaweed is the second kind of human beings. Who is right and wrong when cultivating men and enjoying cultivating good men? It doesn't matter. There are not so many mistakes in life, and no one is good.
In fact, seaweed could have been a good first type, but eventually became the second type. In the end, the end of the second category of women was the result that was known from the very beginning, because in the sigh, what Zhang Guoli said to his wife was so appropriate: "sleeping at night, I touched your hand, just as I touched my own hand, and I didn't feel it, but it hurt me to saw your hand."

The first type of women has already been doomed to become an organic whole for men. To separate them is like cutting down the man's right hand and left hand, while men cherish their animals, he was reluctant to hurt himself, so being hurt became the doomed result of the second type of women. The world is fair, and if yes, It is lost. He got someone else to train a good man, but it is doomed to fail to get good results.

The discussion of this matter seems to have deviated from the love I want to talk about. It seems that it is more about human nature. Beckham is indeed a very infatuated person, at the same time, it makes me feel that such love should not be what our men should want, love is a two-way payment, love is equal, at least equal, beckham put himself down to a humble level. Even when he learned about seaweed's betrayal, he could not bear it, secretly cried, and was afraid of other people's worries. Sometimes I was thinking, from the perspective of love itself, as a man, is it too weak to do so? Maybe it is just such a weakness that makes seaweed lose interest in him. A weak man is not worthy of love.

The initiative of love should be in your own hands, and Beckham gave up the initiative and waited for the seaweed to be restrained by the moral inner, even if the seaweed looked back, so their love or love? For many things, cracks are cracks, and betrayal is betrayal. Love is corrected through conscience discovery. In this way, more men's minds will be replaced by incompetence. All women may be men, what do men do if they are all women?

The value that men come to the world is not simply to take care of women. Women are eager to be taken care of and cared for by a man, it's not simple to bear it silently, It's not simple to buy ice cream for her, it's not a humble girl kneeling down her floor, shouting, I love you, I can't survive without you, when such a man is too old, many people will find that they love very naive. Such love cannot bear too much responsibility and care for women.

When I look at the westward journey, I say that I love it, but I do not love it when I do not love it. Many times, no one can doubt that the purity and beauty of love itself, even if the sea of Sang Tian, love itself does not change, but the change is the love of people, Beckham for seaweed, it will not deteriorate because of years of old life, but it may be time-consuming. After more than a decade, Beckham is no longer a Beckham, and seaweed is not a seaweed. The two young people are far away, however, the ice cream they bought between them, the shadows on the street, and the experiences of holding hands together are always in the frame of memories, and will never change, this is love itself. As for whether two people are really together, they finally become something other than love. One is breaking up, and the other is marriage, which has nothing to do with love itself.

Love is love. When love is love, It doesn't care about fame and fortune, it doesn't care about reality, it doesn't care about everything. It's love, but such love will be flattened by various realities, I like it at first, but later I love it. What about later? What follows is the reality, the passion of people, and the love after hitting the wall. How much is love itself?

In today's society, information is developed, and it just seems that it is out of reach. It is no stranger to fall in love from elementary school, love is more replaced by flesh * desire or vanity or utility. How many people can really calm down and think about the essence of love? How should I love it?

If a woman is shouting, don't let Beckham lose it. This is beyond the reflection of women's self. How can we reflect on it as a man? Are you waiting for others to come to regret, don't lose you, or think for yourself, how can you not be lost? I am not a woman, but I know that it is a matter of time and necessity to lose me. Because he equals love and care to one another, and love has no marks, love should not be externalized into a simple and pure good to a person, good is not love, love is not just good to a person.

Outsiders seem to be careful, but why did the seaweed finally leave? Is it because of seaweed vanity? Is it because seaweed is ungrateful? If everything in the world can be categorized with such a simple mind, it may be much less troublesome. The love between seaweed and Song Siming is also a simple meat * Do you want to fly? I don't know. At least I don't think so. If seaweed looks at Song Siming, I don't think it's just money. The four words of power can be replaced.

In fact, after reading the dwelling, I first felt that I used to be a Beckham. I used to be so selfless and very nice to myself. In order for her to ride a bicycle around for five or six hours in the cold Beijing city, I tried to buy her sugar-fried chestnuts. No matter whether she liked me or not, I just wanted to treat her well. I also cried out for her drunk drink under the nvwa building, I was even touched by myself. Why am I so good? Does she still dislike me?
When I grew up, I began to understand that women didn't want this. Even I felt that they were very naive at that time. Love was a two-way solution. I may be touched by my unilateral efforts, but it's just touching, not love. Love is in two ways. A man, first of all, must be brave enough to have the ability to make the female they like better. After all, the next step in love is family, the next step for family members is to build a safe building, so that they can make their loved ones have better clothes, better life, better quality of life, and no trace of love, under the simple appearance of Beckham, what is hidden may be a weak and incompetent. How many girls like this man?

I don't want to criticize seaweed. The reality in our society is that a large number of girls will become seaweed. There is no need to blame them for their outlook on life and values, and there is a general identification of social values, this situation is inevitable. What's more, is it true that she and song are only meat * desires? No one stipulates that a married man will have no love. Since love can break through race, it can break through any constraint. Is it true that love cannot break through marriage, is it just the line of a certificate? Although I also agree with what my seaweed mom told me, the love between seaweed and Song Siming is mixed with water because it is not pure. But what should we do?

Women are also human beings. Men can have control desires, and women can also have vanity. When Beckham cannot give anything of seaweed, Song Siming can do it with one finger, it is expected that most people will not be able to resist it. Otherwise, who can explain why F4 is so popular around the world that the stories of Cinderella and Prince will make the memories of so many people deeply? Control desire, vanity mixed with love, maybe also a kind of love? Because no one knows what love is.

I don't know what to say if I write so much nonsense? Take your child with me. In fact, I 'd like to say something to most men. Don't lose yourself in love. A man, except a woman, should have more pursuits, if you only stare at a woman, then she will only wait for a woman to confess that she has lost him. At this time, the time has passed and the time has gone.