Pure coders, pay attention to the movie emperor around you.

There are movie Emperors in the workplace. Please be careful! Please pay attention to the danger and proceed with caution.

Life is short, it must be sexy; the workplace is like a play, it depends on acting. Many companies are turning into a show, and the film Emperor is emerging one after another. the hard work of the coders becomes the wedding dress of the film Emperor. The movie emperor has brilliant scenery in front of others, while the Cool cool guys only go home and lie in bed to review actor self-cultivation.

 

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With the money to sell cabbage, the heart of selling white powder, a pair of dirty clothes that never wake up, is this the legend of the silk. With the money for selling white powder, the heart of selling cabbage is always glamorous. Is this the legend of the film Emperor. Diaosi and movie Emperor are in the workplace. What stories do they have to tell?

 

Section 1: My tragedy

Unfortunately, I have never met my father surnamed Li, and it has become a tragedy. Although we have seen a lot of diaosiInspirationalAs an example of striving to become a handsome and rich man, the fate of most people is still the life-long life-old man. This fate is not only due to the poor, but also to the inability to change the embarrassing mentality.

The first thing to worry about is fear of conflict. As a diaosi, you may not dare to conflict with people, or pretend that the cloud is cool to avoid conflicts with people, or even pretend that you are not willing to conflict with people. In the final analysis, these roles do not understand the positive effects of conflicts, nor do they have enough conflict management skills to control conflicts. The fear of conflict in the face of the outside world is always unable to guide the development direction of the transaction, their opinions are difficult to express, there is always a feeling of being raped, so always complaining.

The second kind of mentality is Mingjun's fantasy. The beauty of this fantasy lies in the fact that the so-called Mingjun can be redeemed without doing anything. But the ideal is very plump, and the reality is very skinny. The real reality is that "my favorite is a hero of the world. One day, he will step on the colorful clouds to marry me. I guess it is ahead, but I cannot guess the ending ...... ".

The third is the victim's mentality. Because the heroes in his heart have never appeared, and the conflicts in his heart have never been resolved, he had to close himself up to protect himself. The world is too cold, cruel, and unfriendly. diaosi always has a strong suspicion and rebellious spirit when encountering any new things, in many cases, it appears as a victim and soy sauce.

The fourth is the only angle. There is only one correct way to do things in the world, that is, the way you do things yourself. In the face of any other method, diaosi will start from a skeptical perspective, and may even come to a negative conclusion before trying to prove the negative opinion. Most people around him may even be seen as the movie emperor, because he can only see his own efforts, but denies the efforts of all others.

It is said that there are many coincidences of mixed it circles, and there are also many people that it circles will never meet. It seems that this is not a coincidence.

 

Section 2: no shadow emperor in life

There is no movie emperor in your life. Shortcuts are human nature. Everyone wants to make less effort and get more at the same time. This kind of instinct is magnified in the absence of constraints. In the eyes of diaosi, you don't have to make too much effort to have a great career, such as civil servants, such as managers, such ....... What's more terrible is that there are such people around diaosi, and they need to deal with them every day, looking at the people who can easily take advantage of the credit of diaosi with a hand-painted foot, they are very unbalanced.

Good to be a movie emperor. He can draw a pie, but does not pay; he can ask, but does not promise; he can promise, but not cash; he can see the problem, of course not bear; he will win again, will not be left behind.

I have a wish that movie Emperor will not do it, and I will not do it either. It's a pity that the silk is not acting. Once you don't do it, it's as dazzling as the dark Firefly. After suffering losses, diaosi vowed to say that I have a dream that I want to be a movie emperor.

 

Section 3: How far is it from diaosi to movie emperor?

Diaosi can be born for it, but the movie Emperor is not so cool. The farthest distance in the world Is not the distance between me and you, but the distance between us. I am a diaosi, and you are a movie emperor.

First of all, the film Emperor must be a tough performer. The film Emperor needs to play multiple roles, Sometimes ye, fashion grandson, sometimes soft and hard-working, and sometimes great fortune, need to practice some wonderful acting skills, but also need to quickly change the face in various scenarios. The movie emperor also needs to sell well in order to quickly gain trust.

