Understand these 10 stories--and you ponder life.

1. Broken Arrow

He who does not believe in his will will never be a general.
During the spring and Autumn Period, a father and his son fought in battle. Father has been a general, son is just pawn. Another trumpet blew, and the drums were thundering, and the father solemnly lifted an arrow, which was inserted with an arrow. Father solemnly said to his son: "This is the home attack treasure arrows, with the side, the power is infinite, but must not be drawn out." ”
It is an extremely beautiful arrow bag, thick cowhide dozen, inlaid with faint light of copper edge, and then look at the tail of the arrow. One eye can be identified with the finest peacock feathers. Son beaming, greedy to infer the appearance of shaft, arrows, the ear as if the arrows, the enemy's manager fell to the ground.
Sure enough, with a treasure arrow son heroic extraordinary, invincible. When the Horn of Mingjinshoubing sounded, the son could not help winning the heroic, completely abandoned his father's exhortations, a strong desire to drive him to pull out the dart, trying to see what. Suddenly he was stunned.
A broken arrow, a broken arrow in the arrow bag.
I have been carrying a broken arrow to fight! The son frightened a cold sweat, as if in an instant lost the pillar of the house, collapsed will collapse.
The result is self-evident, the son died in chaos in the army.
Brushed the smoke of the Mist, father picked up the Broken Arrow, heavy spit a way: "Do not believe in their will, will never do the general." ”
How foolish it is to put the victory and defeat on a precious arrow, and how dangerous it is to give someone the heart and handle of life. For example, the hope rests on the child, the happiness rests on the husband, the life security rests on the unit body.
Warm hint: oneself is an arrow, want it tough, want it to be sharp, want it to bead, never miss, sharpen it, save it all can only be oneself.
2, the value of life
Don't let yesterday's frustration eclipse tomorrow's dreams!
At a seminar, a famous orator did not say a prologue, but held a $20 bill in his hand.
Facing 200 people in the boardroom, he asked, "Who wants this 20 dollars?" "one hand lifted up. He went on to say, "I'm going to give you one of these 20 dollars, but before I do, please allow me to do something." He said to knead the money and then asked, "Who wants it?" "There is still someone to raise their hands.
He added, "So what if I do that?" He threw the money on the ground and set foot on it, and crushed it with his feet. Then he picked up the money and the bill had become dirty and wrinkled.
"Who wants it now?" "There is still someone to raise their hands."
"Friends, you have had a very meaningful lesson. No matter how I treat that note, you still want it, because it's not devalued, it's still worth 20 of dollars. On the road of life, we will be many times by their own decision or encounter adversity knocked down, bullying or even crushed to pieces. We feel like we're worthless. But no matter what happens, or what is going to happen, you will never lose value in the eyes of God. In his opinion, dirty or clean, neatly dressed or ragged, you are still priceless. ”
Warm reminder: The value of life does not depend on what we do, we do not rely on the people we meet, but depend on us! We are unique-never forget this!
3. It's beautiful.
Although it is a black cow, the milk is white.
Jenny is a little girl who always loves her head down, and she always thinks she is not beautiful enough. One day, she went to the jewelry store to buy a green bow, the shopkeeper constantly praised her wearing a bow is very beautiful, although Jenny does not believe, but very happy, not to hold up the head, anxious to let everyone see, go out with people hit a bit did not care.
Jenny came into the classroom and bumped into her teacher, "Jenny, you're so beautiful!" The teacher patted her on the shoulder and said.
On that day, she was praised by many people. She thought must be the credit of the bow, but the mirror before a photo, the head there is no bow, must be out of the jewelry shop when with a touch lost.
Self-confidence is a kind of beauty, but many people are too concerned about the appearance and lose a lot of happiness.
Warm reminder: Whether it is poor or rich, whether it is the appearance of the fairy, or plain, as long as you raised your head, happiness will make you become lovable-the kind of lovable that everyone likes.
4. Draw a Leaf for life
As long as there is faith, there is always a miracle, hope, although the faint, but it lives forever.
