"Look into the Sun" bucket list

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At that last moment

a Western slang for death is "kickthe bucket", the life of the bucket was kicked over the ground, and the Chinese people said "dead Lights Out" is a meaning. then bucketlist means what you want to experience before you die, or your heart is unwilling.

"Bucket list" This film I have seen several times, said is two doctors sentenced to death of the old man, in the 6 months before the end of a crazy, life regrets a piece of the story. The story is moving, but it's just a beautiful fairy tale.

Imagine how many people in the final stages of life can have the energy and strength to think that it is valuable things? Their relatives will support them in doing so? Will the Doctor agree?

of course, some people have the courage to do so, because death is dying, this is the only chance, otherwise it seems to be embarrassed to die. Kurosawa's "Life of Desire" is filmed in the years, can be the mentality of people before the death of the three-point description. The protagonist's life in order to keep his position and inaction, in the last days, finally glow out of the passion of life, up and down to call plead. After the matter became safe to leave.

More than 10 years ago, I saw Lu Yuqing's "Life Message", and in recent years there have been Yu Juan "Unfinished Life" published. No man will die, no more. So the mask can be removed, sincere without fear of being hurt. Because the eyes of others and the so-called injury before death, it seems irrelevant. I'm dead, and I'm afraid you're judge? The last words in their lives were powerful, and at that time a kind of despair flowed out of frankness, without whitewash, to the heart. They left a precious spiritual wealth for their relatives and others.

Let me sigh is, why people always stay in the last moment, in order to burst out of this regardless of the power, why always in the end to dare to bare the true thoughts of the heart. Perhaps it is because they know that the moment is the last chance, the cry of life, that they have come.

So, who are we to live for in the past days? Who is the master of their own thinking of a move? Why is there a chance to turn over in the final stages of life?

The ego and the real Me

My sentiment is that in the human body there are actually two small people, one is ego (Ego), One is true to me. They coexist from the beginning of life. ego need to be noticed and affirmed, need to have a sense of existence, need their own important sense, need a lot of outside recognition. and > really I don't depend on the outside world. Ego.

both of these have gone up, and many of the major decisions in our lives are actually Ego to keep manipulating. We are eager to be recognized and eager for the so-called success in the eyes of others. There is a view that Ego is completely negative.  Need to suppress or even eliminate Ego. I personally do not accept it completely. Ego and true me are like two twin brothers, they are interdependent and exist. Ego helps us to pursue a high quality of life, avoid danger, and get warmth from the approval of others. Completely independent of the external value of their own realization, for me, elusive. So the key is, how to grasp this degree. I hope that when I woke up a little more, and Ego Good to discuss: "Dude, you are so tired of the long time, or I will take you for a while." because Ego is very powerful, only to accept him fully, to have the opportunity to make a handshake. We all do each other, maybe we can appreciate each other.

Recalling some of the examples I have mentioned above, the protagonist of the story in the final stage of life, Ego knows the end of life, ego will also die, naturally give way to the real me. So that I can lead a dozens of days. Unfortunately the time left is too short, too short.

Bucket list

That 's what you think you want to accomplish before you die. I put a line in One breath, happy to let old friends to see. Ego thought, "I'm cool, you never thought about it." Feel good in the heart, was moved by himself. It seems that they have all been finished.

One of the " travel to Tibet ", the old friend shouted, "is not going to be embarrassed to die?" Go with them! "The glass worked, no fun!" now think about why I'm adding this, what I really want to get from it.

Tibet in my eyes represents a natural whitening flawless, no material pollution of human holy Earth. This is what I have in mind to give Tibet meaning. In addition, I boast that I have been to many places ah, around so many people have been to, I have not been to, not too shy in heaven to greet people?

This list is With Ego in mind, I realized that, and I totally accepted him. But I need to re-examine my list to see if I've left enough room for the real me.

For example, "write a book of personal Growth", the book itself represents a recognized point of view, the embodiment of personal value. In the future, I can say "the author of such a bestseller" (In fact, only my mother will buy the book, and then give my aunt a few copies). But the content of the book, if it is valuable, is helpful to my children and others, it is the embodiment of the true me. So this is the need for Ego and real my joint efforts to complete, indispensable.

it says, "I'm winding myself in the ditch." Perhaps in the bucket list, do not care too much Ego or true me, what things can not be too dogmatic, human nature is complex, not to put themselves into the concept of other people invented, tired not tired ah. Don't make a mental split.

Perhaps in the process of executing the list, the value is self-existing.

Being & Doing

in the death Experience workshop, when we discussed the bucket list with elation, a faint voice said, "What I feel is important, what is the key?" This is the relationship between Being and Doing . We always feel the need to accomplish something, in fact, I care about how to better self-awareness to complete the current work is done. The so-called porridge a meal only in the Tao " I was a flash, mother, this is not my spiritual mentor Eckhart Tolle What he said." At the same time, Zen also has the following:

before the practice, the little monk water and firewood (no self-awareness)

in practice, the little monk carries water and firewood. (conscious exercise of self-awareness)

after the road, the little monk carrying water and chopping wood (self-awareness without the need for force, all attributed to nature)

I have a clear sense of this classmate admire very much. Nothing can go to extremes, and to complete the list, it's better not to do it.

For example, one of the lists I just finished: "Speak with your friends and get drunk."

I drink a little beer occasionally, very self-control. The impression is only drunk once in high school. Every time I return to Beijing, my old friend always take me as a foreigner to play, I thought, the capital I have been to the place than you. It turns out that I was really wrong. This is not my childhood experience of Beijing Hutong, South gongs and drums lane true and false let me produce a kind of absurd but very real feeling. This is the real reflection of the society in the drastic change. Dressed in camouflage in the alley in the cross-dignified appearance, the arm of the Horn played Internationale. We looked at the green brick under the gray tile under the flamenco dance, the big mouth drinks the metropolis and the Qingdao Pure birth, talks about more than 10 years ago the cramped past. I was drunk. I do not know is intoxicating wine, or people self-drunk.

Anyway, I'm drunk, finish one, it's done ~ ~

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"Look into the Sun" bucket list