The millennium potential rule is broken

Why do some people fall into poverty?

In this world, talented "poor" is everywhere ". They are only able to beat each other, learn more than five cars, and even have the ability to go to the ground, but why did they end up in the end? However, many people who do not have any talent can become famous and be proud of the spring breeze? We have two shoulders and one head. Why is our life so different?

The reason for this is the world of humanity! To some extent, whether or not we know the world of human feelings determines whether a person's life is full or poor!

To understand people, to understand things, is called the world of human feelings. Language clear · Huang Xiaoqi "carrying Prosperous Dream" 30th back: "It is a natural world, turning cold ." Whether it is politics or work, it depends on the accumulation of life experience. What is the accumulation of life experience? The four simple words are "the world of human feelings ".

Everyone who succeeds can understand this point without exception. They understand the essence of society and the potential rules of interpersonal communication, know what the other party needs, and what the other party is thinking-think like a fish if they want to catch a fish! You can hardly see him busy, but in the dark, he has achieved his goal. What is their successful password? It's actually very simple. It's just four things!

People who come out to mix up must understand the world! This is the most basic requirement. If you do not understand the world of human feelings, what else do you need to mix? From the very beginning, it was doomed that there was no possibility of success. It was just a waste of energy. A person who is familiar with the world, even if he is less competent at the beginning, is still promising when he gets out of the box, as long as he has mastered this unique stunt, sooner or later, we will be able to usher in a turning point of destiny. Even if you are a martial arts master, if you do not understand the world, it will not last long, and it will certainly be nowhere to go. This is truth. As long as you think about it, you can come up with many facts. You will find that real smart people do things just right, without leaking water, not only reap the benefits, but also fall behind the beauty of the name; while some people just have a bad mouth, a lot of help others, but none of them said that he is good and has cultivated many enemies around him. This is mostly because we do not understand the world.

Life is easy, life is easy, and life is not easy. Everyone must face brutal competition! Because they do not understand the world, many hero Stars who have made great contributions in history finally fell to the end of the fight-they did not fall under the enemy's sword, but they died in their own hands. Blood is splashing, and your brains are everywhere in the world. Even if there is, regret is too late. They had a brilliant life, so they had to handle it. How can we not understand the painful advice written with blood and brains?

It is difficult to mix out. If you are not careful, you will be miserable and accomplish nothing. If you fail in your career, even if you are the only one to fight and learn more than five cars, your career will be worse than a dog! If your career is successful, even a bag of wine will be touted as a genius! This is the cruelty of reality. There are too many Chinese people and there is too much pressure to survive. If you want to mix well outside and create a name hall, you must make yourself understand the "mixed" game rules. Indeed, life is like a game. People who do not understand the rules of the game will eventually die hard to see, and those who are familiar with the rules can have a good time in the game, have fun and play everything you want!

This is a book that dares to tell the truth, a book that will break the rules of the millennium!

Everyone who comes out to mix should read it!

Advice written by our ancestors with blood and brains

There are no friends forever, no enemies forever, and only benefits forever. The essence of human interaction is actually interest exchange. If you do not understand the principle of interest exchange, and all the benefits are swallowed up by yourself, even if you are shocked, you can only become useless white paper!
Never look down on those who seem vulgar now. A few years later, they may be the best people.

Feng mantao is not enough to eat-this is the advice written by the ancestors who fell behind with blood and brains! Anyone who makes a big career should cultivate the power of "Hiding Dew. When Wisdom is wise, when ignorance is foolish. When necessary, it is wise to pretend to be "inferior" or "confused.

The old man on the flyover can pretend to be a master by taking his beard and fooling the seemingly savvy people. Why? The nature of human beings tends to circumvent evil. This inherent nature can be completely erased and eliminated after reading the Three-character Sutra for a few days. If you can find a normal person in this world who does not know how to circumvent evil, I will not hesitate to give you 1 million!

From an alternative perspective, the human nature of dislike Poverty and Wealth promotes social development. If everyone prefers poverty and backwardness, who is willing to do physical work? Who is willing to engage in mental creation? Where can I eat, wear, use, and live? In this way, society will stagnate or even go backwards! Therefore, we should regard dislike poverty and wealth as a normal phenomenon in society.

Why should others give you their hard-earned lunch? In other words, will you give your hard-earned lunch to others? If you don't think so, why do you believe others can do it? Therefore, instead of setting your hopes to others with no justification, you should work hard to earn your lunch!

