The mood of the divorced years, the words of the divorce consolation

The years of divorce are unbearable.

Life there is a part of the past, or happy or sad, but can make you unforgettable most of the pain of the heart of the sad story, now back to think of that period of dark time, the mood will also fall into the bottom, two years actually slowly came out, People have a period of time the most painful than their marriage, the most painful marriage is those who swore to accompany you to the old man, in one day but personally said to you, I can not accompany you to the end, we divorce it. Time past so long, today can finally calm down to say that the previous story, is a memory, can not be erased from the mind, you also want to record it down, forever stay in this vast network, perhaps years later you remember that you have been the article.

Harmonious days after about 3 years, one day he suddenly proposed to divorce, my head is also blindfolded, why, three years out of the first 2 years before the more harmonious outside, the third year feel he wants to be changed a like, always for some trivial family broken things quarrel, and beyond the fierce, the last thing to fall, The chairs in the house have been broken several times, a man can do this thing, I also served, the most important thing is that he came home again 12 o'clock, I said he, he unexpectedly and I quarreled, the more noisy the more fierce, left after hit me a punch, I was hurt breathing can not come, but he unexpectedly like a zombie, To me, this thing hit me particularly hard, that night, I sleepless all night. Thought of countless times also with him the idea of divorce, but is not to say export.

After a long time I often go back to some divorce dating network-companion app bubble, see everyone about the understanding of divorce. Will look at the articles about divorce. Suddenly feel divorced woman really good pity, divorce really is nothing. All right, let's write this, time is slowly writing.

How comforting is a friend's divorce?

Tianya where there is no grass, there is no better, you can transfer the topic, let him not to think about those things, but see how he adjusted, after all, the internal factors determine the external causes, oneself figured out what things can, oneself think not how others how to persuade also not, let time wash everything

How can a friend of mine be comforted by divorce?

You're not him. Your comfort to him is only superficial.

The inner adaptation needs to be smoothed by himself.

Of course. At this time he could not be separated from the companionship of your friends.

Don't make him feel like everyone's left him. Don't neglect him.

Divorce may be emotional discord.

Maybe separating is the best choice.

My friend is getting divorced, how can I comfort her?

The old do not go new not to come, this is vulgar, but think carefully, is he gave up you, and do not make any retention, which means he does not care about you, and in his mind when he did not care about you, he chose to give up, rather than leave you around, this is not just a relief, imagine, if all day to this one does not care about their own people, is not Sad, he lost is a care about him, care about this family woman, and you lose is a, do not care about themselves, and also disregard the man of home, so think, it is better, you can take her to scattered, and she said to talk, do not let her feel lonely or helpless, can, after all, now divorce is not a rare thing, And it's better later.

The mood of Divorce

Big strong and small Yan finally to divorce, folding toss eight years later, two people's marriage road finally to the end. Little Swallow did not work, early run to the Civil Affairs Bureau to prepare a variety of information, busy half a day, 11:30, big strong to work, small swallow picked up a phone to big strong dial a phone, big Strong said taxi to Civil Affairs Bureau, let Small Yan don't hurry. Xiao Yan put down the phone thought, the original date are reluctant to play, arrived, to do divorce certificate, to willing to play, really ridiculous.

The big strong is coming soon, small Yan far see big strong hurried footsteps, went to the door to big strong waving, two people meet, said laughing to the counter walk to the formalities, sit in the table behind the home elder sister, a listen to them is to do divorce, raise a suspicious to the big strong and small Yan looked and see, look at two people happy look, Elder sister said still think they are to lead a marriage certificate, two people listened to elder sister words, laugh don't know say what good, after all, divorce is not worth celebrating.

Two people took a divorce card, together out of the Civil Affairs Bureau, Xiao Yan said she wanted to eat roast duck, home not far from the place a hotel's roast duck is particularly delicious, usually reluctant to eat, now divorced, go to eat once, is a break-up meal, big strong no rebuttal, with small Yan to the restaurant to eat roast duck. The restaurant people eat in a heated, small Yan and big strong heart is sour. Little Yan point the roast duck and a few side dishes, but also a bottle of white wine, small swallow let big strong eat more, big strong let small swallow eat more, after, two people who do not speak, bow down drinking, ticking, tears dripping in the glass ...

Big strong say, swallow you cry What, you always want this "green card", now all in the bosom, the happy is right, Xiao Yan said, do not know why, divorce card to get hands, suddenly do not know where to go, heart empty, said the small Yan on the "Sweet Honey", it is small Yan and big strong love, two people often sing songs, At this time, Xiao Yan from humming this song, two people in the heart are not taste, the past of the beautiful film in the mind to show. Xiao Yan said big strong your hair will be stripped, time is really fast ah, just met you, you a beautiful come-in roll, hair black to shine. Big Strong said also said those have what use, you later have what plan. Xiao Yan Silent, drank a big mouth wine, said big strong I now no work, no home, in addition to a divorce certificate nothing, I want to learn to drive, get a driver's license, I also want to live in your that a period of time, big Strong said.

Out of the hotel, the big Strong went to work, may be drinking sake, headache up, stumbled to the company, the afternoon work is busy, big strong to leave the divorce to work, until work, only think of their own divorce, and restore the single era, how do not want to go home direction, Walk along the road casually, seemingly have a goal, but do not know where the front. Small Yan from the hotel and big strong apart, is also a person aimlessly wandering in the street, the mall three a group, two a gang, the boy held a beautiful girl to laugh and laughed to pass, she some sad, can have a think, what Ah, children always think love is good, wait until fresh strength, only left daily necessities time, Know what the weight of love, so think of the heart is flat, calm and balanced. The signboard of a silver shop impressively writes "Only for Pure Love", the silvery font sends the black black light, how all is not bright, the small Yan thought, and so on the day, knew the love the ridiculous, Pure love, sees your ghost to go! Small Yan feel very hot, in a cold drink hall sat down, to an ice cream, big mouth eat up, do not know is too ice or other what reason, swallow eat eat on the heart empty, no appetite, but the stomach but empty sad, an ice cream did not eat, hurriedly checkout left. Out of the ice cream shop, Xiao Yan suddenly feel very poor, tears in the eyes of the circle, she low head hurried forward, for fear of others a glimpse of the secret of the Heart, divorce, small Yan is very sad, although this is the result of their own has been wanted, the purpose has finally reached, but not like the joy, but more sad.

Xiao Yan thought back home, and the big strong all kinds of dialogue, but opened the door, only to know that everything is in vain, dark inside the house, big Strong didn't go home. Small Yan washing toss half a day, busy, an ear but listen to the sound outside the door, corridor several times the door switch "Bang bang" sound, small Yan to the door to look at, finally did not see big strong figure, small Yan lying on the bed, thinking of the big strong all kinds, guessing big strong whereabouts, listening to the door outside the voice. Big strong night a person in a big row stalls in a little wine, on the side of the hotel room to sleep, he did not know how to go back home to face the small Yan, meet I am afraid is embarrassed and sad bar, not meet is the best choice.

The next day, the company prepared to send a strong business trip, the big strong loose tone, this can confidently leave, do not think how to face the Small Yan, he went home to pack at noon, the road also wanted a variety and small Yan talk way, muster up the courage to open the door, the home surprisingly quiet, everywhere there is no small Yan's figure, the big strong heart collapsed

The mood of the divorced years, the words of the divorce consolation