Yang Lan warned that girls in their twenties should have the following ideas:

 

I. Taste
When the girl is in her twenties, she will begin to learn how to manage herself. It is embodied in her own appearance and cultivation. Every girl is special and should have her own unique taste, many girls may think that taste is linked to fashion or luxury goods. In fact, taste is the attitude of a person to observe things, the same thing, different people may see different versions. There is no relationship between the value of an item and its taste. Girls should look at one thing with their own eyes, use advanced taste to pick things.
To some extent, a person's taste and her temperament complement each other. The level of taste depends on a girl's discovery of new things in daily life. Taste is her own unique taste, every girl must have her own taste. As long as a cheap ornament is worn out, she can also show her taste. In general, you can read more fashion magazines to improve your appreciation of clothes and so on.

Ii. develop the habit of reading books
When the girl was in her twenties, she began to gradually contact the society. During her interactions with others, conversation and cultivation were the best way to conquer others. I don't believe a girl who doesn't like reading books will be smart. When it's okay, you can go to the bookstore and pick up a few books to buy them and read them. Whether it's a masterpiece, financial management or incentive, there is something worth learning. Books can enrich people's lives, change people's thoughts, and choose to read a good book, better than a good tutor. Girls who like reading books must be quiet and have a good attitude, because in the ocean of books, girls can absorb nutrition in a big mouth. A girl who likes to read books must be an elegant and intellectual woman. Reading carefully can make your mood calm, and there is a lot of fun hidden in the book. When you meet a book you are interested in, you will find that your mood is pleasant, in addition, every book has a great deal of wisdom. books that have been read will be the capital of girls in social media. I believe no one will like to associate with a superficial girl. Choosing a suitable book can teach you a lot of philosophies and help you learn to embrace the pain or happiness in your life with a peaceful attitude.

3. Try to discover the beauty of life
When the girl is in her twenties, she will escape from those gloomy novels. It will only make everyone closer and closer to sorrow, and life is not a turning of the plot in the novel. Don't always remind me of your misfortune. You must know that there are many people in this world who are more unfortunate than you, as long as you can look up and see the sun is lucky, the setbacks in life are nothing more than a person's life. If we want to establish a foothold in this society, we must have a peaceful attitude. In the suffering and loss life, we are always choosing and being chosen by others. We should have a Q spirit, we choose both painful and happy life. Why do we need to indulge ourselves in suffering?
Some people bring themselves into an unfortunate idea due to emotional or work setbacks, which leads them to become pessimistic people. No matter what they do, they are afraid of losing, or you may feel that you will not succeed. If a person advertises herself as something, she can only live in the heart of herself. who is qualified to say that she will not succeed? Who dare say they won't succeed? Everyone who wants to succeed is optimistic. pessimism is always a hindrance to success. Only positive sentiment can make life better. I believe tomorrow will be better than today. If you work hard, society must be fair. Do not complain about your life. Otherwise, you must prove that you have not worked hard.

4. Make friends with talented people with ideas
When a girl is in her twenties, she will start to choose friends with purpose. social connections are very important, and the circle of friends you choose to join will have a great impact on your life, if your friends are positive and optimistic, you will also be infected by them. If your friends are pessimistic, you will only know how to complain all day, but you will not be down-to-earth. After a long time, you will also be infected. A person is very important when choosing a friend. Sometimes, if you want to know a person, you can also learn about his or her friends. Do not make friends easily. Also, be sure to select the person you want to make friends.
A good friend can make a great change in your life and make you optimistic. When a girl is in her twenties, she wants to have more friends. If she is selfish, she wants to make more friends who are helpful to her. You can learn from them but want to make friends, you need to be sincere to them, not just to use them to communicate with them, no one is a fool, you are good or bad to others, others are also clear. Use your sincerity to make friends with those talented people with ideas!

