Three candles, the brightest one?

Three candles, the brightest one?

Author: anonymous name

In the middle of the night, one person and one Buddha sat in the temple.
　　
Person: Buddha of shengming, I am a married person. Now I fall in love with another woman passionately.
I don't know what to do.
　　
Buddha: Can you really write that the woman you fall in love with is the only one in your life?
　　
Person: Yes.
　　
Buddha: you divorce and marry her.
　　
Person: But my current lover is gentle, kind, and virtuous. Is it cool for me to do this?
Point is immoral.
　　
Buddha: It is cruel and immoral to have no love in marriage. Now you fall in love with others and do not love her,
This is correct.
　　
Person: But my lover loves me very much and really loves me.
　　
Buddha: Then she is happy.
　　
Person: I want to marry another person after I divorce her. How can she be happy?
　　
Buddha: she still has her love for you in the marriage, and you have lost love for her in the marriage, because you
If you fall in love with others, what you have is happy, and what you lose is painful.
　　
Person: But I want to divorce her and marry her again. It should be because she lost me, and she should be suffering.
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Buddha: You are wrong. You are just a specific person in her marriage. When you do not exist
Wait, her true love will continue to another specific, because she has never lost the true love in her marriage. So she is.
Happiness and you are suffering.
　　
Person: She said she only loves me in this life, and she will not fall in love with others.
　　
Buddha: Have you said that?
　　
Person: me. Me .. Me...
　　
Buddha: Now you see the three candles in the incense burner in front of you, the brightest one.
　　
Person: I really don't know, it seems like they are all bright.
　　
Buddha: these three candles are like three women, one of which is the one you love now,
All sentient beings, women, even more than ten thousand, you don't even know the brightest of the three candles, can't put you in love now
Why are you sure that the woman you love is the only one in your life?
What about it?
　　
Person: me. Me .. Me...
　　
Buddha: Now you put a candle in front of your eyes and look at the brightest one with your heart
　　
Person: of course, this is the brightest.
　　
Buddha: Now you put it back to its original location and look at the brightest one.
　　
Person: I can't see the brightest one.
　　
Buddha: in fact, the candle you just took is like the last woman you love now.
Born from the heart, when you feel that you love her, you will feel the brightest with your heart. When you put it back, you cannot find it.
To the brightest point, your so-called last only love is just a mirror, and eventually it is
Null.
　　
People: Oh, I understand. You didn't want me to divorce my lover,
　　
Buddha: Let's go.
　　
People: I really know who I love now. She is my current lover.
　　
Buddha: Amitabha, Amitabha.