Temper, in my high school sensible when the clouds fly smoke out, that time to look at their parents in the field is only to let their son to college, later like himself more capable, I silently inspirational this life can no longer farming, not let parents do menial; From then on, I never had a temper with my parents, Also do not have any quarrel dispute, and each home is to let parents think I am the most sensible, the most filial, favorite son.
At that time, I understand the first truth: can never be angry with the elder!
But outside people provoked me, I still have a big temper, with the passage of time, learning and growth, work experience, expert guidance, as well as learning traditional culture, sinology, Buddhism, slowly discovered that all sentient beings in the universe are closely related, and all have life, so I feel these cultures, very good, let me gradually know, I am not born for myself, is born for all things, oneself is an energy body, go where can shine to where!
The second reason that I understood at that time: the real practice is to let everyone close to themselves will be very comfortable.
Because come to your side of all things are fate, to have a kind heart to read and universal salvation Heart! To anyone should not reflect their temper.
One, the more capable of men less temper. Because of quality, cultivation, self-restraint, knowledge, ability and financial resources will synthesize a person's character.
Second, the most wonderful thing in the world is that when you hug someone you love, he holds you tighter.
Third, trust is like a piece of paper, wrinkle, even if smooth, also can not restore the original.
Four, there is no secret to success, if any, there are only two words: modesty, perseverance.
Five, can say the grievance, it is not wronged, can leave the person, is not a lover.
Six, the most pathetic woman, not the age to go, but lost self. The most regrettable woman, not the confidante no longer, but self-confidence is nothing.
A woman with a soul is a woman of charm. A woman of faith is a woman of energy.
Seven, the past need not regret. If it's good, it's called Wonderful. If it's bad, it's called experience. It's important to grasp the present.
Eight, smooth, just a mediocre life.
If a man really loves you, he will only be afraid of not having the ability to take good care of you. If he cares about everything and loses his temper with you, it just means that he loves himself, does not love you and ability.
Ten, the mentality is not good, the point is that the heart is too small.
Mentality of the "state" word, disassembly, is the heart a little bigger.
Between people, is a kind of fate, between heart and heart, is a kind of communication between love and Love is a kind of affection, between feeling and feeling, is a heart, between wrong and wrong, is a forgiveness. Everyone has self-esteem, all have difficulties, ideas, practices and living in different ways. The idea is different, the practice is different, the way of living is not the same, do not have to change others, just do it yourself.
Why is it that the more capable people have no temper?!