In the face of those who are silent and angry, we need to be very cautious when talking about things and cannot rush to expose our cards to him. These people often have a deep understanding of the city and have a lot of plans. If you do something wrong, it is easy for him to grasp the handle and use you in turn!

Most friends and friends can only share the same suffering, but cannot share happiness. Between the boss and the employee, most of them can only share the blessing, but cannot share the trouble.

People are afraid of being smart. If you are too smart, you will be blind, and you will not know the depth of the sky, so you will be forgotten. At this time, it seems like a very smart person is actually half a fool!

The vast majority of the people suffering from ancient and modern disasters are smart people. Today's people are afraid that they cannot be smart to the extreme. This is stupid.

When a beautiful woman shows off her beauty, she begins to become ugly. When a smart person shows off his cleverness, he begins to become stupid! A talented person starts to become worthless when he shows off his talent!

If the profit of 10% is reasonable, you can get 11%, but it is best to take 9%, because only in this way will the subsequent business be merged.

People in the officialdom must be careful and always pay attention to it. Even if you have been honored for most of your life, if you make a big mistake at last, it may be ruined in your life. Life is so wonderful. Being human is like farming, and the final harvest is the evaluation standard.

"It depends on the top and the top, and on the bottom, and on the bottom, there is no income ." That is to say, if the expectation at the beginning is first-class, the final effect may be only the middle flow. If the expectation at the beginning is only the middle flow, the final effect can only be the last flow. If the expectation is only the last flow, finally, nothing can be obtained.

In some special occasions, some smart people take the initiative to give the role to others, and they are willing to act as a secondary role. This is not a failure. It can even be said that this is a strategic victory. What he gives is only the virtual name of the main character, but the real benefits he wins.

There is a saying: "What is missing ." Although the Chinese people call the mean, they go to extremes everywhere in real life. For this reason, the State advocates a harmonious society. Its core meaning is the doctrine of the mean, so that the world cannot be extreme or extreme.

For a Chinese, how precious life is, and how precious face is. If you give him enough face, he will give you everything! But if you hurt his face and self-esteem, he will hate you and push you to the opposite!

Do not criticize others in an emotional way. Pay special attention to the case and avoid evaluating others' personality, interests, and family education. If a solution can be proposed during criticism, it will be more constructive and never forget to affirm the strengths of others. In addition, if you can use humorous language in your criticism, the effect will always be better.

Listening to sweet words is a weakness of everyone. No matter who you are, it is easy to be fooled. Almost all women in the world like to hear sweet words. Many women marry wrong people because of their sweet words.

The best emotional investment technique is to make a fortune in the snow, not to make a fortune.

In the first place, I would like to give my subordinates an opportunity to learn how powerful you are, and then gradually increase the scale, so that they are grateful for your concession and easygoing experience. This is the CEO's management intelligence.

No matter how ugly the other party is, we need to let the other party finish the conversation and hear what he wants to express.

God always loves those who are silence and forbearance. When we were young, we don't have to be jealous of others. As long as you do things persistently and actively and conscientiously, everyone will welcome their own success!

To catch a fish, think like a fish. No matter how much you like a strawberry, the fish will ignore it. It will be bait only with the worm that the fish loves.

A person who gives favor to others should not remember this matter, nor publicize it and let others praise it, so that even the payment of a fierce fight can be rewarded. A person who helps others with his/her belongings and always asks others to return to him. Even if he pays two hundred thousand yuan in gold, it is difficult to have the merit of one cent.

There is a classic formula: desire-strength = degree of pain. When desire is far beyond strength and cannot be realized in any way, it is easy to get angry when one is the most painful.

When a person is proud of the spring breeze, it is often the most dangerous.

Good things should not be swallowed up by one, but should be shared with everyone.

Narrow Path, leave one step with the pedestrian; when the taste is strong, cut by three points to let people taste. This is a world-related MUSIC method.

When the road is narrow, you need to leave one step for others to go. When enjoying a meal, you need to share it with others. This is the best way to achieve success.

When I was a child, my father often told me: "Do not eat delicious food by yourself. You should give it to others as appropriate. Otherwise, if your friends do not play with you, others will hate you, the benefits will also put you aside." At that time, I seemed to be knowledgeable and skeptical about these things, so I always had to fight for the dead of me.

