These unreasonable details are the true meaning of marriage.

In public, the husband always pulls her hand and proudly introduces her to her friends: She is my gentle and beautiful wife. This made all her girlfriends envy.

One day, a girlfriend came to tell her about the misfortune of marriage. My girlfriend said that she liked to open windows when she was at home, but she didn't like to open windows. She kept closing the windows while her husband was not paying attention. Her husband became increasingly indifferent to herself. She listened quietly without saying anything. After hearing this, she took her girlfriend to the study. Study
There is a huge picture hanging in the background of the famous football field in Shanghai. In the photo, she was happy with her husband. Her smile was as dazzling as the flowers. Her girlfriend had a question: "Do you like football ?" She calmly replied, "No, I don't like football. I only like reading books and raising flowers ."

She took her girlfriend to her bedroom and opened the door. There was a strange scene in front of her eyes: The floor was green, and Ronaldo's portrait was hanging everywhere, even the sofa towel is printed with a football pattern. My girlfriend raised a bigger question about what he saw: "You don't like football. Why are you setting your room like a football field ?" She still replied in a calm tone: "My husband likes it ." My girlfriend is getting confused: "But you don't like it !" This time, she smiled and asked: "Think about it. For a football player with a diameter of only 45cm centimeters, it hurts the man who spent so many days and nights with me and accompanied me through so many ups and downs, is it worth it?"

When her girlfriend was touched, she suddenly remembered the American writer Samuel Johnson's understanding about marriage in his novel: "The success of marriage depends on two people, one person who fails is enough. There is no absolute happy marriage in the world. Happiness only comes from unlimited tolerance and mutual respect ."

That evening, his girlfriend opened the window early and stood in front of the window waiting for her husband to appear in the field of vision. The next day, at the moment I went out, my girlfriend finally saw her husband's long-standing smile.

In fact, many people do not love each other in marriage, but do not understand from the very beginning: Marriage is never a world of one person. For love, they join hands in marriage, no one does not love anyone, but who cannot adapt.

No one is perfect, including those who fall in love with each other. At this time, two people need to change and accommodate each other for another person. If a woman never adapts to the snoring of a man, and is used to sleeping without his snoring, This is marriage. A man is used to a woman's willfulness, coquetry, or even unreasonable behavior. This is marriage. The long days of marriage are hidden in the seemingly insurmountable details.