"When the confusion in the university"--kai-Fu Lee

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Students:

Are you all right?

Originally this is a letter that should be written long ago, there are many words should have said, but I did not write, not to say. Not wanting, but I know you hate an empty preacher very much. So, I am waiting, waiting for you to experience life, waiting for you to come from the feeling of life, waiting for your own reflection on the attitude of life. These things are just a matter of time, at the end of the semester, when you start the new semester, I think, this letter can be written, these words can be said, I believe you should have a certain feeling with me, thought should be able to reach a depth.

Remember the university graduation ceremony, * * Students in the talk of college life feeling when said a word: "University out of two kinds of people: one is talent, one is a scum." "Then you spent a period of time in college, I want to ask: Are you a person or a scum?" If I am not mistaken, you will certainly answer: I am neither a human being nor a scum, I am in the realm of the two.

If so, I think: you are falling to scum. Do you think it's extreme? On this issue, we need to think of it as extreme. In the past semester, you are not a lot of time at a loss, have a lot of time spent in the dorm bed, there is a lot of time spent chatting on QQ, there is a lot of time in online games to fight.

Another semester passed, suddenly found that they did not seriously listen to a few lessons, although the classes are taught to you at the level of the lecturer, suddenly found that they did not read a few books, although your university library has a lot of books, suddenly found that they did not learn things, although the university has a lot of things to learn. Do not say that the class can not understand, do not say that teachers do not care, do not say that the professional is not interested, do not say that the school is too bad, the fall does not need reason, only need excuses.

If I remember correctly, your annual tuition is more than 4000 yuan, plus your living expenses and other expenses, most can reach more than seven thousand or eight thousand, you are now studying in the university, is receiving a high cost of education, but your parents high input, how much output you have received???

Most of you are from the countryside, or small business families, not many people have sung at home, you now use every penny is the parents earned the hard-earned money, or even borrowed from everywhere, in the course of the enormous hardships and love for you. On the old face of the scars of their years, there is a pair of eyes full of hope for you, a pair of cloudy and even a little blurred eyes.

Hope can become disappointment, disappointment can become despair, but who is the decision of this change?

Responsibility, is not what others give you, but your own mature thinking of the default. You all say you grow up, you say you are mature, but I think, 20 years old you are just a kind of table to maturity. You have never been able to shirk responsibility for your parents, but you have given up on the mission of inaction and depravity.

At the end of the semester, when you return home for the Chinese New Year, your parents still love you, still full of hope for you, and still told you, but you do not have the slightest apology, do not talk about your study, and even do not give them the results of the notice to them, hiding in a corner with their own hand to sign the name should be signed

Liar, a irresponsible liar, a liar can become a scum, I do not want to, more reluctant to my students to become such, I have been stubbornly think: you can become my pride.

It's hard to build a thing, but it's easy to destroy a thing, students, remember and take responsibility for your parents.

In college, many students reflect the problem of not knowing what to do in the day or doing nothing. This is a very common phenomenon, because you have lost your goal. The reasons are as follows:

First: You have been admitted to the university. Completed your primary, middle and high school dominance of the ultimate goal. For many students, the university is your final stage of schooling. You'll have to look for a job after you've finished college, but it still seems so far away for those of you who have been doing it for 12 years.

Second: The teaching methods in universities are completely different from the teaching methods of other periods. There is no teacher in the university around you, for fear that you did not learn things, learn completely their own business, you are already adults. Without the previous repeated explanations, without the previous homework, you feel that class to their own empty, learned and how, do not learn? Rather than let oneself learn so hard, it is better to let oneself live a little free and easy.

Third: There are too many of the university's own time. From the previous early self-study to late self-study, there are teachers to complete the task of the proper arrangement, until now no one to tell you what you should do, let you feel at a loss. Most of you lack spiritual independence and good self-control, and you simply cannot grasp the freedom that appears to be too much.

The instructor at the university is completely different from the former class teacher. The former teacher in charge of everything, like a harsh nanny, because they regard you as a child without growing up, now the counselor specific things less, because they treat you as an adult. There is a very big disconnect in this process, and you cannot accomplish this transformation psychologically or intellectually.

Five: Most of you lack clear, clear goals for your life. It's no idea what kind of person you want to be and what career you're going to do. From my ideal in primary school, to my future in junior high school, to my college in the Middle Ages, to my confusion in the university, you have completed the transformation of life goals in this process, and the last remaining is the dead insect skin. I think it is the combined effect of these five points that has deprived you of your goals. But, without the direction of the boat, what wind is not downwind.

You should find your goals, not immediately, but in as short a time as possible. Here I give you some advice, hoping to help you find your goal.

The first step: put aside all the obstacles, starting from the professional, think about how you want to do the job, or what kind of career. Find a blank sheet of paper and record your final decision, please don't hesitate. Kaoyan? Examination of civil servants? Teachers? Technician? Salesman? Other?

