The alternative role of mind Mapping

How to get along with people better, "what people want you to do to them , and how you treat them ." From the study of the needs of others, and then adjust their behavior, the use of our wisdom and ability to make others easy and comfortable.

In order to create good interpersonal relationships, this requires us to do good for, intentions to operate, through a variety of ways and channels to fully understand the interests and needs of others, and then in the process of interpersonal communication as far as possible according to each other's hobbies and needs, to create conditions to meet each other. For example, we travel in the field for a long time, when we come back, we usually bring some gifts to our family members and colleagues and friends. But sometimes, we often take a lot of effort to bring things from far away, others do not like, the result is laborious but not pleasing. How can we use the law of self-discipline to deal with my interpersonal relationship? A Relationship Mind map can take care of it. Here's how:

(1) Draw a box in the center of the mind map that can represent a gift, or other pattern.

(2) according to the number of people who need to buy gifts, draw the corresponding number of branches on the first layer, and well write their names on the branches.

(3) draw the second layer at the back of each name,Il has three branches behind each name, and write " Hobbies "," likes " and " Disgust . "

(4) after the second branch, continue to draw the third Branch, and on the corresponding branches above the other's hobbies, like and nasty things, objects.

(5) count the same or similar items and categorize them, arrange the time, and purchase them crazily. If there is no such thing as a necessity, it can be substituted with items of special commemorative significance.

(6) do the labeling, choose the day to the home, distribute goods, accept their thanks.

We can further the brain and expand its application. For example, when we ask a group of friends to eat together, we can also use this way to put everyone's ignorance and favorite dishes out, I believe that even if you take the order, you can point to everyone has a favorite dish. Other aspects of the application is more so, extrapolate, to use their brains. The biggest secret of interpersonal communication is that only when someone knows that you are really concerned about him will he be willing to let you know more about him. Through mind mapping to care for others, to truly understand the needs of others, your family will be sincere and friendly.

(originating from: Xmind Tutorials )

The alternative role of mind Mapping