Skills of mature men

Mature men's speaking skills. I would like to share with you some of the skills that mature men need to talk about in their social life to help you achieve a perfect social life.

1. Hurry up and talk slowly.
In case of an emergency, if you can think down and then clarify the matter without hesitation, it will leave a steady and impulsive impression on the listener, so as to increase others' trust in you.

2. small things.
In particular, some kind reminders, which can be told with a joke, will not make the listener feel stiff. They will not only accept your reminders, but also enhance mutual intimacy.

3. Be careful when you are unsure.
If you don't say anything about something you are not sure about, others will think you are hypocritical. If you can say it strictly, you will feel that you are a trustworthy person.

4. Don't talk nonsense about what hasn't happened.
People hate people who have nothing to do. If you never speculate or talk nonsense about anything, you will feel that you are a mature and self-developed person. You are a serious and responsible person.

5. Don't talk about things you can't do.
As the saying goes, "there is no diamond and no porcelain ware is taken ". If you don't promise what you can't do, the listener will feel that you are a "trustworthy" person and willing to trust you.

6. Do not say anything that hurts people.
It is not easy to use words to harm others, especially those close to each other. This will make them think that you are a kind person and help them maintain and enhance their feelings.

7. Don't say anything sad.
When people are sad, they all have the desire to talk to each other. However, if they are sad, it is easy for the listener to experience too much psychological pressure and to have doubts and alienation from you. At the same time, you will leave others with the impression that they do not consider others and want to pass on the pain.

8. Be careful about other people's affairs.
Security distance is required between people, so it is difficult to comment on and spread other people's affairs. This gives people a sense of security.

9. Listen to what others say about your own affairs.
You need to hear more from outsiders about your affairs. One can give you a modest impression, and the other will make you feel that you are a reasonable person.

10. listen more and speak less about Elders.
Older people tend to dislike posting too many comments on their own affairs. If they speak too much, they will feel that you are not a person who respects elders and is modest and studious.

11. Discuss the husband and wife affairs.
The biggest fear between husband and wife is mutual accusations, and mutual discussion will produce a "empathy" effect, which can enhance the feeling of husband and wife.

12. Let's talk about the children's affairs.
Especially adolescent children are very rebellious and adopt a gentle and firm attitude to enlighten them. This will not only make them feel good to you, but also make them willing to become friends with you and play a persuasive role.