When I grow up and step into the society, the practical polishing and complex interpersonal relationships make me fully understand the profound meaning of this sentence.

Only by understanding this truth can a person discover the reason why a successful person succeeds. For example, when children get together to play games, when one of the children is hungry, they will take out delicious cakes from the bag. At this time, he has two options: Give them to everyone, or swallow them by yourself. The choice is made instantly, but it can lead to completely different results in a lifetime.

1. Give it to everyone. His friends liked him and supported him because of their food. From this moment on, he has stood out among his peers, become a well-deserved leader in this small group, and will become a strong appeal in the future.

2. Swallow it by yourself. If no one is present, they are all put into their own mouths to eat. It's his cake. It's okay. However, everyone treats him as a stingy guy and no one will play with him later. He lost a chance to become a wolf in his team, and lost the trust of his team. He turned to another narrow alley. Along this track, he may be an ordinary person in the future.

A casual choice determines a person's life. If you understand this truth, will you still despise the necessary sharing? You need to know that not all things are just as brave as possible. You can share with others at the right time, so that everyone can gain benefits. In the end, you will win the championship!

In many cases, the relationship between people is not a single-choice question-you don't have him, but multiple choices, which can achieve a win-win situation. Some people do not understand that they only know that the fish are broken, not that you are dead or that I live. Examples of winning fame and winning success are often staged around us. This kind of person will never realize that, if necessary, one step can bring more benefits to himself.
There was a young civil servant who graduated from a prestigious school and was talented. Wherever he went, he took a stock index and gave up his/her own momentum. He thinks that others are useless and do not deserve to be compared with himself. "I have the strongest capacity, so I deserve the most ." He always thinks this way, and the benefits won't be shared with his colleagues, so everything will take the lead.

What are the results? Colleagues in the Department joined hands and formed an alliance to compete with the "excellent talent". They joined hands to break down the corner and drag him down, causing him trouble everywhere, no matter how selfless and conscientious you are, I will not cooperate with you. A person is in this environment, and it is more difficult to do something!

In the end, this young man's work is of course not good, and he has hit the wall wherever he goes. His talent cannot be used in his belly, and he has not even complained about it! As a result, the leader has a bad impression in front of everyone, and his colleagues have no pity. At this point, the Chair assigned by the Unit should be taken back.

I only want to protect myself, but I have nothing to do with it. Are you sorry? There is a saying: "The world has no friends forever, no enemies forever, and only benefits forever ." This statement indicates that the fundamental problem between countries and between people is actually the distribution of interests. Knowing the distribution of interests actually reveals the essence of human nature and the truth of society.

"Cai Gen Tan" has a saying: "Human Feelings are repeated, and the world is rugged. If you do not want to go anywhere, you must take a step back. If you want to go anywhere, you must make three points ." This means that the world is changing, and the road to life is bumpy. When the road to life fails, you must know the principle of giving up one step. When you are walking past, you must also give them three points of convenience so that you can be successful and smooth.

Leaving one step for three points not only leaves a living path for others, but also a great way to broaden interpersonal resources. Today, you let him step by step. Tomorrow, he will pay you two more steps, which means making a good friend and opening a convenient door to success in society. If you do not understand the principle of balance of interests, and all the benefits are swallowed up by yourself, then even the shocking talent can only be useless white paper! If you learn sharism, the benefits will be distributed to everyone, so that everyone's psychology can be balanced, so that everyone will certainly work together to help you succeed smoothly.

Everyone who is successful knows this. Most of them are spending a great deal of money, so that people who follow themselves can get benefits, so that they can go through the fire. Even the most savvy businessmen follow this idea. For example, if a large project is clearly capable of undertaking it, it should also be developed by partners to show its "stay one step ahead, taste three points, declare that you are not the kind of person who has broken the road of wealth and exclusive fortune.

This is exactly the case. Only my sole respect is the most dangerous. It is the King's path that everyone has to drink! This practice is a "hidden rule" that China has been pursuing for thousands of years ". Whether you understand this practice determines whether a person's life is not smooth or not!

It's easy to eat without food.

Ying liru goes to bed, and Hu Xing is like a disease. It is exactly what it means to attract people. Therefore, a gentleman must be smart and have the power to be arrogant.

The e seemed to fall asleep, and the tiger seemed to suffer a serious illness when walking. In fact, this is the best way they eat. So smart people must be able to do things without showing off or showing their talents.