Second, the movie emperor needs to hypnotize himself. The film Emperor should firmly believe that everything he does is right, and even find various noble reasons for his own behavior. Once you are unable to cope with the problem, the anti-DDoS pro will be easy to get lost. The mind is the mind, the mind is the mind, the mind is the essential State of the movie emperor.

Once again, the film Emperor needs to be able to speak up and argue. In the face of various types of people and various job roles, effective languages need to be organized for these aspects to make it possible to find the right source. More lies are needed to make up for the lie. The film Emperor needs a smart mind and a powerful language Organization, so as to be able to break away from evil and save danger.

Again, the movie emperor needs to cleverly raise himself and belittle others. Early Adopters often use lies to directly crack their opponents. The effect is direct, but the disadvantage is that it is easy to get attacked. Medium film emperors skillfully use language skills to describe facts that are not good for others and hide information that is not good for themselves, so that they can look at others at a higher level. The senior movie emperor does not have to do anything. When he goes there, there will be that aura, and all the credit is attributed to the movie emperor.

At last, the film Emperor must have a strong enough heart. More lies are needed to make up for them. When beautiful lies are cracked, the film Emperor needs to have a strong enough heart to face such a blow, so as not to lose the confidence to continue serving as the film Emperor, it is often possible to stand up and tide over the difficulties, or even change a place to make a comeback with acting skills.

 

Section 4: When diaosi meets the film Emperor

The farthest distance in the world Is not the distance between success and failure, but the distance between you and me. You cannot tell whether I am a diaosi or a movie emperor. In my first software R & D Company, I met an incredible film Emperor. He is a doctor. He is eloquent and handsome, and makes people feel like a breeze. He gave me a good first impression. He not only made me believe in the great future of the company, but also gave me some technical directions. In this impressive impression, I forgive him for his great bid on small matters. After the company's delay in revenue and failure in multiple projects, I still think that the company has a great future. What's more, he also made a fortune with his boss's daughter. I did not acknowledge the reality until the project we did failed and several failed times. Why did I admit it so late? After many years, I learned about the halo effect. From here I learned a very important truth. What makes you uncomfortable is not necessarily the movie emperor, but what makes you happy is not necessarily.

 

If you treat everyone as the movie Emperor, you will be unable to work, and you will live in suspicion all day long. If you think that everyone is not the movie Emperor, you will suffer a tragedy and often suffer harm. The following are some suggestions for coping with these problems.

Coping with 1: overcome your kind of mentality, I am a kind of yarn, I am afraid of it. Remember, it is the movie emperor who needs silk, and the movie Emperor is not needed at all. Therefore, do not be afraid of conflicts with the film Emperor. Do not pin too much hope on the Qing Dynasty, adjust your mentality, and be more active.

Solution 2: Shadow occurs only when no light is available. In order to cover up your own inferiority and fragile soul, diaosi is often high and conceited. It will not focus on the relationship with the boss or collaborators, nor make its work transparent. This often provides an opportunity for the movie emperor. The movie emperor is good at discovering and filling in these gaps, making himself a very important person who does not need to work.

Solution 3: "corrupt officials and clear officials should be more ". Diaosi can also have acting skills. No matter whether you want to become a film Emperor or avoid being hurt by the film Emperor in the future, proper acting skills are essential.

Solution 4: Use your feet to vote. Do not use your feet to vote. If you encounter a movie Emperor, you can vote with your feet. In the above example, I did this. However, remember that there are movie emperors everywhere and you will be able to move when you meet the movie emperor. Soon you will have nowhere to go.

 

Postscript

Let's share the stories you have to tell as a diaosi and movie emperor! What kind of movie Emperor have you ever met, how the story starts, how it ends, and how you feel? In terms of how to deal with the film Emperor, how can you introduce it to everyone?

 

Reference

The story of this article comes from the movie "The King of Kung Fu".

"Corrupt official rape, clear official more rape" from the movie Catalogue

"My Italian will wear a gold armor, and the colorful clouds will help me ." From movie westward journey