Translated articles-30 things understood at the age of 30

Today is my 30-year-old birthday. I think it is very suitable to share 30 things I know now. You know, a few years ago, they were totally fascinated by me. These are just the courses about life that I learned on my journey, in different urban life, working for different companies, dealing with excellent people.

1. in your life, when you get tired of catching up with everyone and trying to solve all the problems, but you still cannot throw those things away, you will realize that, some people and things you don't need.
2. If a person wants to be a part of your life, he will make efforts. Do not worry about whether you want to leave your position empty.
3. if you want to fly, you need to give up the things that drag you back. It sounds simple, but not so obvious.
4. Be brave and do nothing even if you do something wrong.
5. there is a series of failures behind each success, and each failure will lead you to success. You will not fail because of the fall, you will only fail because you do not want to stand up, sometimes you just need to forget your feelings, just remember what you want, and sing along the way.
6. when you learn about people of different nationalities, who come from different cities and countries and live in various socio-economic classes, you will understand that everyone has the same basic aspirations, they want to be recognized, love, happiness, satisfaction, and hope for the future. They pursue their dreams in different ways, but the foundation is the same. If you can see through superficial appearances, you can understand almost anyone anywhere.
7. The more things you have, the heavier the burden you have. "simple" will bring you more freedom.
8. When you are looking for the perfect person all day long, you may miss the person that may not be so perfect, but it will bring you real happiness, just like a deep feeling, so is friendship. Finding a friend doesn't turn you into a perfect person in their thinking. You only need to be yourself and find someone who appreciates you.
9. feelings must be careful. Being alone is always much better than being a bad person, and there is no need to worry about it. If so, it will certainly happen, at the right place, right time, right people, for appropriate reasons.
10. It is not surprising that there are 1000 friends. When the world is enemies with you, there are still people standing with you. This is a miracle.
11. some people are always more handsome than others, some are always smarter than others, and some are always more attractive than others, but they cannot be you-they have your unique thinking, knowledge and skills.
12. Moving forward means taking risks. When your foot is still on the first base, you cannot go to the second base.
13. every morning, you will face two choices: Stay aimlessly, ignore what will happen, simply deal with it, or spend the whole day as you wish to make your own decisions, achieve your goals.
14. Everyone will make mistakes. If you cannot forgive others, do not expect others to forgive you. Tolerance means releasing a prisoner, and finally discovering that the person is yourself.
15. There is nothing to do with the temporary crash. You don't have to pretend to be strong, or prove that everything works well from time to time. You don't have to worry too much about others' thoughts. If you want to cry, you need to cry. The sunshine after the rain will be brighter.
16. We often do stupid things, just because we use them. If we try to control our emotions, we can avoid many headaches.
17. there is no right or wrong decision in the world. There is a great way to go to Rome. You cannot look at right or wrong from your perspective. Other people have different ways of life, and they have different meanings for everyone. A very bad thing for a person may change his life. You will understand that people have the right to make mistakes and make decisions.
18. No one is perfect, and no one is perfect. Everyone has their difficulties. You don't know what others are facing. Each of us has our own problems to face, so don't underestimate anyone, including yourself, and everyone is fighting in their unique battlefield.
19. A smile does not mean happiness. Many times it only means that we have the courage to face difficulties.
20. the happiest people are happy to take risks and new ideas. They will cultivate themselves in their spare time: Enjoy good music, meaningful books, and beautiful pictures, good partners and rich conversations are usually the source of happiness for others, especially for me.
21. Be selfish and never let others pay for you. They only pay for themselves.
22. Feelings change, people change, and time goes by. You can understand your past mistakes or look for your own happiness. Smile is a kind of choice. It's not a magic thing. The real happiness comes from here. Don't look forward to the happiness of someone or something.
23. Changing the depth of your life is much harder than changing the length of your life.
24. You regret more than you do.
25. When you give up chasing errors, you are given a chance to catch up with you correctly.
26. One of the greatest challenges in life: Stick to yourself when the world always wants to turn you into someone.
27. Enjoy those things, because one day when you look back, you will find that they are all major events.
28. Everyone can change something so that a person smile can change a world. Maybe it is not the whole world of mankind, but at least it is his world.
29. everything is a course of life. Everyone you meet, everything you encounter, and so on are part of your life. Never forget to admit it, especially when the plot does not develop according to your wishes, if you do not find a job you want or have a problem with your emotions, it just means that there is a better waiting for you, what you can learn from this lesson is to take a step towards her.
30. don't worry about how bad your past is. You may be blank in the future. Don't use yesterday's fragmentation to start a new day. Every day is brand new, every morning is the beginning of your remaining life.