When confusion flood in Universities
September 25, 2014 11:13:51
"Do not say that you do not understand the class, do not say that the teacher does not care, do not say that the professional is not interested, do not say that the school is too bad, do not need reasons for degradation, just an excuse.
You have been in high school, but it is not black for you. It is just a feeling of nervousness, in the depth of your heart, you have not really realized the meaning of desperate for your own goals. In this pale process, you have lost the opportunity to forge yourself. -
Losing a single opportunity is nothing, but in this loss, many people lose a successful life. So, my classmates, What have you lost? Black is depressing and dull, but behind it, it represents maturity and atmosphere. In your college life, do you have a lot of time to get overwhelmed, spend a lot of time in bed in the dormitory, and spend a lot of time chatting on QQ, A lot of time is spent in online games. -
One semester, one year, and two years have passed ...... I suddenly found that I have not listened to a few lessons carefully. Although I have given you lectures at or above the level, I suddenly found that I have not carefully read a few books, even though there are many books in your university library; I suddenly found that I didn't learn anything, although there are many things I can learn in college. Are you worried about your passing the final exam, instead of being excellent? You are wondering whether you will not be highlighted in various ways: Assault learning, cheating in exams, giving gifts to wine, and praying alone ...... -
1. Do I enjoy my life or create myself in college? -
In your college life, many of you have reflected the problem: You don't know what you want to do in a day, or you can't do anything. This is a very common phenomenon among new college students because you have lost your goal. For many students, university is your final stage of study. You are looking for a job after you finish college, but it is still far from reaching out for 12 years of students. In the university, no teacher will turn around you. It is your own business to learn or not. If you don't have homework that you can't finish before, how do you think your class is empty for yourself? It is better to make yourself feel free and easy to learn. No one tells you what you should do, which makes you feel overwhelmed. -
While most of you are lacking in independence and good self-control, you cannot grasp these seemingly excessive freedom at all. What kind of people are going to do and what kind of career they are going to do at the end of the day are unconceptual to you. From my dream in elementary school, to my future in junior high school, to my college in high school, to my fans in college, you have completed the transformation of your life goals in this process, and the last thing you have left is the dead worm skin. It is because you have lost your goal, no direction, and no wind. I believe that if every student has a goal, you will have a very full life, a very busy life, and a lot. Therefore, please set a goal for yourself. Life is like a chocolate box. You never know what the next one will look like! -
Some people may ask why others can live in a natural and unrestrained manner, but I have to work hard. I replaced it with another question: whether to enjoy life or shape yourself when I go to college. When I first joined the University, many of my colleagues tried to run for student unions and various community officers and cadres. Afterwards, many people lamented that they should rely on relationships to do anything unfair. I want to ask, what is the society like the school? Isn't the society more thorough in power, relationship, and money? In the future, why do you establish a foothold in society? What else can I do if I want power, no power? It doesn't matter if I want money, no money? After you graduated from college, you suddenly found that you did not learn any excellent skills except for getting a diploma. Apart from being able to say something very profound, what you do may be nice to name. Maybe anyone can do it. Do you still have to blame others? Every one of us wants to live a high-quality life, and we want our friends to live a carefree life. We want to leave traces of our own values in the world, however, these functions can not be implemented in the enjoyment. God gave us every person with both hands and a brain, that is, to let us create and think. University is your best learning time, soXiao Li (ID: xiaolitv)
Please give up and try to reshape yourself and accumulate strength for the future take-off. -
2. Feelings flood just as a need! -
Although it is about college life, love must be discussed. In the university, it is the adolescent boys and girls, and love inevitably occurs here. But I don't know when to start, but this normal thing cannot be normal has never been questioned: The current college students' feelings are rampant. Nowadays, College Students' Emotions are full of utilitarian, desire, and indulgence. Upon graduation every year, couples will have the last meal, the last hug, the last kiss, and then turn and leave to embark on their own journey. From then on, they will forget this relationship, just as they have never happened. Love is just treated as a need. -
There are many people who want to catch love or be caught by love.
But I hope your love is sincere, earnest, pure, and true.
Think twice if you think he is very handsome and want to fall in love with him. If you think she is beautiful and want to fall in love with her, think twice. If you feel very lonely, think twice about finding someone to fall in love. If you are in love with someone just because you have heard a few words from a friend, give up. The word "love" clearly shows its object: the word "friend" below shows that you should know him or her very well, and he or she should be your friend; "choice" means that you should choose among these friends carefully. "choice" means that you can only select one of them as your lover, and others can only be your friends. -
Please cherish your emotions, otherwise it will become very cheap. What is love? You should be aware of this. I think: being attracted by excellence, being loved by attraction, and learning to love by love is the process of love. -
3. Responsibility is determined by mature ideas! -
If I remember correctly, your annual tuition fee is more than 5000 yuan, and the maximum fee has reached more than 10000 yuan, plus your living expenses and other expenses, most of them can be more than 15000 yuan. You are studying at a university and are receiving a high-cost education. However, your parents are greatly invested, how many outputs have you produced? Most of you are from rural areas or small business families, and there are not many families with wealth. Every penny you use now is the hard-earned money from your parents, or even the money borrowed everywhere, there are great hardships and love for you. There are still a pair of hopeful eyes on the old faces that have been marked by years, and the pair of turbid or even fuzzy eyes. Responsibility is not given to you by others, but determined by your own mature thoughts. -
You all say that you have grown up and you all say that you are mature, but I think that you are 20 years old, just a mature table. You have an unshirkable responsibility for your parents, but you have abandoned your mission in inaction and degradation. After the end of one semester, when you return home for the Chinese New Year, your parents still love you, are still hopeful, and are still jealous of you, but you have no apologies, don't talk about your study at all, or even show them the score notice. They should have signed the name with their hands in a corner. -
It is difficult to build a thing, but it is easy to destroy it. Please remember and take responsibility for your parents. -
When confusion flood in Universities