The 23 most valuable rules in Gracien's Book of Wisdom

Everyone wants others to think that they are important, which is the desire of humanity. Everyone wants to be appreciated by others, so they always look for opportunities to express themselves. Everyone is less concerned about other people's concerns or interests than their own concerns or interests, the only exception is related to themselves. The two things that everyone is always concerned about in life are happiness and success. But the biggest problem is that you often doubt your abilities and distrust others. Do not provoke the dignity of others. If your attitude makes others feel contempt, it will hurt people deep. It is only when others feel that you attach importance to him that he truly associates with you. Most people make decisions, often with emotional overtones, but rationally defend themselves.

This sentence means, usually done, but few people will admit it.

The wisdom of ordinary people is limited, they just have a little bit of cleverness.

It means not to ask too much of others ' wisdom.

People with common interests are naturally willing to be very close. People want others to understand, and often neglect to understand others. The vast majority of people want to criticize others, to guide others, but do not want to be picky, be pointed out by others. People tend to be only close to people they are interested in. Everyone generally wants to be able to communicate with people who help themselves in some ways. Common interests are the basis of communication. The so-called communication, is the exchange of interests. People are jealous of the heart, this is the pain of fools. In real life, most people like to follow others blindly. A lot of people always think they are right, they are better than the average person. Most people think they are smarter than others. In plain life, we tend to frustrate individuals ' inertia. Our greatest enemy is our own. We always have trouble controlling ourselves. Our enemies are often found and manufactured by ourselves. Few people are willing to really admit it, unless the situation is forcing everyone to care about what others think of themselves, although the majority is verbally ashamed to admit it. Most people have a lot of dissatisfaction with themselves in their hearts. The true wisdom of the people, not to criticize others, not to criticize others, is not a cynical person, but to let themselves live a peaceful and happy life of the people. Maslow's principle: People's desires are constantly rising.

Pain comes from the desire not to be satisfied.

Platinum rule: Intercourse is centered on each other.

This is said to be the first law of modern communication. So, to quit the habit of self-centered. When you are interacting with people, especially when you are just beginning to talk to people, find out more about each other's interests and good things. One sentence: A good communicator is a person who creates performance opportunities for others.

Carlo Law

When you encounter misfortune, you tend to be most likely to get friendship and sympathy. When you succeed, you lose your friends; The tipping point of your sudden success is the crisis of interpersonal relationships. The pursuit of perfection can be done, but to satisfy a hypothesis is that you are in the circle of the absolute weak.

Summarize

People do everything for a purpose. Each goal ultimately points to itself or ultimately to the satisfaction of its own interests.

The 23 most valuable rules in Gracien's Book of Wisdom