It's easy to get rid of food. This is the advice written by the ancestors who have fallen behind with blood and brains! Unfortunately, many people do not understand this truth. They think that they are smart and superior in ability. They can see who is the bean curd residue. Only they are flowers and nothing is in their eyes. Such a person is most likely to lose his or her life.

Everyone has heard of the phrase "real people do not show their faces, but they do not show their faces", which means that the real smart people do not show off, but wait for the time to give an astonishing impression. It is good to be talented, but it cannot show off on top of your head all day. Just like wealth, it is certainly a good thing to have money. But will you wear gold and silver and carry money boxes to display them on the street every day?

Talent is the foundation of a person's success. A talented person can have a lot of opportunities to show his or her performance. A incompetent person cannot succeed even if he or she expresses himself or herself openly. However, if a talented person shows off himself too much, suppresses the performance space of others, and damages the interests of others, it will inevitably lead to the consistent hatred of everyone. At this point, his future and career will be very dangerous, and he may be pulled down at any time!

Zhuge brother in the late Three Kingdoms is the son of ZHUGE Jin, his brother. After the name of his family, he was strict with his tutor. when he was very young, he showed the agility of his talents and extraordinary talents. Everyone thought that his talents surpassed his father Zhuge Jin. But Zhuge Jin does not feel happy to have such a good son, but feels that Zhuge Jin will bring misfortune to the family. Why? Zhuge Jin said: "You are impatient and self-occupied, and you are too fond of yourself. You are too arrogant and will eventually lead to disasters ." As expected by his father, Zhuge was born to take power and thought that he was the best in everything and that no one was in sight. In the end, Zhuge was furious and killed by the design of Ministers. The family involved was also destroyed.

In this world, outstanding and crowded people can be seen everywhere. Their talents are in their hands, just like having a famous sword of the world. Everyone will boast about it and wave it around in their hands for fear that others will not know about his amazing talents, dumbfounded yourself as a target for humans. They could not see the fire pit under their feet, so they fell in without knowing it.

Talent is like a double-edged sword. It can stab others and hurt yourself. Therefore, you should be careful when using it. You should usually stick it in the sheath. In many cases, Feng mantailu will lead to the hatred and frame of the villain. Anyone who makes a big career should cultivate the power of "hidden Dew. Hong yingming said in "Cai Gen Tan": "The article is good, but it is just right ." The use of intelligence should also be the case. It is just right to use it. When wise is wise, when foolish is foolish, and foolish is also a kind of wisdom. When necessary, it is wise to install "underachievers" and be "confused.

When a person encounters setbacks, he may complain-why is it that I am so talented? Heaven is really unfair! Is heaven really unfair? That's not why he doesn't understand the basic world. All of this is caused by him. Should he be self-reflective when facing a defeat in his life? Have you done too much? Is there no one in sight, too much emphasis on yourself, ignoring the feelings of everyone? Are you sure you think you are smart? If you think about it in this way, you can find the crux of the problem, and then treat the disease. After the epiphany, it will actually become mature!

Turning on "24th History", we can easily find countless loyal ministers killed by villains using conspiracy tricks. On the one hand, it is because the villain is too fraudulent and cruel. On the other hand, it is not because the victim does not understand the wisdom of yuzhuzhu? They are arrogant, talented, and empty-eyed. They don't put their colleagues around them in the eyes. It's strange that such people don't drop their heads.

In the Western world, there is a saying: "the intelligence of the French people is hidden inside, and the intelligence of the Spanish people is exposed to the outside ." The former is really smart, and the latter is false smart. In interpersonal communication, we must not be smart by ourselves. We must learn to be smart. Instead, we must know what we do not know. We only know what we do not know. We only know what we do. In this way, even if we are only able to fight, we are still empty-handed!

When we walk in society, each of us must master this kind of low-key, tolerable, and out-of-the-box approach. More careful consideration, less sharp exposure, do not take out the "baby" in your stomach as all the beans. If you don't understand this, there will be more treasures in your stomach, and it will eventually become something else's bag!

When the rabbit is in a hurry, it will bite people. Never put your opponent on the road.

He wants to let him go. If one of them has no capacity, such as the point rat, and all the paths are exhausted, all the good things will be broken.

