22 The unspoken rules of the Office

1. There must be a circle. Whatever you do is prison: if you do not join a circle, you will be the enemy of all; join a circle, inevitably become the enemy of another circle; join two circles, and not join the circle is the same. Only the lonely and defeated elite can completely avoid the troubles of the circle-this person usually has only one circle, only the boss in the circle.

2, must strive to become the second place. The rank is proportional to the number of people who help you-if it is the first place, it may become a second place because of lack of help; the second is always the abundant position, and the downside is not the first place.

3. The definition of responsibility must be understood. Responsibility is what you have to do, but the law of the Office's survival is that responsibility is all you have to do to work.

4, must participate in every dinner. If you attend, your speech at dinner will turn into gossip, and if you don't, your gossip will turn into a dinner-party speech.

5, must understand the gossip theorem. To become a close friend with more than one colleague, all your weaknesses and privacy will be made public in your office; and a close friend of the following colleagues, everyone will be interested in your shortcomings and privacy.

6. It must be understood that overtime is an art. If you're working at work, you're considered less diligent because you don't work overtime, and if you don't work at the office, you'll be considered inefficient and have to work overtime.

7, must be skilled to accept criticism method. In the face of the boss's judgment, think you are right, you lack the ability to understand the problem, think you are wrong, you do not have the ability to solve the problem-the best way to accept the mistake is to avoid the error. The last one, don't talk to the boss about justice.

8, must understand the meaning of "woolly". Confused lets you be thought that does not have the opinion, does not confuse lets you be considered difficult to get along with-"woolly" lies in the muddled time, when muddled depends on you not to be confused the degree.

9. It must be understood that collectivism is an option. If you do not support most people's decisions, the idea will not be passed; If you support most people's decisions, you'll reduce your chances of promotion--the people who are capable always stand on the back of the collective.

10, must seniority. If you do not recognize the predecessors, seniors do not give you promotion opportunities, if you recognize seniors, then the predecessor did not advance, you did not promote the opportunity-the full role of seniority, is for one day you stand in front of the preparation.

11. Intelligence ranking must be prohibited. Genius should avoid offending mediocrity, though genius will certainly offend mediocrity-mediocrity does not like to get along with geniuses.

12, must learn not to negotiate the skill. If the conflict of interests is resolved face-to-face, it becomes impossible to solve, and if it is not addressed face-to-face, it will not be solved. A final principle is that the conflict of interests will never be resolved.

13, must understand the meaning of the secret. If one thing becomes secret, its purpose is to be known. If a secret is known to all, you must say you do not know it, and if a secret is not known to all, it can be inferred that everyone knows it.

14. It must be understood that meetings are a way. The road can be said to be very famous. The meeting cannot be addressed without content. If your speech has content, it is best to choose not to speak-the purpose of the meeting is to find a way to solve the problem, and in most cases, it is a meeting.

15. The marital status must be kept secret. The non-emotional in the office is a comedy, and the single person in the office non-emotional is a tragedy. The best result is that married people get an office romance; the worst result is an unmarried person getting an office marriage. The last one, you should never hit the boss's woman secretary's idea.

16, must master more than one high-level language. High-level languages include the inclusion of foreign languages in Chinese, flattery in the midst of a brawl, the disclosure of confidentiality, and the expression of a contractual intent in a yellow joke. Language skill is under, speaking time is good. Using a high level language but not the right time, use the lower language but the right time.

17, financial management must be a part of daily life. When the supervisor is around, the phone will be the company phone, when the director is not around, the company phone as a private cell phone, borrow money from colleagues, do not lend money to colleagues, strangers to meet the first to pay, become acquaintances never pay the bill. The last one, donate money never more than your superiors.

18. It is important to understand the significance of participating in training courses. The training course is not an easy spring outing, it is designed to learn the knowledge of your duties outside of work, because the knowledge of learning in your job, training can be regarded as an easy spring outing.

19, must learn to appearances. If you are reliable but not appearances, most people think you are unreliable, and if you are not reliable but often appearances, everyone thinks you are reliable.

20, must understand the superficial constructive. Can do the meeting slides, can not be discussed in private, can write reports, not oral instructions. If one thing you've done, but without handing out the plan, you're not doing it; if one thing you don't do, but hand in a plan, you can when it's done-after all, all the bosses who have learned business administration stubbornly believe that it is his business to look at the plan, and that execution is the following.

21. Individual success must be shared with the collective. Everyone is a candle-to light yourself and illuminate others, if you only illuminate yourself, your future will be dark, if you only illuminate others, you will be ashes.

22. The rules must be obeyed. To be a person who follows the rules, follow the rules, and be considered a person who follows the rules. Explicit rules and unspoken rules are often the opposite, so when the two conflict, according to explicit rules, according to the unspoken rules do, is the highest rule.

Do not like the so-called thick black study, but the world so, it is difficult to be alone.