The last day of March August

People like me with IQ and EQ are most likely to lose their way.

As a matter of fact, if you lose your mind, you just don't have a long-term and clear goal. If you choose too much or make a little change, you won't be able to find your direction or control your daily pace.

The so-called clear goal is to understand the specific goal. The "OK" requirement seems simple, but it is hard for most people, including themselves, to do so. We are always saying that our plans cannot keep up with the changes and take a step by step. No matter in our life or career, we use such an excuse to perfuse ourselves.

 

What should I be clear about? Understand what kind of person you will become and determine what you will do in the future. Adults should be able to realize what they are after the age of 25 or six, but they often do not want to understand what they are, and it is even more difficult to determine what to do.

 

The simplest phenomenon is actually an example we may encounter. Many students go out to work after reading Junior High School, and of course we continue to work in high school. When we finish reading high school, those who go out to work have seen through the society and many female students are married and have children; when we were at the university, our students had a monthly income of over when they started their own business. When we graduated from college, our students had a prosperous career. Later, when we were thirty years old, we achieved the social experience of those who had started to the Society early at the age of twenty ......; finally, we hung up and others were still alive.

 

I believe many people have such feelings and frustrations. However, this logic is often used to avoid details rather than simply talking about the results.

Every successful person in the eyes of others is a case. Whether it is a person who can succeed after graduation from junior high school or not, or a person who can succeed after graduation from college or not, whether he is born a person who is handsome or successful, we can't even copy the process of their success, because their success is only a case. The key lies in yourself.

 

People who do not have a clear goal gradually go to the awkward situation, and feel that it is difficult to do anything. They curl up in their own small world and sigh with self-pity.

 

People need circles and mentors in life.

Zhou jingen of the garden, Kai zongli School, founded the "agile individual" method system and guided many people to practice. I have never attended his class, but I just learned something from some of his courseware. If you practice it according to his guidance, it seems that he is your mentor, but you are actually your mentor. You know exactly what changes you need in your current stage of life, you need some guidance from others to help you make changes. Those who have learned from him will not all undergo earth-shaking changes. After all, he is only responsible for the ferry and not for the arrival of the bank. The key is to guide yourself and clearly determine the next step.

 

It's impossible for everyone to become the boss. However, everyone must become a manager, manage themselves, and manage the team.

Back to the sentence that Bacon said: "thinking determines behavior, behavior determines habits, habits determines character, and character determines fate." The thought cannot be managed, as long as you live, new ideas will be generated and lost. To manage yourself, you must first learn to manage your own behaviors.

How do we manage our own behaviors? Every step taken by most people is driven by the power of the example. For example, when we see no traffic between the two sides, whether it is a red light or a green light, we will learn others to start crossing the road.

Let the chaotic and passive ideas control their own behaviors. In the end, they will fall into the fate of fatalism, And they will say, "No way, this is your character. This Is Your Life ", but you can't forget this. It may be difficult to live, and luck can be pursued.

 

Sometimes I envy those who have been in the Alibaba system. They have been given the baptism and cultivation of their outlook on life and Methodology (many people call it brainwashing) and learn to focus on doing one thing well, what I understand is professionalism. Some people are worth their money only because of their personal resources. Most people are worth their money because of their professional qualities. A person's good professionalism means that he has mastered the effective method of pursuing success. This is the way to change fate.

 

The last day of March August