36-Year-old Xu: I am not mature enough to get married (figure)

36-Year-old Xu "dress up" to attend the audience meeting. 12 years ago, the TV series "Will love to the end," holding Red Green Xu and Yapeng. In the play that one face pure, blindly giggling girl, gradually transformed into today in front of us have talent, assertive, have personality, have guts, even a bit tough "old Xu".　　Yesterday, the film "Will Love" at the box office of hundreds of millions of audience, Xu Lei is called "100 million to 100 million" box office. At first, it was thought that the so-called "talented woman" is only affected by an ex-boyfriend, a small audience of entertainment. But it turns out that the energy of old Xu is much more than that. Even if the minority literary film, she produced two plays also did not lose money, write a blog as a "blog queen", the opening of electronic magazines, the first commercial film "Lala Promotion" at the box office over billion ... What is truly not replicable is her character. Especially in recent years, her inner strength and self-confidence are surprising. All over China, maybe she is the only actress who dares to say, "I've been in love for so many years," "I didn't feel old when I was 36", and "I did a few things at the same time."　　And she really did it.　　Movie Boyfriend If mind Passion Play, then he is too childish. Nanfang Daily: 3 stories in the movie, which one do you like? Xu Jing: I like the third paragraph. My present interest is, I like good-looking, beautiful, warm feeling. But look from the shape, the modelling is not like me.　　It's not my feeling at all. Nanfang Daily: It seems that many viewers have said so many years to see "Love", remember the first love.　　You are also a matter of 12 years to shoot this story, what is the feeling? Xu Jing: There is no feeling, I am also familiar with the story, but also we participate in the screenwriter. To say that the industry is the scene of all the emotional experience I did not, those 3 kinds of life and my reality has no relationship. I didn't want to first love. At most, it is to think about the time when filming, the first love ——— Yang Yi and 文慧.　　I do not know what you feel about first love, I think these are very good memories, but the past is passed, some people now see the first love is also very exciting, I am not so. Nanfang Daily: Faye Wong on Weibo to discuss with Carina Lau, "for the passion of the part, should not close their eyes." Are you scared?　　Besides, does your boyfriend mind? Xu Jing: No, she's joking. It's certainly not true. Everyone knows she's a fun person on Weibo, and if she's really angry, she won't. My boyfriend wouldn't mind.　　I'm not going to find someone who can compete with me with my work, so he's naïve!　　Career I am 36 years old, also do not feel their own old Nanfang daily: Some people think that you film a little petty, small romantic feeling. Xu Jing: In fact, several of my films are different. "I and Dad" more realistic, "a letter from a woman" more poetic, "dream into reality" is purely an experimental film, "Lala promotion" has changed. Why has it changed? Because I like to watch it.Things changed. Before watching the "Dancer in the Dark", after watching the mood is particularly bad, feel completely dark, negative emotions. Some movies, very easy, very simple, but the audience will feel very good, very happy, very warm, will thank the director. Now I can not see the slow pace of the art film, may be more and more superficial. (laughter) Nanfang daily: It turns out that your own tastes have changed.　　"Lala" thought it was you to prove yourself "commercial film I Can Shoot". Xu Jing: At first I did not want to prove myself, nor did I need to be proved. But it's really hard to make a movie to invest in. At that time, some people are very skeptical, think you can not ah, because before the film is like that. I am this person is like this, say I can't, I will show you.　　This reaction is still very effective for me.　　Nanfang Daily: So the next thing to shoot is the "Lala" this way? Xu Jing: Yes, a war love movie. The script or I work with "Lala" two writers, we have written almost four drafts, is Inter-related's story. I want to challenge my ability to narrate and make a film with a strong plot.　　This play is better than "Lala".　　Nanfang Daily: Many people feel that people are very strong and confident, do you have this feeling? Xu Jing: a bit, in fact, there is a great distance from the real strength of my mind. But it may be compared with some people, they are too unsure! Some people feel older, older and wrinkled at the age of 98. Why are you worried about those things?　　I'm 36 years old and I don't feel old. Nanfang Daily: When making a movie, is there a film icon?　　or by whom the impact is relatively large. Xu Jing: no idol, no one seems to imitate. Influence？　　I was influenced by an ex-boyfriend, but I didn't say a name because I was an ex-boyfriend.　　Marriage life So long, what is the rush?　　Nanfang Daily: How did you feel when you took a wedding photo for the magazine some time ago? Xu Jing: too tight! Before filming also through the wedding dress.　　In fact, I do not have any special feelings, and did not feel that the wedding dress is the most beautiful moment.　　Nanfang Daily: Also do not think of the future wedding to wear what kind of wedding dress this kind of question? Xu Jing: No. I don't think I'm mature enough to get married and take on such a heavy family responsibility. Marriage is not a joke, it is the most serious and responsible thing. And the people around me, my family, have never given me such pressure. I'm not a person who opposes marriage, but I don't feel worried.　　Life is so long, what's the rush? Nanfang Daily: Someone asked you before, do not hurry to get married, then how to do the baby?　　You seem to say that you can give birth to a child first. Xu Jing: In a situation like this, ask, just say. But I don't mean to say that you have to marry a husband or a child before you get married. I am such a person, do not like too many rules. Since no one else has given you so many rules, whyBind yourself? When I was young, I grew up in a very strict environment with some pressure. Later can self-reliance, a little rebellious, learn to oppose the "must" thing. As long as I do not violate the law, nothing is certain.　　I think I should follow my own ideas to live the life I want to. Nanfang Daily correspondent Chen Xiang Jiao