5. Stay away from the bubble idol drama
When the girl is in her twenties, she will start to stay away from the fake idol dramas. The Prince Charming and Cinderella on TV are the boys or girls who live in life, and they do not really exist, some plots in TV series sometimes have a deep influence on people's ideas. For example, some TV series may have vicious mother-in-law, or find that people who love themselves are actually their siblings, these plots aim to make people's mood fluctuate. They cannot be linked to real life. They surpass life and girls should not indulge in such a fake fairy tale atmosphere, have time to read more programs that can help you.
I want to know that society cannot use bubble idol dramas. They are poisonous. When some people are poisoned, they will directly influence their outlook on life and values, it may be like a night of wealth or a night of poverty in life, but it will not be as simple and direct as those played in TV series. Love and affection are not as decisive and cruel as they are in the film, idol drama will affect people's judgment ability on society. Therefore, please stay away from the bubble idol drama. I believe that a good girl will not spend a lot of time in idol drama.

6. Learn patience and tolerance
When the girl is in her twenties, she will gradually learn patience and tolerance. Society is not a wayward place, And the temper of the lady will gradually converge, it may be because you may lose your self-esteem and be accused of being uncultivated. A friendly smile on unfriendly people can make the other Party feel at will and make a good impression on others. Patience is not weak, it is not hurt self-esteem, but tolerant. Please let go of your strong bad temper and make one step at a proper time not only reflect your conservation, but also make you a popular girl.
There will be a lot of unfair things in our lives, and there will also be a lot of people that you can't accept. We can't try to change others, rather than blaming others with anger, it is better to give each other a smile with an understanding. No one will hurt a kind of person. Self-esteem cannot be earned, rather than self-esteem.

7. Cultivate a healthy mind and pay attention to your health
When a girl is in her twenties, she must learn to adjust her mentality and protect her health. Body is the most important thing. I believe everyone knows it, but it is not a simple task to do it. A girl in her twenties should have begun to pay attention to her diet. I suggest reading more about diet books. Never take care of your own health for one reason or another. No matter how beautiful tomorrow is, you always greet it with a sick attitude, and will not feel its beauty.

8. Make beauty your capital
When the girl is in her twenties, she will begin to let your beauty play a role, and give your beauty a sufficient say in appropriate cases. A beautiful appearance is not owned by every girl, so that a beautiful appearance becomes your capital. when you need it, you can use it to open up many dilemmas in your life, although sometimes some people say that beautiful girls are all vase, if the vase is placed in a proper position, it is a work of art. The beauty of a girl's youth is just a few years, So be good at using your beauty. However, a girl cannot be complacent because of her beauty. A girl with beautiful appearance and wisdom is an excellent woman. Please make proper use of her beauty, never let yourself sink with your own short-term beauty
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9: If you leave any man, you will survive well.
When girls are in their twenties, they need to treat their emotions rationally. Many girls live in a painful and passive way because of a man. No one can grasp their feelings, why should we be put into an unpleasant mood by a man? A man who doesn't know how to appreciate you is not qualified to make you sad for him. Every girl is beautiful. She is waiting for a man who understands her to appear and a man to leave, it can only be said that the man who understands you has not yet appeared. A man is not the whole life of a girl. Instead of letting himself fall into a hopeless love, it is better to turn around and enrich yourself, let yourself get involved in work and study. When one day the man who leaves you finds that you are so successful, he will surely regret that he left you!

I thought I was unable to live when I left him. Then I asked myself one hundred times: if I left him, can I still live? The result is one hundred and twenty times: I will live very well. The girls should never trample on themselves, and never think that a man's love can be exchanged for a song. Love is beautiful, and girls are also beautiful. No one can afford to insult them! If you leave the man who doesn't know how to appreciate you, this is the most gorgeous Turn. Although the heart is unwilling, but the painful suffering makes you have no energy to manage your work or study.

10: having financial management motivation, learning to invest and operate
When the girl is in her twenties, she will begin to learn financial management. Don't think that she can't be a rich man, so she will spend a lot of money and don't think that she will have enough money to earn tomorrow, instead, we need to spend the money we need. Now there are a lot of books on financial management in the market, which are all good. Female have time to take a look and develop a good habit of financial management and use money to make money, I can read more books on investment and operation, which are intangible wealth. Girls, no matter how much your income is, you have to plan for your tomorrow. Smart Women should know how to spend money and how to spend money is actually an art.

