Relatives want to be born, strangers to be ripe, acquaintances to kiss

The interpersonal relationship in each person's life is broadly divided into three categories: the first is between relatives, the second is between acquaintances, and the third is between strangers.

Relatives want to be born, strangers to be familiar, acquaintances to kiss.

General understanding of the general think that relatives want to kiss, right? In fact, that's not true.

First say "loved ones are born." There are often no boundaries between loved ones. Now, in many movies and TV dramas, children are talking to their parents, which is impolite to point to.

I actually heard such lines in a TV show, a girl told her father: "You have a conscience!" "God, how could this daughter be so rude?"

We see in the TV show that this kind of collision between relatives, is very fierce, very unfeeling, and once the relatives, even a passer-by.

Reconciliation between relatives is very difficult, from all kinds of television shows, we see that reconciliation between the relatives of the contradiction is often a failure, even if it is successful, but also short-lived success, will be broken.

Because of the normal reconciliation between relatives, without words, no reservations, which led to their relationship too close, a lot of things too close to the problem, the coefficient of friction will become very large. For example, a highly concentrated nucleus, because of the dense squeezing, will erupt at the critical point, and the destructive force is very strong.

Our acquaintance is the most we deal with every day. Often intimate relationship, in the grasp of the time will appear problems, why the problem? Because there is no line between them, there is no privacy and secret. This kind of secrecy and privacy, once known to the other side, in a certain degree, or in an environment, it is converted into a trump card, he will take your things out.

Many people when they are young, or at a certain stage of the relationship is very close, then turned over the face.

Women in this phenomenon is more common, especially girlfriends, good time inseparable, turned to see the other side as a thorn in the Thorn, behind the slander gossip is very enthusiastic. Because I know you have a lot of privacy, is plausible. Between acquaintances, if they show too close a relationship, there will be a problem.

Be familiar with strangers, and you acknowledge that you are in the same cultural circle. A person can remember the stranger is very limited, you have the opportunity to chat with him to talk, feel very good. I often chat with strangers on various occasions, there is a good thing, is not fortification, no boundaries, can communicate openly. You do not know his gossip, you do not know his neighbors, you only know in this moment of time, have a relationship with him, and you can in some way, taoxin Potter to say something.

The most able to embody this relationship is today's network. Because he can open his heart completely, he can tell his privacy, this is a typical example of a stranger to be familiar. Some words, some things, between acquaintances can not be said, is to be kept secret, is to hide in the bottom of my heart not to see the light. If he said it, his unit will all know that everyone is a trumpet, bad things spread thousands of miles, good things will inevitably change the smell.

Therefore, the stranger's net chat, very can explain the stranger to be familiar with this kind of social relationship essence.

Interpersonal relationships are not as simple as we think, sometimes intricate, like cobwebs, or even mess. If you can consciously understand from the heart, to distinguish, to grasp, you will be able to deal with complex interpersonal relationships, not only can get a clue, but also to do a methodical, what to do.

There is life in the market, the relationship between people in the market is particularly interesting. What is the status of family in the market, long story. The relationship between acquaintances and strangers can be more intuitively presented here. For example, many people in that place bought a lot of dishes, and small vendors are very familiar with, but do not know others name. Sometimes say, "girl, give me two eggplant," "master, said the half catty beans," and so on, the other side is also enthusiastic to greet, as if friends and family general to you, as for that girl called What name, the teacher is where the person, you do not know.

However, you have become acquaintances from strangers, and are just the right kind of ripe.

Relatives want to be born, strangers to be ripe, acquaintances to kiss