Henry, an American writer, told a story in his novel "The Last Leaf": In the ward, a dying patient saw a tree in the room from the window, falling down in the autumn wind. The patient looked at the rustling leaves in front of him, and the body deteriorated with it, one day less. She said: "When the leaves are all out, I will die." An old painter was told that he had painted a leaf of green veins on the branches of a tree with crayons.
The last leaf has never fallen down. Only because of this green in life, the patient miraculously survived.
Warm hint: Life can not have a lot of things, but only can not have no hope. Hope is an important value of human life. Where there is hope, life is endless!
5. Flying Spider
Faith is an absence of strength, and when you believe that you can succeed, you will succeed.
One day, I found a black spider in the backyard between the two eaves knot a very big net. Can a spider fly? Otherwise, from this eaves head to that Eaves head, the middle has a Zhang Yu width, the first line is how to pull past? Later, I found that spiders have gone a lot of detours-from a eaves head, knot, follow the wall down, step by step forward, careful, tilt the tail, do not let silk to the ground sand or other objects, through the open space, and then climbed the opposite eaves head, height almost, and then tighten the wire, and so on.
Tip: Spiders will not fly, but it will be able to tie the nets in midair. It is diligent, sensitive, silent and tough insects, its network of sophisticated and rules, gossip shape open, as if to get God help. Such achievements make people not think of those who are quiet and some of the wise. So, I remember the spider will not fly, but it is still the net knot in the air. Miracles are the result of persistent people.
6, Shadow is a paper dragon
In life, there are always countless blows from the outside, but how these blows will affect you, the final decision right in your hands.
Grandfather used paper to make me a long line. The space of the long dragon cavity only can hold a few locusts, put in, they all died inside, no one spared! Grandfather said: "The locusts are too impatient, in addition to struggle, they do not want to use their mouths to bite the long queues, do not know that the forward can be climbed out from the other side." Thus, even though it has an iron-clamp beak shell and a jagged thigh, it is useless. "
When the grandfather put a few of the same size of the Green worm from the faucet, and then close the faucet, the miracle appeared: only a few minutes, the young insects climbed one by one from the Dragon's tail.
Reminder: Fate has been hidden in our minds. Many people can not walk out of different stages of life or big or small shadow, not because they are born personal conditions than others, but because they have no thought to the shadow paper Dragon Bite, and no patience to slowly find a direction, step by step forward, until the present new caves.
7. Success is not as difficult as you might think.
Not because things are hard for us to do, but because we are afraid to do things hard.
A Korean student majored in psychology at Cambridge University in 1965. While drinking afternoon tea, he often went to the school café or teahouse to listen to some successful people chatting. These successful people include Nobel Prize winners, academic authority in some fields, and people who have created economic myths, who are humorous and juchongruoqing to see their successes as natural and logical. For a long time, he found that at home, he was deceived by some successful people. Those people are generally exaggerating their entrepreneurial hardships in order to keep them out of business, which means they are using their success stories to scare those who have not yet succeeded.
As a student of the Department of Psychology, he thought it necessary to study the mentality of Korean successful people. In 1970, he put "success is not as difficult as you think" as a graduation thesis, presented to the founder of modern Economic psychology will, Professor Brayden. Professor Brayden, after reading, was pleasantly surprised that he thought it was a new discovery, although it was widespread in the east and even around the world, but no one had ventured to come forward and study it. Pleasantly surprised, he wrote to his Cambridge alumni-hee, who was sitting at the top of South Korean politics. He said in his letter, "I dare not say how much this work has helped you, but I am sure it will vibrate more than any of your decrees." ”
The book was followed by a South Korean economy that took off. This book inspires a lot of people, because they tell people from a new angle, the success and "Labor its bones, hungry its body skin", "shift lights just before dawn chicken", "head cantilever, Cone thorn stock" does not have the inevitable connection. As long as you are interested in a cause, you will succeed in the long run, for the time and wisdom God has given you is enough to accomplish one thing. Later, the young man was also successful, he became president of the Korean Pan-industry automobile company.
