What is your core competitiveness? 6. Make good use of your weaknesses.

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You may be confused when you see this title. Weakness must be remedied. How can we use it? Every one of us has weaknesses. Some are not very obvious, and some seem fatal. I have been struggling with many of my weaknesses.

Our education from an early age is just like an example, and we can bring our own shortcomings to the fore. I do not know how many people are misled by the so-called barrel short board theory! The shortest amount of water in a bucket is determined by the wooden board. However, in some cases, it may not be able to reach the average level rather than making full efforts to supplement the short board. It is better to break the barrel and extract the longest wooden board, or stand alone for the pillar. Or become a paddle, travel all over the world, happy ?!

You said I was drunk and crazy. It was easy to say. It was too difficult to do it! Don't worry. Let's talk about it.

I did not know the power of vulnerability of a famous TED speech twice, except for some small humor. Later, a buddy gave me a great recommendation and read the lines again. I think it is far-reaching.

The people who have a strong sense of love and belongingbelieve they're worthy of love and belonging.

Dr. brene has interviewed countless people over the past ten years. One thing that people with strong sense of well-being and belonging have in common is that they all think they are worthy of being loved, have the right to have a wonderful life.
They believed that what made them vulnerable made them beautiful. They Didn 'ttalk about vulnerability being comfortable, nor did they really talk about itbeing excruciating
They think their weaknesses make them more beautiful. When talking about vulnerabilities, they do not feel comfortable, but are not suffering from them.

You can't numb those hard feelings without numbing theother affects, our emotions. you cannot selectively numb. so when we numb those, we numb joy, we numb gratitude, we numb happiness. if you choose to escape from your weakness, you will lose your feelings of happiness, gratitude, and happiness. You can't just choose to be numb. Either be brave or be completely numb.

When I read these words, I had goose bumps all over my body, and the scenes I saw and experienced were all in front of my eyes. I have been abroad for ten years. In the IT field, it is common for Indians to have full confidence. We interpret it as a language advantage. I have also seen many Europeans whose English is not much better than Chinese. But Chinese people in the workplace seem so inconspicuous and follow the rules. I reflected on my experiences in the past few years and worked a lot. At the meeting, I was the most quiet, and I did not want to win a chance for myself. Is it because of language? I'm afraid there are more deep-seated patterns of thinking.

I am afraid that I am afraid of being despised and jokes. I exaggerated the disadvantages of my language too much and did not fully develop my strengths. Sound, seemingly safe. However, it is harmless.

Fortunately, I started toastermaster's lecture club very early and gradually got used to giving speeches and social activities in a very small scope (within 20 people. However, there is no particular awareness of weaknesses.

A good Chinese friend also participated in the speech club under my advocacy. In just a few years, the changes from the inside out were amazing. What surprised me most was that in the toastermaster English Humorous Speech Contest in Australia in 2013, he stood out from a number of club selections, broke into the third round and won the runner-up. While I am proud of him, I can't help but think about what strength can give a person the courage to face the confidence of hundreds of people?

He recommended me to watch the speech "power of vulnerabilty" mentioned above, and said he was inspired by what I once said. "It is a great deal of courage to stand on the stage in a second language, don't believe them to try it in a foreign language?"

His transformation gave me great encouragement. I also realized that people's potential is immeasurable. I also have a lot of troubles in my career and personal development. What is your core competitiveness series is also self-explanatory, I expressed my experiences and confusions in the form of a blog. It is indeed self-exposed and requires a lot of courage. But I believe many people may benefit from this.

Maybe you are a little confused here. I am talking about joining the club to improve your English, isn't it making up for the weakness? What is the relationship between this kindness and weakness?

When we face up to vulnerabilities, we choose not to escape. At the same time, we give ourselves a peaceful attitude to treat people and things and create and seize opportunities seriously. This may flash in other ways. The friend I mentioned is well prepared for his career as life coaching tutor. I am very optimistic about his future.

I am also very pleased to see that I have gradually penetrated into my behavior from ideological changes. I am in pain, growing, and happy.

The reason why I wrote so much tonight is that I don't want to let this state slip away easily. On average, I slept less than six hours in the past three days. In addition to the travel and time difference, there are also preparations for the August half marathon to get up for the morning run. A little tired. However, I can't wait to share with you the joy of growth.

At the VMware User Conference at Perth in Western Australia, I spent nearly an hour explaining the technical solution and answering questions in English. It kicked off 32 concerts in the Asia Pacific Region of the new fiscal year. Even though it is far from my ideal standard, I have completed the task. It must be better and better in the future.

I'm glad to take a step and encourage you to ask yourself: How do you interpret your weaknesses and what makes you feel bad?

I had a hard time working in the middle of the night. You don't leave a message. What do you mean ?!