Remove evil people and put an end to evil people. Sometimes they should be given a new life path. If the other party is forced to have a foothold, it is like blocking the exit where the mouse can escape. It will blink all the good things to you when there is no way to go.
Why do rabbits bite when they are in a hurry? You know, a rabbit is a gentle animal, and it will never fight back. However, if a person is forced to be on the road, he will be desperate!

Because of this reason, you can't beat a stray dog. If you are in a hurry, you will rush to fight with you. Do not chase the enemy because it is difficult to fight and struggle, which will cause unnecessary harm to you. This basic knowledge is essential for people to do things. You can also benefit from leaving a living path for each other. Some people like to fall into the rocks and kill. As a result, the opponents will never stop, and their foothold will become narrower and narrower.

During the Eastern Han Dynasty, the generals began attacking Huns. This hunnu Cavalry has only 500 people who flew from the desert to snatch the food of common people during the autumn harvest. But shortly after they entered the customs, they were surrounded by the soldiers and horses of Dou Gu in a valley. The Chinese army blocked the exits on both sides of the valley, but it attacked the valley more than a dozen times in a row and could not annihilate 500 people in the area. The Huns formed a circle, hiding behind the stone, and repeatedly setting arrows out. The grain mouth was filled with the bodies of the soldiers of the Han army.

Dou Gu saw this scene. He ordered the men to remove the soldiers from one exit and set aside the other exit. The subordinates are puzzled: "General, the enemy is in a encirclement, that is, the wings cannot fly! Besides, there are only several hundred people in the zone! As long as they attack for a few days, they will be able to win them all! I wonder why you want to let them escape ?" "Of course they are not allowed to escape ." Dou Gu said, "Now they have no way back, they must all move forward and fight for death. What's more, the vegetation in the valley is flourishing and the water source is sufficient, and they are also sleepy. After a long time, even if our army wins in the end, it has suffered heavy casualties, so we need to release them and kill them in pursuit ."

The situation was indeed as expected by Dou Gu. After this hunnu troops escaped from the valley, they saw a new path and ran away desperately to the north. It was like a stunned bird. The formation was dispersed and the hearts of the people were in disorder, no one is thinking about turning back to the Chinese army. The Han Dynasty cavalry led by Dou Gu kept a certain distance behind them and repeatedly shot and killed them with bows and arrows. In less than a day, the enemy of this invasion was eliminated.

Soldiers are born after death. It is easy to understand this truth. If we put the enemy on the road and don't see any hope, they will break into the boat and let us get a break. At this time, all the enemies are tigers, and all of them fight against each other. It's not that easy for us to win! Even if it finally wins, it has already paid a huge price and won't be any benefit.

In history, examples like this are not uncommon. During the Spring and Autumn Period, Yan attacked qi with joy, but jimo city did not. They are surrounded by endless attacks. At this moment, Qi Jun was on the verge of dying. Suddenly Qi's star Tian Dan shouted, "the country is about to die. How can we still have a home ?" As a result, the soldiers had the determination to swear to death and return to the country. Let us assume that, if guanyan army is able to release the other party's path when attacking jimo city, they will compete to escape their lives. How can they ensure morale? Even if you try again from another place, the opposite party will be able to cope with failures, just like a shocking bird. It is also the easiest competitor to deal with. It can be said that it is the weakest link. How can I deal with this process with a single cut?

This is also true in business scenarios. Niu Gensheng, president of Mengniu, said: "Do not beat your competitors down the road, or anger him easily ...... Do not do stupid things that damage people by one thousand !" This is often the case. When we are aggressive and force our opponents to escape, we often fail to make money on our own, or even make a final profit. Because when the other party has no way to go, it will surely give us a fatal blow like a rabbit and an e! In this way, even if we beat our opponent, we were not hurt. In this way, even if it is not a victory, it is an undefeated defeat.

The boss of a trading company in Shanghai is doing a very good job in business. Using the "big fish eat small fish" Merger strategy, the company has eaten more than a dozen local enterprises, large and small, formed a large group with local monopoly. One of his favorite poems is Mao Zedong's saying "we should catch up with Shengyong and never learn overlord ". The attack was so hot that there was no room for expansion.

However, this has offended many people, especially those who have lost their current financial path and have no chance to find another way. Just as the company's business was booming and its reputation reached its peak, some of his defeated rivals gathered evidence of collusion and dark box operations in an investment, reported to the Economic Investigation Department. This domineering business empire collapsed in an instant.

