You beg others before you are worth something, and when you are worth, someone else is begging you.

Some people are lucky, born in the wealth of the home, a birth like Jia Baoyu mouth with jade, money is not a problem. But the money can not solve the second problem, that is, you are not worth the money problem.
　　
Value is the embodiment of personal values, such as you go to find a job, people give you millions of annual salary, it shows that you are valuable. Money and worth are two concepts. Rich people are not necessarily valuable, for example, we often see some "rich second generation" wealthy, but in addition to squander nothing, such people "worthless." But valuable people will be rich early, because the valuable people have enough to boast of a certain ability, by virtue of this ability, he can not only settle down, but also accumulate wealth, such people even do not need to save money. A famous painter, for example, can only draw a picture when he needs money. So people often say, don't turn yourself into a "piggy bank," because no one can get rich by storing money, but be sure to turn yourself into a "money-printing machine", and you can always rely on your ability to take it when you need it.
　　
It is better for a man to be worth more than he has money. A valuable person can realize what a sense of accomplishment is. Where does the sense of accomplishment come from? The greater the harvest, the greater the sense of accomplishment that comes from the kind of harvest you get from your efforts. If a person's money is to reach out to their parents, no matter how much money he has no sense of accomplishment. If a person's money is earned on their own, that no matter how much he will have a sense of accomplishment, and as long as the route, the more money, the greater the sense of accomplishment. The sense of accomplishment is one of the important cornerstones of happiness, and to a certain extent, if a person does not experience the accomplishment of the struggle, then his happiness value must be a discount.
　　
Now, many parents in the name of love for children in the future life ready for everything, is well-intentioned, but in fact, deprived of the children's struggle space, and therefore deprived the child can experience the happiness.

A person is not valuable, there is a turning point. When you graduate from college, you are eager to find a job and begging around, regardless of how much pay you are willing to do. This is when you beg others, your personal value has not been reflected, also can say, at this time you have no personal value. When you embark on a job, because you are not familiar with the content of the work, you need to beg others to teach you, this time you are not valuable.
　　
Then, through constant efforts, you become an expert in a certain field or a very good manager, this time is someone else to beg you, the boss will give you a promotion salary, please do not leave, other units will provide higher positions and higher wages, and try to dig you. At this time, you are really valuable. A valuable person can be keep up appearances, because of the keep up appearances capital.
　　
such as Zhuge Liang, why did he want Liu Bei Sangumaolu just promised to the mountain? It is because he knows his own value, to set the spectrum, so that Liu Bei will pay more attention to him, the future will give him more space for development. So keep up appearances is the ability to be a capital, or to find death. For example, "kingdoms" in your balance, the light know keep up appearances and curse, but there is no rule Cai Lue, eventually died under the knife.
　　
The process of a person's constant effort is to keep himself in the process of being valuable: before it is worth, you beg others; But what needs to be pointed out is that what I'm saying here is "people begging you", not because you have the right, but because you have the power. If you happen to have the ability and the power, at this time, no matter how valuable you are, you have to leave the money as far as possible.

You beg others before you are worth something, and when you are worth, someone else is begging you.