Time Difference: 20 minutes -- Travel Notes to Shanghai (one)

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Chapter 1 Why do I go to Shanghai?
(1) introduction -- university life of village chief
1,
"Four years of university is the same window,
Today, I have a wide talk.
Don't let flowers go like snow,
Give me a chance to meet your needs.
Agree with the storm,
Proud and proud.
I often remember that this person was a guest,
Dan Xinyi to Liaoyang"
A few years ago, I wrote a letter to mm on the eve of my graduation from college. At that time, I was so angry that MM was moved by a few sour ancient poems, so Jane wrote to mm, probably because mm does not like me, second, my words are ugly (this is also one of the reasons why I will study computer in the future). In addition, she may like modern literature, vernacular articles, and famous poems, I did not care about 3/4 of my own seven laws. My painstaking efforts were in vain again.
However, although mm is not able to see my poems, but I think it is one of the best "literary works" in my life, so I have been carrying it back, so that when writing this travel note is not like a travel note, but a novel is not like a novel, it is directly started. In an idiom, it is called "". If it is changed to Shanghai, it is probably "son- ".
For those impatient readers, I can tell you in advance that I am mainly reading mm this time, but for the sake of completeness of the full text, I will continue to recall some past events in my college, if you are not patient or interested in listening to my story, you can close the window to see what you like.
(1) introduction -- university life of village chief 2
My university was spent in Dalian, a beautiful coastal city in Northeast China. My parents were allocated after graduation from a southern university, I was born and grown up in this city, so I said to others, "I am a person from Dalian." However, In QQ information, I want to meet more friends, he wrote the city as his parent's hometown, Hunan. But let alone, I have met some MM netizens in Hunan, and the relationship is not bad. This is not a gossip for the moment.
Coincidentally, I went from elementary school, junior high school, high school to university, and went to the east of the city to the west, the school is always located in the same zone-because our zone is special, the administrative scope of the city's city center is surrounded by a half circle-the other half is the vast sea. We are located in the Liaodong Peninsula, which is located across the sea from Shandong.
During my college entrance examination, my school and major were determined by my parents, and I was a very personal person. I had a big fight with my parents, however, according to the law of Political Economics-"the economic foundation determines the upper-layer architecture", at that time, my self-care ability was very poor, and my personality was actually weak, in the end, I finally gave in to my parents and went to a university that I didn't really want to go. But at that time, I made up my mind, but I couldn't resist it. I came to the dark. Although they gave me the school, I still had to learn, I will not be able to learn them at that time, hey.

(1) introduction -- university life of village chief 3
Two more unpleasant things occurred during the college entrance examination. First, when I filled out my volunteer form, my mother said that my font was not good, so I decided to fill in all the materials and forms for me, I am very angry-after all, I am also the shift leader in our class. Now I have to fill out a form and ask my parents to work on behalf of me. Isn't that a shame for me? On the surface, I am a very easygoing person. I am not very concerned about people sometimes joke with me too much, but once I feel that others have hurt my self-esteem, it infringes on my privacy. Now, I am determined to be rude, regardless of whether he is Tianwang Lao Tzu or his parents and siblings.
Now it seems that my parents' intention was indeed good for me. They always think that going to college is an important thing in their life, and they are always afraid that their children will not be able to handle well. Therefore, they always want to do more for their children, this is also reassuring. But for me, I think what they managed for me is really too wide. I used to think it didn't matter. This time, my face was really stuck, so when my mother came to school with a pen and paper to fill in the materials for me, I did not say anything, and I have made up my mind. Since you want to leave us in Dalian, I want to continue to interfere with my affairs. Well, after going to college, I must confront your hopes!

(3) introduction -- university life of village chief 4
Another thing that hurt my self-esteem was that on the day of the college entrance examination. After the examination, a student asked me questions about the just-concluded exam. When we were talking about it, my father came to pick me up and saw that I was still discussing the subject with my classmates. At that time, I had a bad meal and grabbed my hand to take me home for dinner.
This incident gave me a lot of excitement. At that time, I had a strong rebellious mentality, in addition, my relationship with my father was not very good (when I was in junior high school, I had a bad fight with my father for one thing, and finally ended with a few slashes on me, since then, I have always been respectful to him, and I have always been a fan of his ears, left ears in, right ears out. Although I can talk to my father now, the shadows of the past are lingering. However, I think my parents also realized that their practice was also defective, but I am sorry to admit it in front of my children.
However, I have learned a lot from this issue:
1. It is right to care about a person, but pay attention to the methods and attitudes of care. It is absolutely undesirable to hold "I care about you, you should listen to me and appreciate me", that is "Shien", not concerned. So at this point, I always think that my parents are doing bad things with good intentions, and they are not people inside and outside.
2. As a caring person, if the person you don't care about is exactly the person you don't like, don't say it too bluntly. After all, someone cares about themselves, it is still a happy thing. Now, in retrospect, my attitude towards my parents was also too high. Maybe I also inherited the pride in my father's bones. I don't like to bow down easily.
My scores have always been good at school, and I have basically entered the top 10 in the simulated exams. However, during the college entrance examination, I did not play very well for this reason, I fell out of the class to 10, but it was later than the big engineer's recording line. I entered Dalian University of Technology with reluctance.
When I first went to college (because I still had a second time, I will talk about it later), I was basically in a cold war with my parents, and my school was hosted, I usually stay in the dormitory or study room except for class, and rarely call the house. I will not go home when my parents are in a hurry. In addition, every time I go home, I bring a lot of unwashed clothes and so, so that my mother could not miss it.
It should be said that my intelligence also belongs to the middle school (one of my uncles is a Chinese mathematician, my mother is from the physics department, and I also won the Mathematics Competition Award in middle school, I believe that I should be a doctor now -- just like the mm I followed -- she sent the doctor from the high school insurance to the university, and sent it to the master's degree. Later she went to Shanghai to study for a doctor. At that time, there was only one thought, "not my favorite school or major, and I was never good at reading! ". So I learned how to be smart.