The thickness of life lies in the accumulation

Length refers to the duration of a person's life, natural life. As long as you develop a good habit of life, as long as you do not encounter mishaps, the length of life of each person is generally equal.
　　
Thickness refers to the quality of a person's life. Each of us naked come to this world, in addition to the innate disability and other irresistible factors, the level of intelligence is similar, but look around the crowd is not difficult to find: There are some sunshine, some people are dark, some deep, some people are superficial, some noble, some people mediocre; Some people live in an indefinite house, begging in the street; Man, why is the difference so big!

Willing to learn and accumulate knowledge in learning.
　　
The rapid progress of the times, the acceleration of knowledge update frequency, requires people to pay attention to learning than ever before. There is a more common view that: only 20% of the knowledge of a person's life is personal practice, and another 80% needs to be acquired through learning. With the popularization of computers, the development of the Internet, the prosperity of the publishing industry and the rise of various educational institutions, it has provided unprecedented conveniences for people to learn new knowledge and acquire new skills, and the crux of the problem is that people are unwilling to study. In the Western Han Dynasty Liu to "said the court building this", there is a period of spring and Autumn period of the Monarch Shinpei Public and the blind music Shishi about learning dialogue, very meaningful. Shinpei Public asked Yu Shiyang Yue: "My year 70, to learn, fear has been twilight." "Shi Yue:" Less and studious, such as Sunrise Yang, strong and studious, such as the light of Japan, old and studious, such as the Ming of the candle. What is the difference between the light of the candle and the ignorance? "Ping gong Yue:" Good. According to Shi, teenagers like to study as early as the morning sun, in their prime when they like to learn, as in the noon time, when old love to learn, like the light of a lighted candle. The light of the candle and the Secret walk, that good? The answer is self-evident. From this perspective, regardless of the age of the people, should establish continuous learning, lifelong learning concept. It is better to learn than not to learn, to learn better than to learn, to learn more than to learn less. Of course, the specific to learn what, how to learn, according to each person's situation and needs.
　　
Will compare, in the comparison to understand the affair.
　　
Frankly speaking, the present society is more complex than before, people face a variety of temptations, many people are non-discrimination, honor and disgrace, black and white upside down. In the past, laughter and prostitution did not laugh at the poor, many people now laugh at the poor and not laugh at prostitution, the past has been despised by some people, but now some people are talking about, advocating the added. In the complex and pluralistic society, each of us should learn to compare, learn to choose, find a reference frame in comparison and choice, and establish the correct life coordinate. The ancients has long warned us: "with copper as a mirror, can be dressed, with ancient as a mirror, you can see the Xing, with artificial mirror, can know the gains and losses." "History and reality provide us with a principled reference to whether there is a desire for truth and beauty in each of us," he asked. No matter how society develops and changes, no matter how others, we should keep the basic value judgment that the mainstream society recognizes, must not blindly compare, imitate in lost direction, lost self.
　　
Be cautious of solitude, perfect life in the discretion.
　　
Modern society provides more free space for people. Although in this space all can be controlled by you, but if the lack of self-control, lack of a minimum of human norms, it is very likely to make you a gray life. Some say that the difference between people is eight hours away. In this eight-hour space, in addition to the personal affairs that must be dealt with, entertainment needs to have degrees, social intercourse to be different, small talk to moderation, more time and energy to improve your survival ability, put in expanding your career. In a dream of red mansions, there is a saying: "Adults uncomfortable, comfortable not human." "A person who is particularly accommodating to himself, particularly tolerant, and particularly indulgent, is not capable of an amplifier."
　　
No matter on what occasion, a person should be self-policing, self-discipline, especially in the individual alone, can do "the wealth of the non-rationale, not the matter of reason", you will have a different life.
　　
Think well and be right in your thinking.
　　
People this life, in the not sensible time, by the parents for us to make the decision, when we indefinitely, always think of ourselves to make decisions. In fact, each of us is in one of the "decision" in the old, but also bear the "decision" results. Therefore, in daily life, especially in the life of every threshold, we should be good at thinking, correct decision, to grasp their own life. The ancients said: "Journeys by chance, destroyed in the following," "learned, interrogation, careful thinking, discernment, Benedict", has revealed to us the importance of thinking and the relationship between thinking and action.
　　
On the question of how to think, we should talk about it later. The only thing to say here is that a person must not be hasty in making a decision, but must be thoughtful. Those who lack calm and rational decision, those who rely on personal character, brotherhood, regardless of subjective and objective conditions to make decisions, will undoubtedly harming lifelong. And then again, whether the right decision can be made depends on the knowledge and experience of a person, which requires learning and accumulation.
　　
Experience, and in practice to increase talent.
　　
"On paper to get the final feeling shallow, know this matter to preach", "Do not view high cliff, how to know the fall of the suffering?" How do you know that there is no drowning in the abyss? Do not see the sea, how to know the suffering of the storm? "All these things are to be practiced in person, to be practiced," he said. How can you do anything without doing everything? As the Qing Dynasty scholar says in the "do garden bundle of words" in the note: The epigenetic home every pro-business, Merlot Yue: "I will not do", this big fallacy also. What do you do and you don't do it? Again, to do a thing, said: "And to Tomorrow," and this is also a great fallacy. Everything to do is to do, if blindly, big mistake for life. The paper also cites the "Tomorrow song" of Qian He beach: "Tomorrow will be a day, many tomorrow." I am born tomorrow, everything is wasted. The world is suffering from tomorrow tired, spring to autumn to the veteran. Look at the Shuidong flow, the twilight look at the West pendant. Hundred years tomorrow can geometry, please listen to me "Tomorrow song". "How many people in the day-to-day, year after year, do nothing, and finally have not won!"
　　
Diligent experience, for most of us, is to start from the small things, even from those who are despised by others to do, do not want to do big things all day, do not indulge in fantasy, to know that big things are accumulated by small things. "The wood of encircle, born in margins, the nine-storey platform, begins at the base of the Earth; "As long as we set out to say, do not refuse small things, diligent, not only dare to dare to do, and down-to-earth, will certainly be able to make a career."

The thickness of life lies in the accumulation