| [Post] a letter with four life stories (you never regret it after reading it) Please read in the order of subject:
1. Misunderstanding; 2. Nails; 3. Slow start; 4. Wide 1. Misunderstanding: In early years, a young man got married and gave birth to a child in Alaska, United States, His wife died due to dystocia and left the next child. He is busy with his life and is busy with seeing his house. Because no one helps to watch the children, he trains a dog, The dog is smart and obedient, can take care of the child, bite the bottle to feed the child to drink, raise the child. One day, the master went out and asked him to take care of the children. He arrived in another village and couldn't come back that day due to heavy snow. The next day, the dog immediately greeted the host. He opened the door and there was blood everywhere, Looking up, the bed is also blood, the child is gone, the dog is around, and the mouth is full of blood, The host finds this situation and thinks that the child has been eaten by a dog, In anger, he picked a knife and targeted the dog and killed the dog. Then he suddenly heard the child's voice and saw him crawling out of the bed, Then we picked up our children. Although there was blood on our bodies, we were not hurt. He was wondering what it was about. Let's look at the dog, There is no meat on the leg, and there is a wolf beside it, biting the dog's meat; This is the most surprising misunderstanding in the world. Note: misunderstandings are often caused by lack of understanding, reason, patience, lack of thinking, This happens when you fail to understand each other and reflect on yourself. At the beginning of the misunderstanding, I always thought of the other party's errors. Therefore, the misunderstanding will get deeper and deeper, People get to the point where they can't get rid of it, There will still be such a terrible and serious consequence. This misunderstanding between people makes it even harder to imagine. 2. Nails: A boy has a bad temper, so his father gave him a bag of nails; He also told him that every time he lost his temper, he would pin a nail in the barrier of the back yard. On the first day, the boy pinned 37 nails. The number of dingtalk files is gradually reduced every day. He found it easier to control his temper than to pin those nails. One day, the boy will never lose his patience and lose his temper. He told his father about it, His father told him that at the beginning, whenever he was able to control his temper, he pulled out a nail. One day passed, and the boy finally told his father that he finally pulled all the nails out. My father came to the backcourt with his hand and said, "You have done a good job, my good boy. But looking at the holes in the barrier, these barrier will never be restored to the past. What you say when you get angry will leave scars like these nails. No matter how many times you say sorry, the wound will always exist. The pain of words is as unbearable as the real pain. Note: People often suffer permanent harm due to persistence that cannot be put together. If we can start from ourselves and start to treat others with tolerance, I believe that you will surely receive many unexpected results... opening a window for others, that is, opening yourself to a more complete sky.
3. Slow start: Most of my colleagues are very excited because a new supervisor is transferred from the Organization. It is said to be an expert who is specially sent Business rectification; but every day, the new supervisor did not do anything, every day polite into the office, It is rare to go out in the room. The bad guys who were so nervous now are even more rampant. 「 He's a good guy! It's really a good guy, and it's easier to get started than the former supervisor !」 Four months ago, when we were really trying to disappoint our new supervisor, The new supervisor was excited-all bad guys were excited, and those who could be promoted. It's like a complete change of people to get started quickly and get disconnected. He is conservative in April. During the year-end dinner, the new supervisor gave a speech after three rounds of wine: 「 I believe you will not be able to understand the performance of my new tenure and the future, Now let me tell you a story and you will understand: "I have a friend who bought a house with a courtyard, As soon as he moved in, he comprehensively reorganized the yard, cleared all the weeds and planted his new flowers, One day, when the previous house owner visited the door, he was shocked and asked, "Where is the most expensive peony ?』 This friend of mine discovered that he had used the Peony as a grass shovel. Later, he bought another house. Even though the yard was messy, he could not move, In winter, I thought it was a plant of miscellaneous trees, and flowers started in spring; Spring thought it was a wild grass, and it became a brocade in the summer; there was no movement of small trees in half a year, and the autumn was red. It was not until twilight that it realized which plants were useless, And vigorously eradicate and save all the precious vegetation .」 Speaking of this, the supervisor raises a cup: "Let me respect everyone here, because if this office is a garden, you will all be the treasure in it, It is impossible for Zhenmu to blossom in the beginning of a year. It can be recognized only after long-term observation! 4. Loose: This is the story of a soldier who returned from the Vietnam War. He called his parents from San Francisco and told them, "Mom and Dad, I have come back, but I have an unfriendly invitation. I want to bring a friend home with me .」 「 Of course !」 They replied, "we will be very happy to see you .」 But the son went on again. "But I want to tell you one thing that he was seriously injured in the Vietnam War, With one arm and one foot missing, he is nowhere to go. I want to ask him to come back and live with us .」 「 Son, I am very much left behind, but maybe we can help him find a place to settle .」 Then the father said, "Son, you don't know what you are talking about. People with disabilities like him will put a lot of burden on our lives. We still have to live our own lives, so we can't let them do this. I suggest you go home first and forget him. He will find his sky .」 At this time, he hung up the phone and his parents had no message. A few days later, the parents received a call from the San Francisco police, Tell them that their dear son has fallen to the building and died. The police believe this is only a simple suicide case. As a result, they were heartbroken to fly to San Francisco and, under the guidance of the police, to identify their son's body in the parking room. That is indeed their son, but he was surprised that he had only one arm and one leg. The parents in the story are the same as most of us. It's easy for people who love their faces and have a good conversation, However, it is too difficult to like those who make us inconvenient and unhappy. We always prefer to stay away from people who are not as healthy, beautiful, or smart as we are. But thanks to God, some will not be so cruel to us. They will love us with no regrets, no matter how bad we are, always willing to accept us. Before you fall asleep tonight, pray to God and ask him to give you the power to accept others, Whatever they are, ask him to help us understand those who are different from us. Everyone has a magical thing in their hearts called "friendship 」, You don't know how it happened, but you know that it will always give us special gifts. You will also understand that friendship is God's most precious gift to us! Friends are like rare treasures. They bring laughter and inspire us to succeed. They listen to us and share each word of praise with us. Their hearts are always open for us. Tell your friends how much you care about them. Forward this article to all people you think are friends. If this article comes back, you will know that you have friends for a lifetime. Imagine: you may feel deeply after reading it all the way. Before deciding and judging others, consider whether this is a "misunderstanding 」, Then, consider whether you must pin this "nail 」, If you can, please "Take it easy 」. Because, when you are "loose" to others, you are loose to yourself. This letter... makes sense... I will send it to you... share it with you... just because you are my friend.
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