In the world of life, there must be loss. You should be yours, not yours. Do not force it!
I often think that I know myself very well and do everything right. If I make a mistake, there are always ten million reasons and excuses. It seems unreasonable to say that this is a common problem of people born in 1980s, I was born in 83 years. I also had this problem. Even if I made a mistake, I was proud to be rational. I was able to adjust myself in the spirit of Ah Q. After all, I had to escape and be irresponsible, here I want to reflect on myself.
If you want to change it, you must sum up the past, learn lessons, and always think that you have learned many things in college over the past three years. Now, you can think about what you have learned, but you know more about it than others, what is there? For example, in my journey of life, I only need to hurry up and stay ahead of people. I don't know whether the world will come sooner or later, but I miss many things along the way, what do I want? A person's life, no matter how high you are and how rich you are in the future, is a life after all. What we want is a process, and a wonderful process is enough, the results are important, and the process is all.
In the end, you don't know yourself, you don't know what you are doing, you are confused, you don't know how to choose, what is life, the pursuit of life is not just wealth and privilege, from now on, I will be a rich person.