Now I am in an awkward age, I can't afford a room, I have no wife, and I am in another generation that is about to be eliminated. I am confused.
But I recently chatted with a senior in the company, which really benefited me a lot. He helped me analyze the current problems and gave guidance with his own experience. It is very helpful. Thank you very much. Although I have a lot to improve. Although I am still naive sometimes. But imagine the future, and I will become a senior of others. I believe that the future will be beautiful.
1. A working programmer cannot work until he is in his forties. At the same time, the company will only consider the overall interests and will not lose the company's interests for the sake of personal gain. Therefore, when completing the company's tasks, try to improve your ability in your spare time.
1.1 building a personal image many programmers have begun to turn to management later, but this is difficult for some of them. This is what I do. Practice has proved that I am not suitable for management.
Therefore, you can try to write more technical blogs and share some new ideas. Continue to develop in the technical direction.
More than 1.2 people have access to experts and circles of interest to see how they do it, and then do some simple code or examples to show themselves. Learn from the industry's Titans.
1.3 Technology Promotion lecturers can combine technology and speech interests. Share more videos about the latest technologies. It is not suitable for development in the management direction.
1.4 don't have time to learn? For this question. The answer from the predecessors is: Squeeze more time to learn. If you want to have a better life in the future, you need to work harder.
1.5 don't look at a young tree. You can try different directions.
2. I am worried about the issue of separation from work in marriage. At home, my family kept reminding me. On my own side, I don't know what I want. On my side, my friends around me gradually took off their tickets one by one. On this road, I am also confused. Summing up the experiences and analysis of my predecessors, I think marriage may make a person more mature.
2.1 think about the future without looking at the present. She will be able to feel secure in the future.
A man has to give a solution, and now his condition is really bad. However, you can imagine. After your own efforts, you can become very good in the future.
2.2 confidence to show your best side
2.3 have their own standards. It's not just about finding one.
2.4 ask her for help first, and then ask her to come out for a meal separately to thank her.
When I have time, I will tell her, what are you doing? Let's have a meal together ~
2.5 ask her about the topics she is interested in and think about the topics she is interested in ~
Some Opinions on work and marriage-guidance from predecessors
