Things (9): interpreting your survival rules

Yesterday, I chatted with a friend who had just finished dinner at the company and was very depressed. I learned about him intermittently. Due to the poor wage income, the stock market almost lost yuan, and the family's cost of living is under great pressure. According to his claim, he has seriously affected the stability of the family.

My friend's experience is very typical. His current situation actually raises an extremely realistic question: How do programmers interpret their own survival rules?

The first way: we generally have a stable job as the main source of income. In addition, there are generally some additional incomes, such as stock market volatility, private work, or partner entrepreneurship.

Of course, there is another way: if you don't have to consider survival issues and concentrate on high-level management in a certain industry, it's quite attractive, although the road is crowded and tired, there is no bus stop for the spring festival, but the end is satisfying. Different from the Spring Festival, almost everyone can get home, and only a very small number of people can finish this road successfully. The experience of failure is called life fortune. The experience of success is life of wealth! Therefore, for the vast majority of people, this path can be cultivated and cannot be forced to seek results.

We may still have to start from the basic work of stability. People have passed a certain age. For example, if many people like to mention the top 30 levels, their mentality will change slowly. Please note that they are from the inside out. First, they feel like they need to change, then the boss also felt that they needed fresh blood to supplement your work, so they intentionally or unintentionally put pressure on you, which further intensified your battle. My friend is at this point. There is an old saying: "There are many horses, but bole doesn't ". It means that there are many talented people. The key is to have the ability to recognize talents, and only bole can recognize talents. Bole has very few, so a large number of thousands of horses are buried.

Complaints can be made. People need to vent their emotions, not suppress them. After venting, there are two results:

One is: feel comfortable, continue to live, more immersed in technology.

Another type: Keep summing up and find breakthroughs in the realm of life. The most important thing is to make real actions.

Let's take a look today. What exactly is the problem?

　　First, find the problem from yourself.Someone said that to be found on the beach, you must be a shell, not a grain of sand! I think the most important reason for today's dilemma is that we are a hundred miles rather than a thousand miles. Of course, some people are dedicated and versatile, but they are still not thousands of horses. This is too demanding for bole, because there are too many baili horses. Every year, millions of incremental traffic from schools flood into the stables to snatch grass. bole is powerless even if he has the heart, don't say hello.For NBA players, Bishop training will not customize tactics for you. Only the core is qualified to let the coach pay for brain cells for these tactical designs.. So,The primary skill of bailima is chinamoocs.At least know where your slot is, where the grass is most secure, and more importantly, know where you are most likely to be seen by bole.

Here is a suggestion:Even if internal cultivation is the key, pay attention to the appropriate external manifestation.. We often see people talking in interviews or other public occasions. The first thing is, the image is pretty handsome. Few people think about how much effort these people have made in addition to Huigen. Three minutes on the stage, and ten years of work on the stage, it's really not a good man. We often make two types of mistakes: too closed or too inactive. If the program is too closed, the programmer of the Greater China region will always stick to it and talk to people. The three sentences will be related to the program, no matter whether the listener is interested or annoying. Everyone on the Earth knows that it is very hurtful to develop technology in China. It is a bit like a sunflower collection. No, it is even worse than a sunflower collection, and it also loses a lot, at least training that stuff will give you the best pleasure in the world. Today's reality is that, for a long time, my thoughts are closed. Most people will only suffer from depression and elimination. (Not absolute. Don't settle your account with me .) Wine is not afraid of alley depth, how much ignorance of the death of a word. Those who are too sinky will lack the depth of city government and human beings, and will not be able to hide things in their hearts. They will put all their emotions on their faces. When they say this, they will not be able to say this when they are in silence ,, I forgot the old saying "The curse is coming out of my mouth ". Another way of thinking is to take care of your skills, read your books, cultivate your own unique analytical skills, observe the interests of team members, and try to make things effective and demanding, it is called "Hangzhou qingqing ". You will get unexpected things.

IQ, EQ, and financial business are essential to the success of modern people. IQ, reflecting the viability of ordinary people. Emotional Intelligence reflects the viability of a person in a society. Financial companies reflect the viability of modern economic people. Here, I admit that some people have high IQ. However, to be honest, there are a few silly people dealing with programs. This should be one of the most elite groups, but many people do not pay attention to their own strategies and methods to present them, just play it out. Therefore, the gap between the IQ of most people is not big. The gap between the EQ can be compensated by the understanding and cultivation of the day after tomorrow, while financial businesses may be the most lacking. There is no place to learn. Failure is even more costly. This is our environment.

　　Secondly, we must have a keen sense of Slot selection.Maer's life cycle is not long, not to mention the troubles of unexpected factors such as disease, it is not easy to maintain the level of hundreds of miles, so we must constantly choose a good slot. The significance of job-hopping is to get a bigger slot, which is more suitable for your slot and customized for you. Since the reality is that "a thousand miles of horses are not often used, Bole is not often used", let baili Malay have fun. If you are working on code, data, and architecture in a team, you will not be able to get a growth return here due to problems such as the company's business strategy, your efforts have been float for various reasons, so try another slot. Of course, the premise is that you have a stronger running ability. This is based on two reasons: 1. It is applicable for individuals and teams to move people to heights. Individuals do not adapt to the team and are eliminated. Similarly, if an individual grows too fast, the Team stops or progresses slowly, and the team is abandoned. This is the natural law of society and a benign competition. 2. According to the needs, there are five levels in a person's life. Each stage of life should have a higher pursuit. The highest goal should be the realization of self-value. The 30-year-old is just a mark, a mark that has risen from a certain level. Who will pay for the job-hopping? It depends on whether you represent a position or an irreplaceable ability. If it is a job, the team has no losses. If it is the latter, the team suffers a huge loss. Of course, there are also skills to jump. The key is a mature mind and confidence. Xiongguan mandao is really like an iron, but now it's a step forward from the ground up. Confidence comes from action.

Here,If you just change the channel, you may never get the accumulation of value.Because you only serve one boss. Most of your income comes from this. The level of his business realm directly determines your value. You are passive. Therefore, the monthly invitation suggestion is: Since bole cannot be found with lanterns, you may wish to add more slots. For example, Buffett, Bill Gates, google's founder, sergib burlin, and Larry pages ,****. Which of the following experts is good at financial management because they only work for a company? They are good at multi-channel investment, from 0 to 1, and from 1 to 1,000,000 or more. This is where they are, and the charm of financial companies. They know how crazy it is to put all the eggs in one basket.

In addition, social factors may be more important, but it is a more complex system. It is more complicated than the neural network of the Tree of the soul. We do not have the energy to go into it for the moment. But do not forget that your cultivation is a prerequisite.

Conclusion: In the program world, survival is the top priority and the first level. If decoding is correct, the system continues to upgrade successfully. Failed to interpret, It is a wordless Over ending. The year of the tiger is approaching, and this article serves as a summary of the Year of the Ox. Here we invite the moon to wish all the hundred miles to enjoy their good deeds and success! I wish you all the greatest strides!

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