The so-called ideal state is very narrow in one aspect. Now, on the subject.
The ideal state is two people feel good, just fine. The rest, whatever.
Destruction of the ideal state: such as non-weaning children, such can not be, such as no civil capacity, need to have a guardian, such as: Brother Sister brother Sister, cousin Cousin Cousins, colleagues, classmates, friends.
And that's not going to be. Because there is no independent capacity, once into society, it is necessary to find a root stick, otherwise it will not stand.
The above is only dependence, is passive destruction.
And there are many ways of destroying it. such as active destruction, above these guardians objection, hostility, speculation, discussion and so on.
There are other ways, such as routines. Did not follow the pattern to destroy the expectations.
So what about the author? Single Wang, do not do so, or Wang bark, why? Because it's so different, I can't find it. The author is a conscious person, is not a routine in the first to a sap, and then give you a candy to eat can coax good people.
The routine is like the student must have the teacher to urge to study, the teacher herding sheep words, will not learn. The author is not such a student.
The author does not allow the above role of the speculate, evaluation, no knowledge of the ability of the detour, after the whining also want to East, never allow!!!
The ideal state does not allow doping