This principle applies to people. We will always meet people of all kinds. Many people may expose their weaknesses and mistakes. At this time, if you keep your foot on it and seize others' mistakes to the end, you will not be given a face, do not give the other party a step. In this way, the other party will fight against you, tearing your face to the end, either he or she will die, or you will die! Not only can you not be normal friends, but may become enemies of generations. This is very detrimental to the expansion of your network, and will seriously affect your future career development.

We must understand the rule of "never let your opponent go to nowhere. For small mistakes that are harmless, you should give the other party a space for adjustment and correction. If necessary, you can even cover the other party. In this way, what you get is not only heartfelt gratitude, but also the support of everyone!

For example, we can cite 18 historical human feelings that each of us may use in our daily lives, which are often ignored by many young people.

1. Even if we are not big people, we can often talk to them in the attitude and tone of advice. Because people cannot look at each other, many practical teachers and friends often come from inconspicuous life and work.

2. Take the initiative to order food when eating. It is not suitable for the host and the main guests to order food, because it is not a common task of distinguished people, but please pay attention to ask their preferences, instead of just ordering what you love. However, we need to study menus and accumulate experience in ordering food.

3. often find friends, partners, and colleagues (or even children) worthy of recognition. Note that even if the boss needs to be affirmed by you, try to be private, and should be publicly praised by ordinary friends and at the same time.

4. When others praise your own appearance, affairs, and character, do not take it for granted or falsely deny it. The proper way is to express gratitude, in particular, I would like to thank my friends for their recognition and support.

5. Learn to use the note, including the debit, receipt, claim, and application letter. If you actively use the note, others will feel that you are very standard, and if you know how to ask others to do so, you and the future will better deal with them with evidence. Writing notes will make others look at each other.

6. Even if you are not a service engineer, you may take the initiative to pour water when a friend or colleague has a guest. This will make friends and colleagues face each other, it will also make the guests feel that your friends and colleagues are very prestigious. This will make your friends and colleagues very grateful for your attitude.

7. Although you feel that you are a newbie or a relatively low-performing person, you must be brave enough to ask questions and take the initiative to ask the needs of others, rather than waiting for leaders or senior colleagues to show you affinity, because such performance often requires special efforts.

8. Remember to help others answer and record calls, receive emails, and send messages when they are not in their seats. Remind the team's colleagues and classmates of important schedules you know.

9. After consulting with others, they can access others' rooms, View others' bookshelves or indoor items, and use others' computers only with the consent of others, sitting in someone else's private seat, but usually don't flip someone else's notebook.

10. An invitation is required to attend the event. If you cannot attend the event, you should notify the owner of the invitation. If you are late, you must notify the owner at an appropriate time, an uninvited friend is required to notify the master beforehand.

11. It is not suitable to ask for a gift from others. If you receive a gift from others, whether you like it or not, thank you. Because the courier will care about your response, it is not suitable to transfer a gift to another one, in particular, it seems very rude to retain the symbols and traces of the original courier.

12. When there are multiple attendees, you can introduce your friends to others or take the initiative to lead between friends you know.

13. If you have friends of different positions, always smile and greet those introverted, unnoticed, and possibly a bit of inferiority, the help of the weak in social networking will be especially appreciated by others. In other social scenarios, for people with low social status, especially when you have the living conditions and habits you cannot adapt to, you must restrain yourself from the discomfort and negative expressions you want to show. Greet people with lower social status as much as possible.

14. Don't eat your own food when you have good things. Take the initiative to tell them the good news you know and think of others when there are good things.

15. If someone has done something wrong or you find someone else has done something wrong, do not criticize others in a disruptive way. Pay special attention to the situation and comment on it, avoid evaluating others' personality, personality and family education. A solution can be proposed during criticism, which is more constructive. Do not only criticize others, but do not forget to affirm others' strengths. If you can be humorous during criticism, the negative effects will often be less. If you are criticized or embarrassed, you can laugh at yourself and improve the constructive communication.

16. haokan's loss. However, in many other cases, if the problem persists, do not add fuel to the fire. Calm down and collect more data and materials.

17. When you are not sure, answer others' invitations in the tone of "Strive for" and "try as much as possible", and promise to fulfill the invitation to the maximum extent.

18. Although we are talking about business, we should do our best not to do anything for others in return first, so as to win a sense of credit that is psychologically superior to others. The social status of a person is the sum of the social debt of others.