one of the six characteristics of a person's immaturity:
- To return immediately
- Not self-discipline
- Be swayed by emotions
- Unwilling to learn, self-righteous, no zero attitude
- To do things by instinct, not by facts.
- Do things not rely on faith, by the way
first characteristics of human immaturity--immediate return He did not know that only spring sowing, autumn will have harvest. A lot of people are doing anything, just pay a little, and will be rewarded immediately. (Learn piano, learn English and so on, just start to feel difficult, found no, immediately will give up. ) do our project is also the same, a lot of people to do this business, began to have no results, just want to give up. Some people give up one months, some people give up half a month, some people give up six months, some people give up a year. I don't understand why people give up on this trend easily, but I know that giving up is a habit, a typical loser's habit. All say you have to have a vision, to see a little farther, the eye is used to see the future. for those who give up habit in life, there is a word that must be given to you: "The winner never gives up, the person who
gives up will never succeed ". So why do so many people do things easily and give up? The famous American success master Napoleon Hill said: the poor have two typical mindsets:1, always say "no" to the opportunity2, always want to " overnight rich" today you put any opportunity in front of him, he will say "no", you tell him the database business, they will not hesitate to reject you. In fact, this is normal, you have to say, and he said three-step semi-life Circle database came, is today you open a restaurant is very successful, you open the hotel's success experience, from the heart tell your friends and family, let them also to open a restaurant, you can guarantee that they can open a hotel? Does anyone else quit? So this is a very typical mentality of the poor, he will say: "You can, I do not." the performance of a wealthy overnight is that you tell him any business, his first question is "earn money", you say "make money", he immediately asked the second question "Easy not easy", you say "easy", then he followed the third question "quick", you said "fast"! Then he said, "Well, I'll do it!" "Oh, you see, he is so naïve!" people think about this world there is no kind of "money, but also easy, and fast", no, even if there is, it is not our turn. So in life, we must know how to give. then why do you have to give it? Because you are in order to pursue your dream and pay, people are for the hope and dream alive, if a person has no dream, no pursuit of words, that life will be no meaning! It's like a fortune-teller who tells you all your life, including when you graduate, when you work, when you get married, when you have children, how you are 40 years old, how you are 50 years old, how your children are, and when you die. Is it interesting that you come back to life? is not a point of no sense, the human is to hope and dream of living. So, in life, what you want to get, you have to give something first. To get the time, you have to pay the time first, you want to get money, you have to pay money first. If you want a hobby, you have to sacrifice your hobby first. You want to have more time with your family, you need to be with your family first. However, one thing is clear, your pay in this project will be doubled back. like a seed, you play it down after, then watering, fertilizing, weeding, insecticidal, and finally you harvest is not dozens of times times, on a hundredfold return. our project is the same! whether in this project, or in life, you must know how to pay. You don't have to be so quick, you want to get rewarded, there is no free lunch, you can not be successful. must know how to give. Secondly, the second characteristic of human immaturity--the non-self-discipline where is the main manifestation of non-discipline? Unwilling to change oneself: You have to change your way of thinking and behavior, and you have to change your bad habits. In fact, the ability between people is not much difference between the difference lies in the way of thinking different, one thing happened, you ask the winners and losers, their answers are not the same, even contrary. Our success today is due to the unsuccessful way we think. a good formula is: when you plant a seed of thinking, you will have the harvest of action, when you put the action to grow, you have the habit of harvest, when you grow the habit, you will have a personality harvest, when you planted the personality, you will determine your fate. But if you're planting a failed seed, you're going to have to fail, and if you're planting a successful plantation, then you're sure to succeed. you have to believe that if someone succeeds in this project, you will succeed, and only the constant action will form the habit, and the habit will be formed after 21 days of repetition. Then insist on constantly take away, will form your personality. Many people have a lot of bad habits, such as: watching TV, playing mahjong, drinking, clubbing, they also know that this habit is not good, but why they do not want to change it? Because many people would rather endure the bad way of life than to change the pain they brought to him, all he did not want to change. willing to talk behind others: If in life, you like to talk about other people's words, one day will be passed back, China has a word of the saying: "People are right
and wrong, timing is non-human." negative, complaining: What kind of people do you like in your life? Are those who frown all day long complaining about the person who complains about it, or do you like people who are happy and generous all day? If you are a complaining, negative person in your life, you must change the flaws in your character. If you do not change, you can not adapt to the society, you are also difficult to cooperate with others. in life you need to know how you treat life, how life treats you, how you treat others, and how others treat you. All do not negative, complain, you want to positive, always positive, is that sentence: the
