Women should not make men around them too tired.
Woman, when you connect your name to a man, you should be prepared in your mind: He, maybe not the best man in the world, but he is willing to give up his freedom for you, and he is willing to take responsibility and obligation for you. maybe he cannot bring you the richest life and the most comfortable environment, but he can ignite warm and safe lights for you. the vast sea of people, the vast universe, hundreds of millions of man, you just think of him as belonging, there is always a godsend reason, so women, to love him, cherish him, care for his mood and body.
Don't get stuck. it is true that a person's nature is a woman's nature. If she has a bitter water and a grievance, she will always release it. If she is not familiar with it, she will always complain and talk about it. However, she must know that the endurance of a person's hearing is limited, the ear is a super soft, abnormal, new, and tired senses. It can listen and endure noise. However, excessive repetition can only damage the sensitivity of the ears, resulting in conditioned reflex, the man simply enters the ears of the East or the West, or is totally resisting. it can be imagined how tired their ears are over time.
Respect men's interests. god created men and women and gave them different living habits and interests. women are made of water, clear and mellow, like romantic flowers and snow, men are made of mud, chaos and wet, not yet fully open skylights are full of nature and wild, be considerate of their congenital pornography. if they give a bid to pretty girls on the road, if they click to download the unsightly stuff on the Internet, if they have a bit of red, as long as they don't get out of the box, as long as it does not violate the principle, as long as it does not go beyond the limit of non-copy, it cannot be understood. the heart is relaxed, more generous, more confident, more cheerful, the motive force of marriage is love, let love hold up a tolerant and harmonious marriage sky.
Do not try to completely control and change men. everyone has an inherent character. The shortcomings in your eyes may be the advantages of others. if you love him, you should understand his abilities and personality. if he is forced to surpass his abilities or change his personality, a slight amount of pressure may be exchanged for the cooperation of men. The excessive promotion means can only be a result of failure. If a man is overwhelmed, in the early stage, all efforts were abandoned, and eventually both losses were lost, resulting in serious emotional losses. therefore, if you love him, you should draw an invisible circle around him with tenderness and thoughtfulness, and draw him in the circle with a thin line of love, neither disturbing him nor letting him step out of the circle, and make full use of the unique success and Perfection of the Creation.
Love your mother-in-law as you love your mother-in-law. if you have a parent who loves you more, you will have an in-laws who love you more. affection is the most eternal, most stable, and broken bond in the world. if you often get angry with your husband and mother for some small things, and get angry with them, let the man full love the "plywood" treatment, how much is your affection and care to lose, to this end, we need to damage the number of brain cells and mood. This kind of thing is worth the candle and can only make the beloved man embarrassed, add congestion, distress, depressed, and suffering. if you love him, you must be grateful for the person who brought him. If you love him, you must accept everything from the heart for him ..
Do not have vanity or jealousy. A vanity woman wants a man to work together or fight for money, but a man does not have such good luck. her words will let the man jump to the building: "I 've been fucking jealous of you for eight years!" Or "Why did the old lady blind your eyes and fall behind you? Look at the man in the East ...... look at the man of West ...... which is a hundred times better than you!" What kind of temper do men have when they meet such women? What kind of mood do you have? The mental stress of some active men has been on the verge of collapse. This tangible and heavy stress can only make them have to work tirelessly to make them nervous disorder or early aging, deep in my heart, I deeply lament: "Marriage is definitely the grave of love. "Therefore, if you love him, you must understand his difficulties and propose realistic ideals in a realistic manner. Both parties work together to turn it into reality.
Finally, Do not worry too much about housework with men. most of the trivial matters are broken and need patience. A woman's natural ingenuity, hard work and hardship, and a woman's natural love for freshness and cleanliness determine that a woman has to undertake more housework. when men fight in front, they are eager for a peaceful harbor, fresh air, delicious food, water-loving, quiet and harmonious atmosphere, this kind is as indispensable as sunshine and rain. tired and returning men can fully comfort their bodies and minds, relax, abandon all troubles and pressures, completely restore their physical strength to supplement energy, and inspire the courage to fight tomorrow. on the contrary, we can imagine the frustrations and helplessness of men when fighting for everything and pushing everything.
When a woman falls in love with a man, when a woman walks into the holy Palace of marriage with a man, when a man makes a wish in his heart: use all his power to hold the whole day for the beloved woman, a woman, should you be a good wife, more gentle and considerate, less impatient, blame, and comparison, and a happy marriage needs to maintain love. do not make men around you too tired!