Warm hint: many things in the world, as long as want to do, can do, the difficulty of overcoming, also can overcome, do not need any steel-like will, not need any skill or strategy. As long as a man is living with a simple and interesting life, he will eventually find that the creator's arrangements for the world are in the right place.
8. Always take the ticket
Life is really fun: if you only accept the best, you will often get the best.
There is a person often travel, often can't buy a check in the ticket. However, he can always find his seat, no matter how crowded it is on the long haul.
His method is actually very simple, is patiently a car in a car to find the past. It doesn't sound like a clever idea, but it works. Every time, he was ready to walk from the first car to the last car, but every time he didn't have to go to the end to find the vacancy. He said it was because there were not many passengers like him who were so persistent in finding seats. Often there were several seats remaining in the compartment where he was seated, and in the aisles and carriages of other carriages, they were overcrowded.
He said most of the passengers were easily confused by the crowded surface of the one or two carriages, and were not very careful about dozens of stops, and the flow of the more than 10 doors up and down from the train had plenty of opportunities for seating, even though they did not have the patience to look for them. A small foothold in front of the party is easy for most people to meet, in order to one or two of the seats packed with bags crowded to squeeze some people also feel unworthy. They were also worried that in case they could not find a seat, they would not be in a good place to stand. And life in some of the status quo is not thinking enterprising fear of failure of the people, can only stay in the beginning of no success, the reluctance to take the initiative to find the seat of the majority of passengers can only be in the car when the initial place to stay to get off.
Warm tips: Self-confidence, perseverance, visionary, diligent practice, will let you have a journey of life forever ticket.
9, the heart of the Stones
What hinders us from discovering and creating is merely a mental obstacle and a rock in our mind.
Once there was a family garden with a large stone, about 40 centimeters in width and 10 centimeters in height. The person who comes to the vegetable garden will kick to that big stone carelessly, not fall or bruise.
The son asked: "Dad, that nasty stone, why not dig it away?" ”
Father replied: "You say that stone oh?" From your grandfather's time, has been put to the present, its size so large, do not know what time to dig, nothing boring digging stone, as a walk carefully, you can also train your reaction ability. ”
After a few years, this big stone left to the next generation, then the son married a daughter-in-law, when the father.
One day, daughter-in-law angrily said: "Dad, the garden that big stone, I look more and less pleasing to the eye, some other people move away." ”
Dad replied, "Forget it!" That big stone is very heavy, can move the words when I was a child moved away, which will let it stay now ah? ”
Daughter-in-law's heart is very bad, the big stone don't know how many times she fell.
One morning, daughter-in-law with a hoe and a bucket of water, the whole bucket of water poured into the big stone four weeks.
More than 10 minutes later, the daughter-in-law stirred the soil around the big stone with a hoe.
The daughter-in-law early has the psychological preparation, may want to dig a day, who did not think of a few minutes to dig up the stone, look at the size, this stone is not as big as imagined, all are deceived by that huge appearance.
Warm tip: You climb the mountain with the idea of downhill, it is impossible to climb the mountains. If your world is dull and hopeless, it is because you are dull and hopeless. Change Your world, you must first change your own mentality.
10. Pursuit of Ecstasy
Don't treat yourself as a rat, or you must be eaten by a cat.
In 1858, a wealthy family in Sweden gave birth to a daughter. Soon, however, the child was infected with an unexplained paralysis and lost his ability to walk.
Once, the girl and her family traveled by boat. The captain's wife told the boy that the captain had a bird of paradise, who was fascinated by the bird's description and wanted to see for herself. So the babysitter left the child on deck and went to the captain himself. The child was impatient to wait, and she asked the waiter on the boat to take her to see the Birds of paradise at once. The waiter did not know that her legs could not walk, but only took her to see the beautiful bird. The miracle happened, the child because of excessive desire, unexpectedly to pull the waiter's hand, slowly walked up. Since then, the child's illness has healed. When the girls grow up, they devote themselves to literary creation, and finally become the first woman to win the Nobel Prize for Literature, namely, the Grove Mara.
tips: Ecstasy is a shortcut to success, only in this environment, talent will surpass their own bondage, releasing the greatest energy.

Understand these 10 stories--and you ponder life.