successful person never complains, complaining about never succeed . third characteristics of human immaturity--often by emotions the success of a person depends on five factors:1. Learn to control emotions2. Healthy Body3. Good interpersonal relationship4. Time Management5. Financial Management if you want to succeed, you must learn to manage these five factors, Why put your emotions in the first place? Put health in the second place? Because if you have a strong body, if you are in a bad mood, it will affect your body. now a person to succeed 20% by the IQ, 80% by the emotional quotient, all you have to control your emotions, emotional impact on people is very big. between people, do not for a little bit of things, on the rampage, this is not good. Just like the action star Stallone said: The past does not equal the present, just temporarily stop success. Anything happens, there will be goals, will help me! You should always say to yourself, this is just my day in the wind and rain temper character. so in life, what kind of mentality do you want to develop? you have to form "Three No", "more than three", (no criticism, no complaining, no blame, more encouragement, more praise, more praise). You will become a popular person in the community. If you want to make your partner more excellent, very simple, always inspire and praise them. even if they do have a problem, what should they do? Should we give them advice at this point? In life you will find this phenomenon: when someone advises someone, others can accept it, but when someone advises someone else, they get angry. In fact , the suggested way is very important, is the "sandwich": praise, advice, praise again! think about it, you praise a few people a day, some people may think that praise is flattery, is flattery. praise and flattery are different, praise has four features: 1, is sincere2, is from the heart3, is accepted by the public4, is selfless If you have a strong purpose to praise, it is flattery. When you praise others, you have to speak loudly, when you criticize others, you must bite your tongue! Four, the fourth characteristic of the immature person-unwilling to study, self-righteous, no zero mentality In fact, there are many similarities between man and animal, and the animal's self-protection consciousness is stronger than that of man (Baby and Piglet). But the difference between humans and animals is that people can learn and people think. people are to keep learning, you must not put your talent potential to bury, must learn, must have an empty cup of mentality. Who do we learn from? is to learn directly from successful people! you should always learn positive things, do not look, do not listen to negative, negative things. Once you have absorbed those poisonous thoughts, it will corrode your heart and life. In this era of knowledge-based economy, learning is your only path to the future. In such a speed, change, crisis era, you only continue to learn, you will not be abandoned by this era,
must have learning, zero mentality. To see the merits of each person, "three people will be my teacher ." the fifth characteristic of human immaturity--to do things by intuition, not based on facts Many people have not started to say that the business is too difficult, not good to do. Some people do, there are a few people did not do, said we this place is too poor, this if the cost of people can not receive, some people say online virtual things people simply do not accept, or if according to my method will be able to work and so on. These are his instincts, but he is not based on facts and does not like the experience that successful people have taught him. In fact, the Hai Han 10 years, is a real enterprise, he does not see the fact that his database tentacles have eyes to the corner of the Shanghai service industry, he can not see this matter; now it is the Internet society, the computer and the Internet will be like household appliances to every family, he can not see this fact , and the Internet business is one of the most promising industries, and he still can't see it, and in 2008, the Internet was worth more than 2.5 trillion, and he couldn't see the fact. the sixth characteristic of people's immaturity--doing things not by faith, by words We say that
believing is the starting point and persistence is the end point. Many people do not rely on faith, like to listen to what others say. I do not have 100% confidence in my own career, believe and belief are two different concepts, believe is visible, faith is invisible. just like Communism, who now sees communism come true, is it not seen by anyone? But someone for the cause of Communism, do not hesitate to throw a donkey, sprinkle blood, give their young life. Because they believed that communism would come true, he did not see the realization of Communism, but he believed that he believed in what he had not seen, and that was a belief! Faith is a human attitude, but a lot of people do things, not rely on faith, but to listen to what others say. you have to climb the mountain, ask those who climb to the top of the mountain, you must not ask people who have not climbed the mountain. I believe many people must have heard the story of "grandchildren selling donkey". Their grandchildren are because they listen to people, and finally even the donkey did not sell! This is not to say that other people's advice do not listen, you can refer to, but you have to remember, you come to do this business is to achieve your dream, to achieve your own value. other people will not care about your dreams, only you care about your own dreams, only you care about your own true success. This is the most important thing! as long as your choice is correct, never care what others say. The above six immature characteristics, you to control, which is the characteristic you have, you must in the shortest time you correct. As long as you believe that you can overcome your immaturity, you will gradually grow up, mature, and you will get the kind of life you want. in any case, must have confidence, believe that they are excellent, believe that they can be in the shortest possible time to mature up.
Six characteristics of a person's immaturity:
