When you learn to focus, life is really mature

Many people are mentally immature, not because they are unwilling to mature, but because they are not really young at all. So they can't focus when they're focused, they can't be deep when they're in the deep, and they can't afford it when it's time to play.

Once read a scholar for the students to write an article, the article said, many brain wise people to the 30-year-old but flat mediocre, but those who are not how smart but very focused people to the 30-year-old results gradually now. This is his life experience, he hopes that young people to find a way to let themselves into the things, perseverance to do.

I did not quite agree with this view, because in my opinion, a person is mediocre or have achievements, most of the need to measure the scale, for example, need to see how many awards, how much money to earn, the number of peer recognition. So, if a person is a little solitude mentality, and thus unwilling to pursue a prominent reputation, whether even "mediocre"?

But when I think about it, I find that I have overlooked another layer: that is solitude also need to focus: focus on their own heart, focus on loneliness.

An elder once told me that life after 30 years is about to start subtraction. I did not quite understand the meaning of this sentence, and now gradually realized that, in fact, is also talking about the importance of concentration.

Why Focus? Because only focus will feel steadfast, feet standing in a solid and reliable place, the soul can be peaceful. The focus of business is just one. It's not utilitarianism, it's because, only by being truly focused, can you provide a stable and powerful force to your heart, as well as metaphysical. Moreover, there can be no real purity without concentration. How can you reach the peaceful and wonderful shore of the world, full of distractions and noises?

Many people are mentally immature, not because they do not want to mature, precisely because they are not good young. Like a plant that lacks good growth conditions, it cannot produce ripe fruit. The mind is immature, this is not individual, but the human mind normal, can really mature powerful person is very few. So the world needs religion, philosophy, literature, art, need these things, can provide some explanation and comfort to the chaotic life.

A few days ago, I visited a old friends in my hometown. He did part-time work day and night, when I went to his home, he was on the computer on the key lobby. This person in this science is Chinese, master of the change of another professional. Now, he is more unable to understand the world has "literature" this kind of thing. He said, the spiritual life I have Ah, wife and children I have all, to literature what to do. I don't read novels, and it's impossible to read poetry, and these things make people weak and lazy. I am lying in bed reading books, but also in order to earn more money, I will not waste any time.

A person does not have to bear his minimum survival, but must it be at the expense of the exile of the spiritual life? Kalenhony once said such words: the hypocrisy of the inner fullness rooted in the dull mind, it will only make us vulnerable, not worthy of envy. And the western one sentence Chol more direct: Ning and Aristotle with sadness, not with sow fun.

However, many deeper tragedies originate from the lack of stability within the heart. This is especially true for those who have come to the peril of their souls. Before the age of 20, it was always said that many of the most radical young people were old enough to read Chinese ancient books. Now, because of age and experience, all require a kind of silence and harmony in the life of the timely appearance, no one can endure life from the heart of the division.

But whether such a heart is mature or aging, or is premature aging also unknown. Remember last year, a microblogging, the effect is that China's young people have never been young, a stepping into the society into the middle-aged world. So I went back to my previous speculation that many people are mentally immature, not because they don't want to mature, but because they are not really young at all. So they can't focus when they're focused, they can't be deep when they're in the deep, and they can't afford it when it's time to play.

Some middle-aged people, seemingly taichetaiwu on the surface, the exploration of the red dust, but this is in the escape, or is simply depressed? There is a simple way of judging, and that is to see his attitude towards the young. If a middle-aged man has always been only dictating to young people, then it is possible to speculate that the middle-aged person himself has not gained much meaningful from his youth, including the pursuit of freedom. I will not be this middle-aged, depending on whether my young age is really not wasted. So, catching the tail of youth is still very important to me. Although I am 30 years old.

------http://www.nowamagic.net/librarys/eight/posts/1996

When you learn to focus, life is really mature