Reading notes: "Take time as a friend"

Reading notes: "Take time as a friend"

The first time you see this title, take it for granted that there is an overwhelming and well-known on the market to teach you how to cherish the time of the book, after all, the domestic author has written a deep-thinking book is too little. I did not think that I looked down, and found as the author said, " believe me, you are not alone ", some examples of my feelings, but I have not realized this point, and even do not know the original can think of this problem! Some viewpoints have the feeling that makes me epiphany, especially the word "rebirth" (read this book to learn an English word reborn), did not think of life will experience a large and small rebirth, when you read a book, use a word to summarize the core idea of the whole books, is a kind of rebirth; when you master a certain skill, it is a rebirth. When you write a thoughtful paper, you can be a rebirth, and when you have a new feeling in your mind that can powerfully control your actions, it is a higher realm of rebirth. I did not expect a teacher to write such a depth of a book, from the text, I should be a few years older than him, if you can read the book two years earlier, may be less than two years of mediocrity, but now is not too late, this year for me is a "rebirth" of the year. Thank Li Yu for offering this wonderful work!

August 31, 2012, reread the book.

Chapter No. 0 The plight of all

Bacon's words: "Reading makes a full man, Conference a ready man, and writing an exact man." Reading, discussing and writing seem to be able to understand the problem more and more deeply.

Teaching is the best way to learn. really not false, on the one hand teaches him person, oneself will diligently deeply understand some important points, on the other hand through the answer question or the discussion, can taste more things. I had a deeper understanding of this when I was in the GTD speech later.

Laziness is a common weakness for all. Think of a lot of inventions is to make people more and more lazy, it seems long-term people will evolve into the most lazy kind of animal.

Do not take things happy, not to own sorrow----is ordinary people unimaginable realm.

The power of the 1th Zhang Xinzhi

No matter what method, you need to practice to achieve results. Rather than keep asking the teacher, is this method effective? It's better to act now.

You should learn some statistics. From the math major I just have a rough idea of the probability theory, not carefully read the book.

The book tells the story of 1984 years of 10 yuan in computer classes.

Speaking of computer science, I was in 1987 years or so the first contact with the computer, is the Apple II, at that time my humble school unexpectedly introduced dozens of Apple computers, now think of is really incredible! You don't have to pay for Class! At that time the basic tutorial feeling is the heavenly book, but with 1.1 points of study, unexpectedly deep obsessed with this can not self-dial, but a week seems to only last machine. The cycle of the times, did not expect more than 20 years later, started Apple's iphone, but also in the development of the program! It seems that early learning is more blind, just feel fun, just want to make up a small game can run on it, did not expect the future will be inseparable from the computer.

Is the interest really important? I am in the child's education, or let its first sense of interest, especially in the initial education of mathematics, I still try to find out the mathematics in life interesting application problems, let her experience through slowly thinking, analysis to find the answer to the happiness, interest is really the motivation to learn, This impetus will make her math better, thus entering a virtuous circle. and boring teaching will allow children to resist psychological, and thus lose interest and into a vicious circle. So, the excellent teacher is to make a content lively, interesting, which reminds me of college when learning functional analysis of the scene, boring abstract theory so that the overwhelming majority of students can not support down.

All success in learning depends on two things: strategy and persistence, and persistence is the most important strategy. This is quite agreeable, and persistence is repetition and repetition. ( of course, in the back read a book, such as learning a foreign language, the method of repetition is the most efficient.) )

Is blind play worth learning? At work, looking at a computer graduate colleague fell to the point of flying, never thought worth learning, immediately hands-on practice, no machine on the drawing of a keyboard, learn basic fingering, is constantly repeating, repeating. The process of learning Wubi Input method is not much to think, a year of college summer Leisure to no matter, the university curriculum is not want to see, just brother-in-law there is a king code Wubi textbooks, take over to learn it. At that time, the opportunity is quite small, the only way to practice is to recite the formula, remember the keyboard position, and then is the commonly used Chinese characters are constantly broken down into code, the wrong note to dismantle, but one on the computer than Pinyin input method is still slow, but after the work has been insisted on using, although the formula only remember the "King beside the At the sight of a Chinese character, a finger seems to have pressed several corresponding keys without passing through the brain. Recall this process, if put on 10 years ago estimate I also did not adhere to the perseverance.

"My day Provinces", do not dare to do the daily "introspection", can be reviewed every week I feel quite fruitful.

The 2nd Chapter opens our minds

I used to translate mind into thought, which is called the mind , and refers to the sum of various thinking abilities. The mind consists of three abilities: acquiring knowledge, applying knowledge, and abstract reasoning. The mind and IQ are two concepts.

The most incredible thing to hear in this chapter is "We can use our brains to control our brains". There have been "procrastination syndrome", to a thing that I do not like too much time to the last minute to do, analysis for a few reasons, one is not strong goal, if you can finish these do not like but also have to do things, You can also make time to do what you want to achieve your goals more meaningful things, the second is to have a fear mood, did not find the "next action", actually change an idea, find a little detail to get started, and soon things are not as complicated as imagined, into the state will soon be completed The third is to do this thing as a kind of pain, rather than to enjoy every subtle feeling, learned the master's "be Present" realm, feel put aside all distractions, heart only left himself and things together, really feel different, do not do the initial so much pain. Maybe overcoming procrastination is the best example of brain control.

"The freedom to choose your own attitude, even in an extremely hostile environment."

