For love, many concepts I have been confused,
For example: Because I love you, so I sacrifice my career;
Because I love you so I tolerate your good and bad;
Because you love me, so you don't love another person;
Because you love me so you have to follow me ...
I don't know what's right and what's wrong in the name of love, maybe it's right or not.
In fact, love means compromise, love itself is a kind of attraction, but more is to give up some aspects of their own to cater to each other's likes and dislikes.
But is it possible to ask for the other person to give up their individuality, happiness, career, and pursuit in the name of love?
I believe that true love can pay the price of life, but the problem is that we seldom have this opportunity, and more is the face of secular life, not the ultimate state.
I think that in the name of love to suppress their own life is tantamount to self-abuse, and in the name of love to the other side of the killing of personality, it is very despicable.
We human beings, by virtue of many names, demand the lives of others, have been countless,
Love Can not escape the doom of being used by some to become a beautiful coat.
Only is the individuality, the happiness, the career to say the pass, but facing the question of fidelity, whether in the name of love to make it no longer love others is right?
Is fidelity a sign of love?
We can love the warm love movie and the violent war movie at the same time, but not at the same time loves two different character men;
We can enjoy the natural scenery and the cultural landscape at the same time, but not at the same time like two different beautiful women.
In the diversity of today, what is the symbol of love?
I am not pan-nature, nor pan-love, but I doubt, in the name of love, whether there is too much bravado, affectation, intrigue.
Love listens to the inner voice, not to sacrifice, not to compromise, but to deceive the true feelings of the heart;
Love is to give the loved one more freedom, to make their true love.
We don't need too many names and in this name suppress another person's heart,
We don't need to be intimidated by love.
We don't need the name of love.
"The Name of Love" Xu Zhengyun