Serial "The Life cycle of a program ape"-5. Start an ignorant relationship.

My wife and I are college classmates, now have a son. Now she is home full-time to look at the children, I work full. Originally she went to work far, usually I cook every day, and so she came back to eat. Now she looked at the children, while cooking for me, combined with the current work unit is far away, 40 minutes by car, 80 minutes by car. My parents are still working, my idea is the old man can let them to do it, when really idle down, also old, something to do, old slow. So look at the children's affairs, only the wife of a person, I usually do some auxiliary work, with the wife said is: Bitter me a person, liberate the whole family. It's a little bit of a complaint, but I also understand that.

        There was a lot of love in the class, so far, there were three pairs of married.        2003 years, I was 18 years old and she was one year older than me. Say big, say small not small age. At that time, I like other female classmates in the class, there are other classes of female classmates after me. Because, I am rural people, no power no money, then "Li Gang" is who, I do not know, so dare not chase others, also dare not accept be chased. Men are to be held, unable to suffer the future wife, nor let the brothers who follow them suffer (if developed, indeed).         I couldn't tell her who was chasing anyone, but when the class rotated once a week, I didn't know when I'd be behind her. On the evening study, always have nothing to ask her questions (I did not go to school PA, is also the first two), borrow things like, carefree matter on the ripe. Life is a little emotional, always made, of course, it has nothing to do with flirting.         We meet in winter, I plan to buy books, I casually asked her to go together, who knew she without further ado, agreed. Maybe she was interested in making a date, but she never found an excuse, I think so now. That day is November 08, the weather is good, just the north wind, let people some breathing difficulties, of course, this and whether the excitement is not a penny relationship. 7 o'clock in the morning, we started, into the city, change the bus time, people that call a lot of AH. For those who fall in love, the most afraid to take the bus more people, have the opportunity to start. She rushed in front, can't squeeze up ah, I subconsciously pushed her a bit. It seems that she has induction, fight back will pull me, also can not bushitaiju ah, the logical hand handed over. Sparks are never inadvertently produced, let me think of Qu Ying and Hu Bing played a TV show, two people take the bus, suddenly brake between the hands of two people hold together, the sun shines in both hands, as if God arranged the plot.         along the way, no matter what happens, of course, we have some ideas about how we feel about being conservative. Buy books back the road, out of great things, in the bus station, inadvertently I kissed her, then she did not resist the meaning, again logically further. Some things are not forced to come, some things even if you think is forced, may be in the eyes of others is nothing. That day might have formally established our relationship, but nobody said anything, but it proved the truth with action. If you want to say who chase who, I push her, but across the clothes, she pulled my hand, it is skin contact, then kiss her, I also just direct skin contact a bit, anyway said not clear, general I propaganda, I let herHimself said, hehe.       At that time, I was the monitor, the class teacher had orders, no love. So we can only keep the underground contact, the date is usually outside the school, in the campus is just a classmate relationship, with nothing yes,a little "latent" means . From Monday to Friday, I went to the library on weekends. Later, no late self-study, but the president of the student union, the evening did not have much time to accompany her. She also has complaints, but men should have their own things. This state has been maintained for about two years, until 2005 was gradually known to other students, the last year also did not study well, there is no position, run the talent market, see how many pounds a few two, to verify whether you can find a job. To tell the truth, at that time the brother pocket shy, after the family changes in front, I will not to the home to spare money, one months of living expenses fixed 300 pieces, mother said more give me some, I said enough. A dormitory 8 people, they often go to bag the night (play one Night internet cafes), up to 5 days, I stay, only to study final exam, I as a monitor, only symbolically led them (men and women together) to play in the Internet bar night. Sometimes to the end of the semester, there is no money, several people in partnership to eat, buy two dishes, a few pieces of Shing, a few steamed bread, make a meal.      According to the test results, there are scholarships every semester, 500 dollars, this is the biggest income, buy books, buy clothes and so on. With her, basically a AA system, I asked for a meal, she asked for a meal. In order to show the macho doctrine, of course I spent more, but limited.      This status has been maintained until graduation, each has a little income to change this situation, and occasionally luxury once. We formally married on October 10, 2010, the time of love for about 7 years. One goes through a lot of things, and the follow-up slowly comes.

Serial "The Life cycle of a program ape"-5. Start an ignorant relationship.