Three days to attend the wedding

Listen to these old classmates so much experience, although there is this person envy, but more is sigh

Monday, the morning is still thinking about the problem in the paper, which angle to start, in the afternoon, took a car hurried to see the classmate's wedding, the day to the time has seven points, and then, I eat what also need to take, but a lot of trouble, the only people feel gratified is, see an old classmate, beautiful, he to the relatively late , I accompany him out to eat a meal, have to say, new area of mutton Paomo still so let people miss, like eat a happy, if, I now live there for some time, estimated will become fat.

Evening accompany beautiful dinner, by the way drink a bit of wine, he is more talkative, and, I am interested in his experience, so, two people, naturally, the communication is very deep, first said, he in my heart impression, high school, he is the teacher in charge of the person, brain smart, people also flexible, academic performance is better, but, College entrance examination, always rude, also tuition for a year, and finally on the college, the purpose of the college is to enter the state-owned enterprises, but eventually still be squeezed out of other relations, in this period, made a lot of girlfriends, there is an already to the degree of marriage, but the physical examination of the disease, and then, the Girl initiative to separate He but hesitated, so, finally no longer contact, out of school, his experience is also colorful. At least, I hear, think is very exciting, but, in fact, he is not good, when the mechanic, do reverse telecommuting, and, also, and study, no relationship, say some of the views, I have not recognized, and, for a lot of things are more one-sided understanding, and this feeling, and my high school has been following the same brother, Out of school early, in the social mix of time on, but, now many ideas, we have come to a very big difference.

My ideal, they are in high school, are learning and good, but also by teachers and students, now, forced to make a living, and, have developed a lot of bad habits, such as, never to learn, learn theoretical knowledge. In this, a sharp contrast is another family environment than the better students, after graduation has been doing the comfortable work of the family, do not worry about life, but, obviously he is also aspiring to youth, usually also read a lot of books, I was surprised that last year he unexpectedly devoted to participate in the logical thinking of the cross-year speech, and, will be specialized to understand a lot, many views, although not professional, but, thought has been quite high, at least, I am not catch up.

In addition to my classmates feel sorry, I have been, in thinking, how not to do so, as to ensure that there is a goal, has always been the positive ideals, and, persist to achieve, from I heard their experience, they also for their dreams and efforts, and insisted on doing a lot of things, to say, why will become now so, I think, Just don't insist.

Classmate married yesterday, in fact, I do not have too much of a sense of participation, in addition to get up early to help pack things, wedding time on the ceremony, halfway to help put a salute, this is finally successful completion, but also a breakthrough of their own shadow, from the first no success, after the classmate married, will not take the initiative to do this thing, Are eating and drinking, watching them bridal chamber, although every time is such a routine, but, each feeling is not the same, before, see Bridal chamber, think they sometimes too strange, but, we force them to do something they do not normally do, in their own, I think, is a breakthrough, as long as moderate, Still can play a very good role, from this point of view, think, so bridal chamber, very good, will not be like before the less acceptable. Originally intended to come back yesterday, but, still did not deny friends, and a few classmates stayed down, yesterday, we three in the hotel chatted for a long time, sharing their own views, a classmate rich, but not absolute, although want to do some things, but still, find a lot of reasons, such as the big environment is not good, Just saw a lot of successful cases, I try to simple, but only for three days. And, beautiful, think of their own family is not good, no capital, in fact, for me, and it is not, for their own want to do and did not do things, find a lot of reasons.

Once saw a video, want to do, but encountered problems, and failed to adhere to, eventually old or will regret that they do not work hard! Like my current scientific research, I put my present state more to blame, my laboratory, my mentor, the teaching and research departments do not live, project, mentor Basic stocking, not the hands of the teachings, and science, there is no basis and conditions can also be done, the key to make results, is people, not, the basis and conditions, this, There are many examples, for example, Han Chunhu teacher, or a lot of academic achievements, so, more introspection, in the future, work is also so, do not find reasons, but to find the problem from their own body, did not achieve their own wants, must be himself out of the problem, other problems are there are ways.

Back to school in the afternoon, refused the younger brother, and friends, hoping to concentrate on finding a job, the afternoon although a short two hours, but, found the idea of the paper, and, unexpectedly found a paper, but to do a review, or to continue to practice, the afternoon to read an article, how to write a summary, suddenly thought, before, the time , do reading comprehension of the three steps, positioning, replacement, exclusion, this simple point three steps, almost every day practice, will this step to practice their own habits, so, this seemingly simple point six steps, become a habit, but also need constant practice! In the same way, it is necessary to put some doctrine into one's own habit and practice it constantly.

Three days to attend the wedding