Walking in the workplace, less colleagues as friends

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As mentioned above 《Making friends and looking for workToday, let's talk about the relationship between colleagues and friends in the workplace.

 

A colleague is a person who works together and belongs to our social network.

Friend, I personally think that is the kind of person who can be there when needed. (That's how I defined the enemy !)

 

There is no necessary link between the two. But there are a lot of misunderstandings. Here we will share with you

 

Misunderstanding 1 colleagues are friends

 

I used to know a girl from Tianjin. Let's call her. Before talking to her colleagues, she always made the following preparations: "I am a friend of mine, so tell you the truth! Tell the truth !" Afterwards, there were a bunch of complaints. The company is not good. The company is not good. In short, the company has nothing to do with it.

 

This kind of colleague can only make me look down on it. After this person leaves the company, I hope I will never hear her news. The reason is as follows:

 

1. We are not friends. We are not so close. I don't need to hear from you. You can't listen, and you have no obligation to relieve your worries. I am very busy and have no time to assign it to my colleagues after work. If you have no psychological endurance, contact a psychiatrist. Don't bother me. Please leave quietly and disappear into the crowd;

2. There were a lot of bosses in the company at that time, and we couldn't discuss this issue even if we had to complain. We should close our mouths to learn the strengths of others and give full play to our advantages. Whether you continue to do this or leave, you can add value to yourself.

 

LeoComments

Colleagues are not friends. Wise, the vast majority of our colleagues are not so close to us, and there is no need to share happiness and pain together. You can save it!

 

Misunderstanding 2 friends can also become good colleagues

 

My colleagues share a common goal, unlike my friends-hello, I am good, everyone is good! Working together is a bit like living together. there are contradictions in living together. When living together, you will see shortcomings that you have never seen before. Some friends usually have good feelings and think they can work together. Whether you start a business together or work together, you will be quickly dispersed after you get together. When they cooperate, they can't bear to see the shortcomings and problems they have not discovered before. After a smart friend becomes a colleague, he will soon make the following response: if you cannot work together, you may see more shortcomings that you cannot tolerate in the other person's body. After a long time, you will not be able to do anything else, so we should break up quickly. Other people ......

 

LeoComments

It is unlikely that a friend may become a good colleague or a friend may become a good colleague.

 

 

Of course, colleagues and friends are not completely disconnected. Answer the following three questions to clarify the relationship.

 

What is the relationship between colleagues and friends?

 

A: They are two completely different relationships. In most cases, we do not have a choice for our colleagues. Some of them make us sick, some of us don't look good, and we love to make a fart, and there's a zombie meal. We don't have any options. But friends, we have some options.

 

Can a colleague become a friend?

A: It is possible. We don't need to contact our disgusting colleagues after work. We have some options. We also have some options to develop our colleagues and become friends who work hard together to share their experiences in life. This is one of the things that really makes me very happy.

 

What do you think of colleagues and people you know at work may eventually become friends? (Except office romance)

A: There is a very simple way to judge. After work, are we willing to have dinner with this person. Everyone is very busy at work, and is willing to spend their leisure time with a colleague after heavy work. This at least indicates that he or he doesn't make me feel sick, and that he or he has something worth talking about.

 

 

In short, we use wisdom to understand the active and passive relationships in the workplace. We may develop several career friends, which is another meaningful achievement beyond our work.

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