[Software Life] Tough life also needs to be bent-two sides of Human Nature

Introduction

For many years in csdn, almost all people think that I am tough to do things and do not know how to do things. Although I have mentioned this in many posts and said this is one-sided, there are not many people who believe it.

Here I will give you some examples, that is, I recently sold second-hand hardware and purchased things in the shuimu community and exchanged post on the Forum. As for the on-site emails, I will not send them, someone may think that I am fake.

1. Is it appropriate to buy a I3 notebook and change the i7cpu in the future?

Http://www.newsmth.net/bbscon.php? Bid = 675 & id = 1430402

Do you think this operation is necessary?
How many people have changed?
What is the possible price reduction difference between i3 and i7 in the future? Can I3 be used only to build key chains?
In the painful process of choosing a notebook, I can't help but ask the elders and buddies to talk about their feelings. Maybe this is a way.

2. Help the younger brother in the same house to sell a set of second-hand hardware. After looking for the great ox and the younger brother to evaluate the value, [out]

Http://www.newsmth.net/bbstcon.php? Board = secondcomputer & gid = 1451349

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The above operations are normal, and the original 80 GB hard drive is left out.
Ladies and gentlemen look at it and estimate the price. It's almost time to get out and change the meal money. It's useless to keep it for a long time.

3. The younger brother in the same house sells a set of second-hand hardware at a price of 400 yuan.

Http://www.newsmth.net/bbstcon.php? Board = secondcomputer & gid = 1451998

In this post, there is a description dialogue about the transaction process: today, a buddy has tested all the machines he said he wanted. Everything is normal. As a result, on the way back, he drove me for a while. His wife called him and said that the old one had been repaired, so he retired. He sent me and the machine back to my downstairs, from the National People's Congress Simon to Peking University Simon. People politely left 50 yuan for apology. After all, I went from Peking University to the other side and carried his car on the display. It took a lot of time. People are very good, very refreshing, not the kind of ink .......

4. When I come back from a business trip, I will continue to get my T43, high-score pop-up screen, and change the new original radiator in January [out]

Http://www.newsmth.net/bbstcon.php? Board = secondcomputer & gid = 1445127

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Finally, I would like to thank the t60 that yut04 sold to me for solving my urgent needs. Boss solo is usually helpful and considerate. Other brothers will not be nominated one by one.

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5. The rest is different. You can search for the same topic in the past.

There was a tough time there, but the post was deleted, and the content of the post was someone who questioned my notebook, 100% is not your own use-because I have clearly stated in my post, so I opened a separate post saying that you dare not bet, I started talking about gambling. Later I said that my life may be too heavy, so I bet 1000 yuan. If so, I would sell this book for 1100 yuan, but I didn't plan to pay more. There are also a lot of people who follow the post. Most of them think that they are not too impulsive. If they don't meet each other, they just admit defeat.

Analysis

People should have multiple edges in their lives, but they have a core nature, which cannot be changed.

I am very polite when I am studying, or when I am weak or need help from others, and I am always very polite to people who have provided me with help. At least till now, these people have not asked me too much. Even if they make a proposal, they can understand it as long as they explain it.

 

In my personality, being rigid is the core. The external softness and Wan turns are in the end to cooperate with the hard display means, and also provide strong support for the external softness and Wan turns, you need to know that the soft and Wan results are often looked down upon, low and complete weakness.

Because I have certain technical strengths in my own industry and technology, and these strengths show that my personal abilities are not weak, I can cooperate with others in a gentle and graceful manner, when discussing and communicating with the customer, the customer will pay more attention to my point of view and will not despise me.

Most people do not know how to use two seemingly opposite personalities and methods to handle and solve problems. As a result, a large number of ignorance and reckless actions have occurred over the past few years, so more people on csdn saw my strong side, such as what I wrote:

Newbie, you don't have to be crazy! : Http://blog.csdn.net/qingrun/archive/2004/11/09/174798.aspx

[Software Life] A small statement on life planning: http://blog.csdn.net/qingrun/archive/2005/03/22/326355.aspx
"[Software Life] not graduated from the University of friends to see": http://blog.csdn.net/qingrun/archive/2005/04/12/343674.aspx
[Software Life] What kind of questions will I answer? http://blog.csdn.net/qingrun/archive/2005/04/13/345240.aspx

Two basic principles for discussion: http://blog.csdn.net/qingrun/archive/2006/03/11/621853.aspx

What kind of questions will I answer and who will help? http://blog.csdn.net/qingrun/archive/2006/12/24/1458530.aspx

[Software Life] How should we plan the life of software technicians? : Http://blog.csdn.net/qingrun/archive/2005/01/26/269219.aspx

 

For so many years, many people have always criticized others for how they are doing, but they do not know whether they have reflected on their criticism behaviors.

Although I am a little overdo in the three provinces of the People's Republic of China, it is necessary to reflect on each period of time.

Someone asked, have you reflected on it?

Haha, I posted another article posted last year to prove my previous reflection:

By an article, the Chinese software industry is actually this status: To the programmer, the pulse: http://blog.csdn.net/qingrun/archive/2009/11/12/4798588.aspx

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To put it bluntly, our group of people are the product of the transitional stage of society. If they are not well mixed, they will become the next generation to die out. If they are well mixed, it may become a leader in the new era. In the past few months, apart from continuing to develop my products and related technical analysis, I began to reflect on what I have done in the past ten years and my complaints about society. I think there seem to be some mistakes or serious problems in my complaints, I have not been able to extract all of them.
Once this year, I went home and talked to my mother about my career. I told her that your generation has lived a very stable career, I have been working in almost one unit or even one department for my whole life. I heard Zhu Jun (the boss of CCTV) on TV over the past two years say that I have never changed my office. How can I do this, in my heart, there is an inexplicable yearning. However, our group of people are the product of the transitional stage of society. We have met all the reforms and learned from the University, from the university to the society, almost all changes were made by people in our generation from 1970s to the early 1980s S. Society may be interested in eliminating a group of people and using our group of people for experiments to provide reference materials for their lifestyles and social patterns. However, no one knows whether this experiment can be successful, however, this must be at the cost of a generation. It is expensive, but must be experienced. We seem to have a lot of complaints about society, and we are eager for stability, but for various reasons, we are not stable, because the transition of society from a stable extreme to another extremely fluctuating extreme is exactly our career stage. After this extreme period, our society will continue to move towards a stable life, but at that time we may have retired or even died. We are the product of social changes. The benefits of such changes often come from those who have taken the initiative to leave the traditional system. However, more people will lose everything they have, including life, love, family, etc. Those who can rush out and stick to the final victory may be masters of the future, this is the backbone leader in the future society, because the experiences of this group of people are the data that lays another foundation for the future and is the original driving force of social change. I don't know what we can do for the country at the end, or when we can accept the country's entire system. However, this process is inevitable, with less complaints and more practical work, this is what I can do now, at least I have been sticking to it.

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Last

One reason for writing this article at this time is that there have been fewer voices of criticism recently, and perhaps less attention. When the voice of criticism is a masterpiece, it is out of my strong personality, I will never write or publish this text, which also reflects the strong and uncompromising personality to a certain extent.

In addition, the company was established and will focus on the promotion of the company's business in the future. It is estimated that the time will be around two years, at the same time, some of the past methods will be applied within the company, so as to obtain data, observe the results, and perform direct improvement operations, most of the improvement operations after the previous consulting and training were indirectly involved, and no data was directly obtained for analysis.