What's the use of sticking to study after college?
--------------------------------------------- I went abroad initially, take the job to save all the money to read, the bank card was only two yuan, at that time almost everyone around the matter are opposed to, "why read?" College graduates, Ah, it is not better to seize the time to make money? "I insist on my mouth, my mind also has my concerns, so determined to devote to the study of two years of youth, which means that I want to give every minute of use, to classes in the daytime, to work in the evening, to write homework in the middle of the night, the light think about the loss of a lot of sleep, and to rely on the days of I knew it would never be a very easy road. Such a day soon came, learning and life all smooth, but also all the hard, many times from school to carry schoolbag all the way to catch up with the restaurant starts 5:30, while the work of the table on the side of the head also meditation the accounting formula, no customers when other colleagues play mobile phone jokes, I crouched in the corner of the kitchen and wrote the idea of presentation the next day. One time work too late, the boss sent us a few employees home, my home is the farthest, and he walked a good paragraph. Always silent serious boss suddenly opened the box, "See You go to school and work every day, think of me when I was young also had such a day ah." I was just working, good performance, the company sent a few people to study, every weekend to school classes. In those years, while working, while worrying about reading, the weekend did not sleep a lazy sleep, for the test night stay in the situation also often has. The colleague who studied together, finally only I insisted on down. After more than 10 years, I plan to go abroad, the immigration officer to the first material, is a degree, so many people want to go abroad, only I came out, I was three teenagers. "When he got off, he told me," The girl, while young and learn something, do not be afraid of the current hard, many now you feel that the use of things, will be in the key moment to play a role. "Later, I graduated, the role of the two years of learning has been a little revealed." With other people to apply for a favorite job, HR only left me, because his first question is "What is your education"; When applying for a work visa, many friends applied for failure to return home, but the immigration officer did not make me difficult, because I hold a real local diploma, and then own a small business, Start to write the invoice to declare the tax items, do not have to spend money to ask the accountant, oneself do also handy, that moment to understand that in the university after graduation to learn what the insistence, not others said "no work". I have observed around 30 years old friends, life is busy full, but few people insist on learning, a year also read a book, go to school with the English completely forget, love to write habits also no longer adhere to. It always makes me feel that Chinese young people give up too early, life has a long way to go, why do not believe that they can become a better person? Whenever I hear someone say, "Hey, I'm almost 30, I'm married and I have a baby, and life is now prettyVery stable, but also learn what? "I feel particularly sorry, so young and so potential of a person, how can this lightly limit their own life?" How can you be sure that you don't need a raise after you don't need a job? How can I be sure that I will not be sent to receive foreign guests after traveling abroad? And how to determine your child, will not be in the future to raise the face of the naïve to ask you, "Mom, how can you not?" "These two years moved many times, seen a lot of foreign housewives, I found a phenomenon worth pondering: they are in addition to cooking and washing clothes to take care of children, mostly in life to leave their own small period of time, to promote self." I know a Korean housewife, the child after the elementary school she enrolled in the nurse course, every night to coax the child to sleep, her own in the living room gnawing textbooks to write homework, when she graduated this year, she successfully found a job as a nurse, completed from the housewife to the high-paying nurse's life change; another friend, a full-time housewife at home , not reconciled to life only laundry cooking, so follow the online tutorial to learn hand, although the process is hard, often to take advantage of the children to sleep when the idea of creation, but insisted on a period of time, her shop, also began to have customers frequent patronage. I have always been a love of learning, I believe that any knowledge can come in handy that day, so after graduation, even if the busy life also adhere to the search for new knowledge. I put Japanese dishes in the car all year long, when the traffic jam and repeat the words to practice sentences; I watch English movies watch English TV, see the words or beautiful sentences immediately written down; I go to learn to play coffee to learn all the culture that fascinates me; I read a lot of books, whether it's fiction or psychology; many people find it difficult to learn. or learn to use things, I have insisted on their own down. Because I have a lot of dreams, I want to go to Japan after graduation from Sakura University insist on learning what is the use, to Europe to see a look at the ancient architecture, a cup of sweet and sour wine on the cruise ship, also want to write the good words can not afford time to deliberate. I very much believe that life is a thick and thin hair process, I am willing to continue to learn, see the daily progress of their own, a little to go near those seemingly distant dreams. Know the last friend asked, the work is not English but insist on learning English, has the meaning? She explained that she was teaching in a three-tier city, and that people who didn't speak English in their lives had been learning English for two months, and the idea was ridiculed by many. Netizens have given a lot of answers, including a true story. A netizen said, his Biaojiu engineering graduation, has a civil servant's iron rice bowl, has the car to have the House life stability. Others seem to be rich enough, biaojiu but insisted on learning English, watching foreign television, take the text of the song star gnawing foreign books, everyone felt no meaning, for a small civil servant, study abroad or work is almost impossible. But he insisted on this for decades, in the fast retirement, the unit has the opportunity to sponsored to the United States, TOEFL requirements of 60 points. Biaojiu one months, the TOEFL test to 110, so to win the opportunity to go abroad, and then his wife and son to follow him to the United States to study, his decades of "no effort" has become the envy of everyone's life turnaround. Remember Tang Wei in the film "Lust" was banned after a period of time, she took all the net worth to the United Kingdom. There, she went to language training to attack English, set goals for herself, to get the full scholarship of art school, and then she practiced English, from the zero basis to the free, which made her with the British film and television industry veteran of the opportunity to work for themselves to create a chance to turn over. When she appeared again in the eyes of the audience, standing on the international stage to speak a standard fluent English, a thunderous applause under the table, these years of continuous efforts, has become her most perfect counterattack. So do not feel that learning is useless, many times, knowledge is your confidence, is your accomplishment, is your killer, is a lot of people laugh at you doubt you oppose you when you can use to prove yourself the most effective weapon. I have always felt that there are many opportunities not to wait until you are ready to appear, some people are able to achieve in life, because when the opportunity comes, they are ready for the state. Like Kevin Tsai said, 15-year-old feel swimming difficult, give up swimming, to 18 years old meet a person you like to go swimming, you have to say "I will not yes." 18-year-old find English difficult, give up English, 28-year-old appeared a great but English-speaking work, you have to say "I will not yes."
The more troublesome the early life, the more lazy to learn, then the more likely to miss the people and things that you are tempted to miss the new landscape。 I especially like to hear someone around me saying, "I have an English class on the weekends", "I am taking an accounting certificate", "I study yoga", often hear these, feel that the positive cells in their body are active, but also with what to try to better the challenge. Watching them live positive, serious attitude, a little progress of the graceful posture, can not help feeling, this is a living life ah. Perhaps more than 10 years later, we have become a preoccupied middle-aged, can let us pull away from the moment, that is, from now on uninterrupted self-learning, whether it is to learn a language, a skill, or even insist on reading to write, perhaps all can make our life so have better development. And whenever I think of here, my heart will be full of power, look at the foot of the road, can not help to tell themselves, life Road is long, please continue to refuel it.
---------------------------------------------In fact, I think, many times is we give ourselves too many excuses and reasons, let us listen to other people's evaluation, give up their original dream and pursuit, give up on the now seemingly no use of things, to meet the good opportunities when we are not ready to give up, that is the painful thing. Believe what you do right now, stick to it, it will be your life's extraordinary, wonderful beginning of life!
------2016.1.10
What's the use of sticking to study after college?
