Who am I? What do I do in the eyes of the world?
These issues are always worth thinking about.
As people grow older, they will move from a psychological self to a social self, and then from a social self to a psychological self.
The ultimate goal is to achieve harmonious unity between the social self and the psychological self. This is called "Heaven and Man?
At the beginning of human birth, we cannot tell the social self and the psychological self, and the psychological self has not yet been born.
After the birth of the Psychological Self, people will feel that the psychological self is myself, but they do not realize that the social self is not like this.
The differences between the two self are the root cause of pain. Some people will contract to their psychological self and think that the social self does not exist at all.
Some people will recognize the social self and think that the psychological self is a shit.
The real realm that should be achieved is that the psychological self and the social self can get along in harmony, which requires us to practice the psychological self in the society and observe the social self in the psychology.
This is hard! Very difficult!
This is precisely because of the embarrassment.