The courage to take responsibility _ the weakness of human nature

My little girl, Donna. Dale has just learned to walk. One day, as she climbed up to the fridge, she moved a small chair to the kitchen. I hurried over to hold her, but there was no hurry, she had fallen to the ground.

When I picked her up, she kicked the chair in the face and scolded, "The broken chair is your fault." ”

In fact, such things often happen. The child is more willful, obviously is her own mistake, but should be angry at those inanimate things or innocent bystanders, even think that this behavior is normal.

But if we take the practice of children and bring this behavior into adulthood, it will be a big problem. Since ancient times, there are many examples of their failures and mistakes pushed to others, even Adam also blamed Eve said: "Because of this woman's temptation, I eat the forbidden fruit." ”

The first step to maturity is to be willing to take responsibility. We are all out of our own fall to the children of the chair, we should face life, we are responsible for ourselves. However, it is indeed more difficult to do so; blaming our parents, bosses, teachers, environment, husbands, wives, children is much easier, and if necessary, we can also blame our ancestors, the government, or we can have a good interface, that is to blame the lucky god of injustice.

In short, they will complain that their wives do not understand them, that the fate of God with him, always let them lack of luck, as if the whole world is against their own enemies. In fact, they are looking for scapegoats for their mistakes, rather than trying to overcome difficulties.