Step Two: Fully understand the professional skills and other skills required to engage in the work you have set up, using network and talent market recruitment announcements and other channels. The theoretical knowledge of these skills is mostly learned from books, and what you need to do is to list a learning bibliography in the order of the basics to the depth. You can write this on the paper, too.

The third step: according to bibliography to assign their own study time. Of course, most of the time you can allocate is your own spare time. and put it into every semester, let oneself every semester have a study plan, every week, even every day has the study plan!

The fourth step: According to the study plan, down-to-earth study, and use all possible conditions to use to practice.

I believe that if each student has a goal, you will be very full, will be very busy, and will get a lot. So, please each of the students to set a goal for themselves.

Life is like a chocolate box, you never know what the next one will taste! In fact, in the above four steps, one, two or three steps are very easy to achieve, the most difficult is the fourth step, to do really not easy.

First of all, in your side there are too many students of the university, they live with the natural life of their peers, to achieve the 4th, you need to overcome the impact of the big environment.

Secondly, there are too many temptations in universities. QQ also issued to let the human itch, the network game again out of the excitement of the killing sound, the roadside under the tree stood a pair of mutual snuggle lovers; To be 4th, you need to reject these temptations and walk through college like an ascetic in the eyes of others.

Moreover, you have to endure loneliness and loneliness, which seems to be incompatible with college life. But success and great people are lonely and lonely, their patience in the process of training their strong perseverance and extraordinary wisdom.

There is a kind of animal called Bald Eagle, it has taxes beak with sharp claws. But as the years grew, its beak would grow longer, so that it would not be able to peck its prey, and its claws would grow thick with webbed flesh, and the claws attached to it, so that it could not catch prey. There is no food to die, this is the law of constant. To it, death seems to be the only way out. But it has made the choice of shocking human beings: it has repeatedly pecked its beak on hard rock, breaking the long part until it recovers its sharpness, and pecked it with the beak of the paw between the claws, though bloody and trembling with pain. This process lasts for one months, and then they fly proudly in the sky as they have in the past.

The process of suffering, greatness, and rebirth. Life, isn't it the same?

Perhaps some people will ask: why others can live in the unrestrained, and I have to fight hard. I'll replace it with another question: whether College is enjoying life or shaping itself.

Many students have tried to run for the student union, the officers and cadres of various associations when they first entered the university. Afterwards, a lot of students have issued such a sigh: unfair, do anything to rely on the relationship. I would like to ask, the school is still so, what about the community? Does the society play more thoroughly with politics, relations and money?

In the future, what is your basis in society? To have power without power, to have a relationship, to have money without money, what else is there? In the early days of college, you were either in management or in technical work. But you have no power, no relationship, no money, want to engage in how good management work, want to get four-digit monthly salary, is not Nankeyimeng? Your best choice is to engage in technical work, but this requires real material, big can not rely on who power, relationship hard, more money.

When you graduated from college, suddenly found yourself in addition to a college graduation certificate, in addition to speak a bit like a very esoteric topic, and did not learn the real skills, you do more than others how much better work? Maybe it's just a nice name, maybe it's just something anyone can do. Are you going to be complaining then?

Every one of us wants to live a high-quality life, want to let their loved ones live a carefree life, all want to leave their own traces of value in the world, but these are not in the enjoyment can be achieved. God has given us every one of our hands and a brain, that is, to make us to create and think. College is the best time for you to study, so please give up your enjoyment, try to reinvent yourself, and build up your strength for future takeoff.

Since it is about college life, then love must be talked about. It is the adolescent boys and girls who gather in the university, where love inevitably occurs. But I do not know when college students emotional overflow. Now college students ' emotions are mingled with too much utilitarian, desire and indulgence. Every year when graduation, the couple's last meal, the last hug, the last kiss, and then turned away to embark on their own journey, from this relationship forgotten, like never happened.

Love is just being treated as a need. There are many people in college who want to catch love or be caught up in love. But I hope your love is sincere, is serious, is pure, is natural. If you think he is handsome, want to go to love with him, please think twice, if you think she is beautiful, want to go to love with her, please think twice, if you feel very lonely, want to find a person to fall in love, please think twice, if you just listen to the words of a friend, go to love with someone, please give up. The word "love" has actually clearly indicated its object: The following "friend" word indicates that you should know him (her), he (she) should be your friend; "intersection" means you have to choose between these friends carefully; "Dentetsu" means you can only select one as your lover and the other only as your friend. Please cherish your feelings, otherwise it will become very cheap. What is Love? You should know this in your heart. I think: Because of good is attracted, because attract and be loved, because be loved and learn to love, this is the process of love.

Writing here, the words to say almost finished. These 4,000 words look very tired, sincerely hope to bring you more or less help. If you feel that there is no help, please remove it and throw it away, please forgive my carelessness, if you find it helpful, please cherish it and watch it quietly for a few more times.

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"When the confusion in the university"--kai-Fu Lee