You're not good, you know who's a fart.

Can't help but think of more than 10 years ago, accidental exposure to a "big", Exchange very happy, pretty congenial, and left the phone. It was thought to be a very important network resource. Soon, just met a difficulty, think of this "big man". So, long to send a message, did not return! Another call, the result, heard two words: no time! To tell the truth, there was a sense of frustration. Many people have encountered such a refusal, thought and each other left the phone saved, each other should be able to help, but forget an important thing:

Only the resources are equal, can help each other!

A lot of social is not useful, it seems to leave someone else's phone, but in need of help, just a white call. Because you are not good enough-although very cruel, but who is willing to help a person who is not good?

Remember a young man once asked: "I am busy working, often meet some uninvited guests, should not be refused?" Will you lose your connections? "I said:

Only good people can get useful social!

The young man learned: "Before the success of the wash, very few people came to me, I understand why someone came to me now." In the end, he affirmed that he should spend more time in his career, and no need to waste time on ineffective social networking.

If you are not good enough, the network is not valuable, it is not the pursuit of, but attracted. Only the equivalent of the exchange, can get a reasonable help--although it sounds cold, but this is true.

I have such a person around me, he spends most of the day with friends, the United States its name day: Make friends, relations. For friends, often neglect family, with family time very little.

At first, there are a group of friends around, followed, in his heart, have friends is everything. Later, the person who is still able to leave gradually, why? The main reason is that their business is doing better, except that there is no time, I am afraid it is not necessary. Because when you spend your time on a friend relationship, you have no other skills, and you have not been able to lay the groundwork for your career.

There are accidents in the sky, he is in a state of health, got cancer. Doctors say there is a lot of relationship with normal life habits, such as frequent social intercourse led to excessive drinking, life is not regular and so on. Sadly, when a friend knows he has cancer, he leaves him like a plague, and ends up with his family.

Inevitably will sigh a sentence: inconstancy Ah! Is this more than his own? Rui Chenggang in prison, his "old friends" all over the world disappeared, the former small partners are also shepherd, the people poured into the flood.

Don't spend too much time socializing, spending more time reading and improving your professional skills when you're not strong enough to be good enough. Give up those useless social, improve yourself, the world can be bigger!

Of course, there is a situation except, when you are in distress, he said we are brothers, when you are rich, he still said we are brothers. Such a person does not abandon, is called the true friend, he does not apply to the above rules. This kind of person does not have much, in this pompous world, a few is good.

Fan Bingbing once said, I do not marry the Giants, I am a big club. You have to come up with fan ye for your connections:

I do not pursue the network, I am the network!

Please remember:

1, people are not in the body of others, and hidden in their own body: only let oneself become strong, you can get useful network!

2, "Know more people" is not equal to "network wide": The first rule of the network is to reverse the "number of heroes" of the Network view.

3, the basis of network is your "value of being used": the greater the value of your use, the more he will help you. Instead of spending time with more people, take the time to improve your personal value.

4, less "to curry favor with" many "mutual aid" and "support": investment and our level of similar people, we are a kind of equal "mutual help" relationship. Other people who have lower status than themselves, like buying potential stocks at low prices, are the ones that can really make a lot of money.

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You're not good, you know who's a fart.