You have not really tried, it is easy to lose to the lazy

(Xee: More and more lazy, alas, the recent days are not very good!) Read more books.)

Not long ago a child in a lot of hair to me, a closer look, are introduced to the Tsinghua University of the cattle people. This won the Olympic championship, the door door grade first. The child was so depressed that he said, "I don't think I can work harder than they are, and suddenly there's no hope for my future." ”

Suddenly thought of a classic answer: "Most people try hard to the extent that they have not yet to spell IQ." ”

A distant aunt of mine has always been a famous figure in a relative.

As a result of the times, she did not continue to study when she graduated from junior high School. After graduating into the factory to work, the people introduced to know uncle, gave birth to a cousin. Family dwelling in a small house in a room, every day with the neighbors shared toilet kitchen, monthly earn some dead wages, the days of peace and no dispute. I do not know which day, perhaps suddenly realized that if this goes on, may never for the daughter to start creating an ideal living environment, aunt began to re-pick up the textbook.

Years have not touched the books, the busy day in the assembly line has been erased in school when the passion. When I got the textbook again, I found it was obscure and difficult to understand. Later heard Cousin said, found at that time young her memory, aunt's image is a day and night to learn the figure, hand always put a book of reference books and English Dictionary. Don't understand the words and points on the check, and then in the small book on the repeated pondering. So study for several years, aunt passed Yeda, and in reading Yeda period found the actuarial industry scarce, to self-study of actuarial knowledge, admitted to the actuarial book, in that actuary very scarce age, her certificate became hot, help aunt found a very generous job.

Aunt resigned from the factory, encouraged uncle also admitted to the Yeda diploma. Now they have said goodbye to a one-bedroom life and entered the middle class. And some of the former workers still live in these shabby old houses. When the old colleague met, someone always said that aunt was lucky and found a good job. But all the good luck, behind the countless efforts.

After the summer vacation, everyone in the freshman group in the explosion, a boy sent a picture of his senior high school photos, and sent a recent photo, almost muddy if two people. High school 180 pounds, the eyes were squeezed only a seam left, the mast's sports uniform was propped up to the brim, with a grass-like hair. And the recent photograph of him, although the face is still a bit of meat, but the body shape has been very well-proportioned, no longer covered with meat, baggy appearance. The girls in the group asked him how to do it, he said the summer eat very little, and then every day to go to the gym to exercise, only to achieve this effect.

Freshman year I knew D elder brother is a round fat, in the University of four years to watch D elder brother more and more rounded. The flesh trembled as it moved. D elder brother than I a year, graduation to find a job when not smooth, Xu is the image of the reason, has not found the ideal job, the civil service when the examination of the difference between a few missed. D brother was very sad to return to his hometown, ready to go to England to study the matter. After a long time without contact, once again chat, D elder brother has from the round fat, anger minus dozens of pounds, became a strong muscular male.

Later I saw the diary written by D, and after graduating from college, it was a very tough time for him. The work is not smooth, the weight reaches the life peak again. I was prepared to study abroad under the helpless. According to D elder brother said, "know oneself has been lower than the bottom line", in order to change the mentality, D brother decided to start losing weight. This process is very hard, at first he ran on the treadmill for more than 10 minutes on the exhaustion of wheezing, to be able to adhere to one hours. After noon, no matter how hungry will not eat another, really made a "noonday was past not eat."

A friend shouted to lose weight for a long time. Every day is full of rice lying on the couch while playing the phone while eating snacks. When you kindly remind him to exercise, he will find all kinds of excuses, "Today is too tired, tomorrow." In a few days, standing in the name of the screaming or he. Of course, if the new Year's wish to write "I want to Thin" is also a kind of weight loss, then he did not lose weight.

Often listen to countless people shouting to lose weight, but success is always Seoul, losers will always say that losing weight is too difficult. And ask those who lose weight success cheats, no less eat, more exercise. Lazy people will make up "do not eat full of energy to lose weight" "is not to lose weight but the enemy is too strong" of the jokes, and really to do the person, a good figure will explain everything. You call so many words you want to thin, but from reluctant to eat any bite. Diet pills, 20 pounds a week to lose weight, has never been a pleasant dream of the person's placebo.

Let's talk about the love story next.

I had a real story about long distance love on Weibo. The daughter of his parents and friends, and her boyfriend for seven years. Two people high school classmate, after graduation boys go abroad to study, the girl admitted to a famous university in China. Seven years is not without quarrel and separation, nor without temptation and loneliness. Since the beginning of the university, the girl has been practicing to save money, in order to go to Australia to see her boyfriend during the holiday. While the boys in the time after school to the restaurant side plate, to car washing, is to save a ticket money back to see his girlfriend.

This kind of life has been maintained for seven years, until the boys graduate, returned to the country. The two men were married last September and held a grand wedding. Exotic Love eventually become dependents, in each other's best years of life did not choose to easily let go, but chose to insist.

And a long time ago, the micro-blog on a couple of distant love, had thought so many times to give up, and finally by virtue of dozens of times mutual encouragement and insisted on down. That thick train ticket is probably the biggest motivation for them to move towards marriage.

We always say that people are too impetuous now, that the society now has no true love. There are so many people in the world complaining about starting a blind date, while listing the conditions. Emphasis on family, demanding academic qualifications, the requirements of height and age, the refusal of exotic love, a wide range of, in the final analysis is just for less trouble. The more accurate the requirements, the more consistent with the other side of the request. In fact, it is not true love is less, but people lazy, no longer go for love to insist on the courage, and give all the determination to work hard.

Those who moved you to tears of the so-called positive energy, but the protagonist more than ordinary people adhere to a little more efforts.

Met a lot of people, always like to set a huge goal for themselves. It's a good thing to have a big dream, but to achieve great dreams depends on a short-term goal. But they in the goal of the time hidden a cowardly retreat, the mind with "since the goal so difficult, then do not do not blame me, right?" "The idea, and then dragged the stack, shouting hard shouting tired, and casually gave up." When you ask them, they will find countless excuses, but they are always unable to admit their laziness.

Someone would say all day, "What's the use of my trying to make money?" No matter how hard it is compared with the Golden key born rich second generation "Why should I study hard?"       Those high IQ people can casually solve the problem, "the people with these rhetoric are often dissatisfied with their own lives, but not willing to face the bleak life of the most critical factors always on their own." See others rush to suffer to stay up hard, contented with their own desire for pleasure, see other people's emotional quotient high friends, feel that others are this prostitute that the prostitute, others hard work to get promotion, feel the other side affirmation gift clap horse fart, oblivious to oneself every day late leave, work up put off. Also forget the face of others to give, but lining is his own earned.

Nothing is done, you want to give up everything. Open mouth is to enjoy the dull, in fact, are lazy people's rhetoric. This wants the insipid in has the flower not to finish the money, lives the comfortable good house, the beautiful clothes good food, also has the love person. You think it's easy, but you see, this is not a hard struggle to fight?

Especially like "Old love letter" inside the Old lady's words: Old Monk said that after all to see Mountain is mountain, but you experienced see Mountain is not mountain? Do not take advantage of the young to go, to Daoshanhuohai, do not enter the WTO on the birth, think he is a living Buddha Nirvana come? My light is bitter out of, your flat light is lazy, is afraid, is to covet ease, is a dare not the world of the soil dog.

Do not live in this life, become a person that you can not look up to. (Wen/du Watanabe)

You have not really tried, it is easy to lose to the lazy