See "Married wife cost chart" behind misleading

Some time ago, a "Top ten cities in China to marry wife cost ranking" fire all over the country, the list of Beijing to 2.08 million ranked first, Shenzhen followed, Shanghai is no suspense to 2 million into the top three. As a result, many of the people who read this article began to find a good-sounding excuse for being single for many years-the wife was not enough.

A wife needs to pay 2 million of the cost, and in the country is only the third, not frighten people also? And, as the conclusion of these data, is also full of misery and frustration: to the male family 300,000 of the property, men's annual income of 60,000, the man lost his shirt + men do not eat not to drink work 28.5 years = The cost of a Shanghai in the condition of the wife! Grandpa and Grandma married, to half a bucket of rice, and then mom and dad married, to a pig, now we get married, almost the parents half life.

So, is 2 million based? Of course, there is a project breakdown, of which only a set of 90 square meters of the wedding room will be 1.87 million, plus decoration fee of 150,000, two accounts on the breakthrough 2 million. And I found that, according to today's market price, 1.8 million can not buy 90 flat house, now Shanghai average house price is more than 35,000, only the house and decoration costs more than 3.5 million yuan. So the bill doesn't seem to be enough.

The question is, is this bill reasonable? For example, can a millions of of a wedding room be counted as a wedding fee? Don't married people buy a house without spending money? In fact, the wedding room is not just for the expenses of marriage, but also to buy the need to struggle for a lifetime, and is to enjoy the life of the major property, how can be counted as a wedding expenses? If the home had a house, not to save millions of of the expenditure? Besides, why do you have to go to the honeymoon on the new Malaysian Thai wedding? Some people marriage leave not, do not go to work?

In fact, the Internet search a search, the bill appeared in 2010, the next year will be slightly renovated, re-release, in the meantime, the price of each table drinks up, but prices are still 2010 prices, it seems too low. At the same time, we will search for additional bills, one of which said, "The cost of marriage doubled in 40: The 70 's hundred million now requires millions", the entire article only used a typical case, that is, Wuhan City, Ms. Luo to reporters to calculate a book: Ms. Luo married in 1971, the husband's family sent a bike, invited some relatives to sit , the home run three tables, total spent less than hundred yuan. And now, when the youngest son marries, the situation is vastly different. The first woman's home will be 2000 Yuan gift. Next, wedding 3000 yuan, please wedding company 5000 yuan, the land continues to be all money, diamond ring is close to 20,000. Honeymoon travel, daughter-in-law want to go to Bali, two people also get 10,000 yuan. "Let's just forget that 100,000 dollars is not enough." "If you add 700,000 and 200,000 of the cost of home appliances, this daughter-in-law used 1 million to pick up the door." "It's not enough to buy a car," said daughter-in-law, who wants to buy a car about 200,000. This compares to the conclusion that the cost of marriage doubled in 40.

This conclusion is not tenable at all. It is hard to believe that the whole society's conclusion can be reached by the number of a single person. And these accounts are of different caliber and are not comparable at all. For example, 1971 years of marriage costs, 100 yuan refers to the cost of alcohol, and now 1 million, including the purchase of 700,000 of new homes, 200,000 of the cost of decoration appliances, is the cost of marriage 100,000, also includes to Bali honeymoon trip. This comparison does not explain what the problem, not to mention 1971 years of 100 yuan, in terms of its purchasing power, may be equivalent to the current thousands of yuan.

The question now is, even if the data are real, what does it mean? We do not deny that there is indeed a problem of high marriage costs, but if the problem of marriage room is excluded, I am afraid the problem is not so prominent. So is our aim to call for lower prices? Moreover, even if the cost of marriage is too high, what we can do is to correctly deal with the relationship between love and material, according to their actual conditions to determine the cost of marriage, the third party is difficult to lend a helping hand. We are more worried that the release of this list, not only can not solve the problem, but for the growth of marriage costs to fuel, so that the whole society has a theoretical basis: see, the leaderboard is not to say? Shanghai's marriage is at least 2 million.

Most frightening of all, there is information that the national wedding spending ranking is issued by a wedding association, they certainly hope for the rise in the cost of marriage, so that they can share from it. Therefore, the media do not spread this list without analysis, published should also be analyzed to criticize, let people together to resist excessive marriage costs, and not let bad information continue to play a misleading role.

See "Married wife cost chart" behind misleading