The original psychology tells us that "our brains have a self-protection function----forgetting pain." In the face of embarrassment, try to weaken their own pain, control their own emotions, do not be the direct response of their brains around. Thinking "You're not Alone", you're worse off than the hapless, even regular, unlucky boy on page 41? The abstract goal is to give practical meaning, can turn pain into power!

"Deferred satisfaction" means that the first bitter sweet, calmly recognize their own nature, moderate control of this nature, delay the satisfaction is to have a startling patience, patience has magical power.

3rd Chapter Raising the mind, and time to be friends

The precise perception of time in the strange Life of Willow is a startling achievement, starting October 8, 2011 with the Momento software on the iphone (which began in June 2012 to Evernote, because of its powerful sync function) to record events, Far from remember so thin, but more than ever remember feeling a lot more. Try to remember a day with Liubischeff, sure enough to give people a sense of urgency, when you wander on the internet for half an hour, your heart will call back from this state, to do something meaningful.

Habit takes 5 years, not 21 days, it seems that my back word habit just 5 years, should be the real habit.

The original can also give their brains to install a "reset" button, it seems that in the Momento some inspirational sentences should be recorded, the label is "reset."

The way you record it doesn't matter, as long as you do record it every day.

The later chapters of this chapter talk about plans, lists and actions, as GTD is more structured and can be overlooked.

The 4th chapter develops our mind

Acquiring more knowledge is almost the only way to develop our own mind, "experience", "Trial and error", "Observation" and "reading" are some of the main ways. and "reading" becomes a more important means of acquiring knowledge. "Thinking" or "right thinking" is the main means of acquiring knowledge in real sense. Empiricism is applicable on a certain level, but must recognize its fundamental limitations, so-called "experience" may become a stumbling block on our way forward. Self-learning ability reading comprehension, writing and practice is very important, but also have "ruminant" ability to avoid "selective input", the learning process is not straight up, there are ups and downs.

Can not rely too much on the teacher, "best to teach" and "do the best" is not the same thing, the teacher will be wrong, the teacher said whether the wonderful and students themselves also have a great relationship.

Change your world by changing your attitude. teaching is the best way to learn. The 3 ways in which knowledge is translated into action are mentioned in the book "Knowing How To Do": ① insists on taking notes, ② notes in 24 hours, clearly and neatly sorting out the essentials, ③ the knowledge he learns to others. Only after taking notes as a long-term habit will you truly appreciate the benefits of doing so, and a note-making approach introduced on page 123th can teach your child. It is divided into notes content bar, cue bar and outline area. To form their own set of symbolic systems.

Chapter 5th Beware of the so-called "success studies"

is the probability of success in normal distribution? The key is not figuring out what success is? This aspect still causes "the life plan" in the balance saying, the person obtains each aspect balance in the life, is the happiness and the joyful, this kind of happiness and the joyful is does not need to compare with others, oneself will have no regrets life, heartily joyful, the calm pain.

Beware of the "success study" books on the market, it seems that I would like to buy a book before the best to see the grading and comments on the watercress, do not be fooled by so-called successful people.

Efforts should be made, without emphasis. In the learning process, time and progress is a logarithmic curve, the final difficulty is far more difficult than imagined.

The uniqueness is no use, probably is a more a frog in the eye. It seems that you don't need to say "you are unique" to your child.

Don't be told what you believe. Be mindful of what so-called successful people say.

Believe that luck is a lack of self-control performance. The so-called lucky is when you are ready for the opportunity to come.

It's better to build your network than to build. concentrate on creating yourself, to make a good person, a useful person, an independent person, more important than anything. Focus on what you can do to improve yourself, learn and have more and better skills, and be a worthy person to interact with. Learn to be independent, to not create trouble for others as a virtue, with your independence to win respect. Unless there are special reasons, should try to avoid those who are not in the material life can not be spared, those in the spiritual life can not be spared, more should avoid. Really care about a friend means that you would rather spend or waste more time on him. The degree of happiness of a person often depends on how much he can be detached from the outside world.

6th Chapter More Thinking

Every time I mastered a new skill, I felt reborn again. Besides work and study, make sure you have enough other activities. Give a list of uninteresting but very important things and try to focus on 2 hours a day. The root of inefficiency is avoidance of difficulties. The good way to overcome procrastination, I only choose one, form the habit of record, so that I can supervise myself at any time. Adjust the pace of life slowly, whatever is worth doing, it is worth doing it slowly----do it for a long time. Don't be late, and don't blame others for being late. Do not blindly reduce sleep time, do not reduce the time to communicate with loved ones, do not give up social time, take the initiative to help others. Don't waste time trying to prove yourself. Look at "Self in Desire", "real Self", "feel oneself", stop mocking others, forget their merits, the advantages and disadvantages are called characteristics, appropriate indulgence yourself.

Knowing the limitations of the brain, try to struggle to control your brain in turn, to be the master of the brain and not be swayed by it.

The 7th chapter changes from this moment on

Everything can be prepared in advance. The core quality of success is patience, is willing to devote time to simple, boring but ultimately the meaning of extraordinary repetition.

The way to educate your child is particularly simple. One day, do something that impresses him deeply. Can be told a story, it can be an outing, but also to buy a surprise for his gift----anyway, he must impress him deeply. Then, keep track of the matter in your own diary, including Time, place, and events, and then keep it safe. About two or three years later, when he began to feel and complain about the time being too slow, he turned the record over and showed it to him and let him know it. The point of doing so is only one----patient. First, the starting point should preferably be around seven years old, and secondly, the focus should be at least two or three years later. Again after 35 years, remind again. Such an experience will not only make the child unforgettable, but will also affect his understanding of the time after life.

Reading notes: "Take time as a friend"