Stop complaining and be an e who is soaring

Stop complaining and you will be able to stand out from many competitors. Don't be a duck, be an e, the duck will only grack and complain, and the e will fly up and down in all beings.

Wayne Dell-prudential zeling

 

The world we are in is full of complaints. We will complain that the exam is very difficult, that our superiors are stingy, that our subordinates are incompetent, that the company's environment is poor, and that our life is poor ······

 

Of course, I believe that when I write this article, some people may just be bored because of others' casual words; some may just get angry with others for their contempt and ridicule, and imagine in their minds how to retaliate against others. They may be angry with their superiors for management failures; may be furious with subordinates because they are not enterprising ······

 

In the context of complaints, we cannot block the baptism of reality at all, that is, complaints cannot change the facts at all, nor solve the fundamental problems.

 

Complaints have negative effects on ourselves, and they disrupt our original positive subconscious. Just before writing this article, I just went to my colleague and she was looking at the soft test knowledge, as if she was looking at the standardization, performance evaluation, and intellectual property rights knowledge, when I got there, she complained, "what do you think of this? How can I write it down? They are all boring things. I want to go to bed at first glance !", From her complaints, I can notice that she has been plagued by complaints. Her original positive feelings have vanished, and she has stopped or slowed down her work and made a bad sensation for herself. Over time, it will directly affect her learning and her mood and mentality. We are surrounded by such examples, and we are all like this.

 

When we try to get sympathy and recognition through complaints, we will find that our interpersonal relationships are getting worse and worse. Because no one will like a negative or negative person, and no one is willing to listen to their complaints and bad temper all day. Such complaints may spread and affect the work and process of the entire team. When we feel unhappy and depressed in our hearts, we do not have to choose to complain. Complaining is the most poor method. We can choose to go out and relax and find a place to cry, you can also worry about wine, and then review yourself, review the world, and make yourself confident and always powerful.

 

Therefore, really strong people never complain. They can always calmly look at the world, examine themselves, and ultimately achieve themselves.

 

I saw such a story on the Internet. The content of the story is as follows:

 

Once, at the airport, a taxi stopped in front of me. The taxi driver got off the bus, opened the door for me, and handed me a beautiful promotional card: "I am Wally. I will put your luggage in the trunk. You may wish to see my service purpose." I looked down at the card in surprise and wrote the purpose of service: "in a friendly atmosphere, our guests are delivered to the destination in the quickest, safest, and most economical manner ."

Before driving, woli asked me, "Do you want a cup of coffee? My Thermos bottle contains coffee and coffee with decaffeine ." I thought it was fresh and interesting. I smiled and said, "I don't drink coffee, I only drink soft drinks ." Woli smiled and said, "It doesn't matter. I have regular cola, cool, orange juice ." I was a little surprised: "Let's have a pot of jianyi Cola ."

Wally handed me cola and continued: "If you still want to watch something, I have the Wall Street Journal, times weekly, sports pictorial, and today's USA." He handed me another card, "Do you want to listen to music broadcast? ." It seems that this kind of service is not considerate enough. He asked me if the temperature of the air conditioner in the car is suitable and gave me the best route advice for my arrival.

I think it is getting more and more interesting: "woli, have you always served the guests like this ?" Woli smiled and said, "No, I did this in the last two years. Previously, like other taxi drivers, I complained about it most of the time. Until one day, I heard about the new book "Prudential spirit" published by Dr. Wayne Dell, the inspirational success guru. Dell said: Stop complaining and you will be able to stand out from many competitors. Don't be a duck, be an e, the duck will only grack and complain, and the e will fly up and down in all beings ."

He decided to be an e ". He began to observe other taxis and found that many taxis were dirty and the driver's attitude was also bad. So he decided to make some changes.

 

This story tells us that when woli decides not to complain, his normal life will become extraordinary, because a good person will never complain.

 

Finally, let's end with Dr. Wayne Dell's words-stop complaining and you will be able to stand out among the many competitors. Don't be a duck, be an e, the duck will only "cool" complain, and the e will soar in the universe.

 

The ducks who complain about it are waking up. From today on, let's stop complaining and turn themselves into an amazing e in the group of ducks.