"Little Action" sells your secret

"Little Action" sells your secret
A professor who has taught female students for many years at a Women's University in Japan has discovered many interesting phenomena after carefully observing the actions of these girls. He concluded: Compared with a male, a female performs less subconscious actions, especially when she is restless, indecisive, or unconfident, I always want to hide these mental states with words and expressions.
Many company supervisors or personnel departments will observe each other's minor actions when looking at the candidates, and decide whether to hire or not based on the times. It can be seen that if you do not care about your own small actions, it may affect your life.
The following is a simple example of what others will see through your small actions.
◆ Arm movements
Keep playing with things at hand. People without experience will think that your attention is elsewhere, rather than talking to each other. However, people with a strong vision can see that you are actually very concerned about each other, or even interested in each other. Because you are very nervous, you do not consciously use some things at hand to temporarily transfer and release such tension.
While saying "I", I pointed my finger at my chest. This kind of action indicates that you are not confident. because you do not have a sense of reality, you can confirm your own existence by referring to yourself and make the other party accept their opinions.
Twisted hands together inexplicably. It means that you are very nervous and unconfident, for fear that you will be "Exposed", and your inner worries are exposed in your hands.
Put both hands on the chest. A typical protection posture, because the two hands on the chest and so on build a wall, is equivalent to expressing a rejection or rejection mood. This kind of action is both unconfident and unfriendly.
Put your hands together and put them up to the ceiling. This shows that you are full of confidence and pride at this time, but you may feel unhappy when others think you are not happy.
Keep rubbing your skirts. Wearing a narrow mini skirt, but from time to time pull a skirt, it seems to be a fear of seeing your thigh, but it has aroused the attention of others. This action shows that you are eager for others' eyes, but you are embarrassed, and there is an internal conflict between temptation and defense.
◆ Head-related actions
Cover your mouth with your hands when talking or laughing. This is a special gesture to hide your secrets in your heart. Therefore, this kind of "overwhelming" action will actually show you that you are hiding your desires.
Pull your ears. "Really want to end this conversation" is a subline of this action. I am bored with what the other party said. I want to interrupt the other party's speech and stop talking, but I have to endure it.
Touch your nose or rub your eyes while talking. When talking to someone, the trigger may contain "Are you telling the truth ?" Or "I don't agree.
Touch yourself while talking. When talking to people, you may often use your hands to dig your head, dig your ears, touch your face, or rub your temples. This means your heart is unstable. For example, when you want to reconcile with the other Party, hide a little secret, or fall in love with a man, you will always make these small actions due to worries about problems.
Brush your hair with your hands frequently. When it is not necessary to open your hair to cover your eyes, it will reveal your sensitivity and nervousness. In interpersonal communication, because you are very sensitive to others' attitudes and verbal responses, once you discover something related to yourself or your heart is touched by this, you can't help but make this action.
Keep sending your hair later. This is one of the favorite actions of long-haired women, especially when they encounter handsome men. Of course, most women who like to do this are confident in their appearance or hair style.
Tilt your head to listen to the other party's speech. If you have a crush on the other party or are interested in the content of his speech, you will naturally make a friendly action similar to that of a child.
◆ Leg and foot movements
Shake your legs or shake your feet in a conversation. Shaking your feet is due to mental uneasiness and tension. It means that you have always been expecting something. When the expectation is not satisfied, this kind of action will continue.
Shake high heels with a toe in the conversation. Women who often do this kind of action are very relaxed and happy. In the subconscious, it is often a kind of action that seduce men and has a strong sexual significance.
Cross your legs constantly. When you get impatient, or feel restless and bored, you may unconsciously turn your legs around. No one cares about themselves in the eyes of others. Therefore, if you want to shape an image and transmit a message, pay attention to these small actions. Once an incorrect message is sent, this may cause misunderstandings of others.