Marry's husband is a rich man. She once told me about his husband. She said: My husband sometimes prefers to spend a lot of money to buy one thing, however, it is worth a little money. I didn't understand it at the time. Later I realized that his husband had money because he knew how to spend money and spent money on practical things, some excess money in your life can be saved. Some rich people will also be stingy in their lives. This is their habit. Otherwise, they will not become rich people.

11: Love and Marriage can be shared
When the girl is in her twenties, she will face the pressure of marriage. Some people will say that love and marriage are two different things, and a man and a woman can live together, it is not necessarily what you really love. A married man can provide a warm and comfortable home for herself, but not necessarily what you really love. In the face of these comments, it seems that many people get married to get married. Under the pressure of family and society, they get married to get married. Some people get married with a purpose. They may want to stay in the room, help for future career, or get something from the other party.
Ask those sweet newly married couples and you will know that sometimes love and marriage can be shared. The so-called marriage is the grave of love. We can only say that the two sides do not know how to manage love, I believe that before two people decide to get married, the two sides must feel the opposite party, but the days after marriage make love dull. This is only because after marriage, both men and women put down their romance in love and put them into work. Those girls who are not married should never get married for some purpose. It is very simple to get married. Don't be so complicated. I believe every girl is eager for love. When a girl meets the person she loves, she will find that if she wants to be with her, it may not matter whether she is rich or not. Do not marry a girl to get married or to get married for a certain life.

12: whoever says that a woman is not as good as a male or girl as she is in her twenties must firmly believe that, whether in life or in the workplace, not only men can make achievements. Now women's thoughts are new to each other, successful women appear in all walks of life. As long as they work hard, they can also go through the man's world. Women have a lot of capital, and women have a slight advantage in the workplace. In some industries, women will make full use of their unique advantages. They are both beautiful and competent, A tough attitude can make men surrender. Women do not always want to develop in the kitchen. talented women can let men appreciate it. Nowadays, housewives are not popular, and there are a lot of wonderful worlds waiting for women to pursue.
Women do not want to attach themselves to a man. In this society, no one must have no reason to care for anyone. How a woman attaches to a man does not have her own thoughts. In this environment, men also like women with personality and ability. Who said women are inferior to men? Work hard. As long as you have your own sky, are you still afraid that there is no white clouds in your Sky? As long as you are an outstanding woman, are you afraid that outstanding men will not appreciate you?

13: Find a husband who can help you achieve your dreams
When a girl is in her twenties, she must have a clear dream and then strive for it. Never change after you confirm a dream, it's like if you find a man who can help you realize your dream, you must find a way to make him your husband. Women do not think that some dreams can be achieved by themselves, or some very good women may wish to achieve their dreams through their own efforts, but if they have the backing of a man, this dream can be well realized, especially for men who can provide financial support.
There seem to be few girls who have dreams in their lives. Some girls just want to have simple work and simple love, and live happily with a man. And really good men, they will also want their wives to be ambitious women, so if a woman has a dream, men will fully support it. A woman can let her dream marry a man with her. As long as she is willing to help you realize her dream, it means that she is a man who understands and appreciates you.

14th: Let the youth shine with a brighter smile
When the girl is in her twenties, it is just a time of youth, and there is a lot of youth that can be unrestrained. Girls can be stubborn when appropriate, and proud when appropriate, so that the beautiful corners of the mouth can be slightly touched. A girl in her twenties is the most beautiful. She can smile and cry reluctantly. Young girls in their twenties should not be afraid of losing. They have just begun. We have the capital to lose and we can start our own pursuits. A girl in her twenties needs to be the most authentic girl. The most beautiful years are left with a brilliant smile, which makes love clearly visible. She must dare to love, hate, and pursue.
When the girl is in her twenties, it will be the most beautiful flower in full bloom. Remember to show it to herself in the first season, do not accept unnecessary damages for others' flowering periods. A girl in her twenties is a cup of tea, and qingxiu must be reserved for those who know how to taste it. Don't let those who have no taste trample on your pure breath. A girl in her twenties is a blue sky, but it is sad or spacious. But remember, it must be pursued. From: http://blog.chinaunix.net/space.php? Uid = 1, 7921481