A desolate grave.

My mother is northern Shaanxi, but I have no impression of northern Shaanxi, has never been to, but the first two years old relatives to marry the invitation to my mother and I set foot on the road to northern Shaanxi, see the real yellow earth. Witnessed the people living under such a land and a kind of heavy desolate.

We go to the Zhidan County of northern Shaanxi, the origin of the name is because Liuzhidan, know the history of the people will know the impact of the history of the people, my mother is proud of this, to Zhidan County from the thousands of miles to see is the extension of oil drilling wells, densely crowded in the narrow strip, Later in their chat, I found that the focus of life here is around the oil, when we arrived at the place where we lived in a cave in the house of our relatives, why did we say it was a cave in the ground, I suppose it was to adapt to the construction of the new countryside and the design and transformation of the mountain caves are forbidden to stay, The ground-dwelling caves built on the flat ground are almost the same as the ordinary dwellings, but they are preserved in the shape of the cave and have not lived in the mountains long ago.

The Village people came to help with the wedding preparations, when the rural marriage will always have neighborhood to help, so very lively, because my mother in the home ranking is also good, so everyone is very worship the appearance, the first to leave here to fight outside is also her, so here my mother is very happy, Kind of like everybody said the richest man in the village or something.

The marriage process is very wild, of course, although the scene of marriage in rural areas are different, but the same is compared to the city, the size of time is much larger, there are more red tape and customs. But in my eyes in general, is the shooting, eating, and the bridal chamber.

After the wedding, the next day we go to the old cave area to turn around and give the old people graves, we passed a dilapidated cave, inside unexpectedly there are people living, it is said that the old neighbors, children are no longer, so has been living in the cave in the collapse, I went to see the age of the couple is also very old, the elderly basic can not walk, The old woman was making firewood in the kitchen, and Cindy Cindy's room was dim, and my mother came in and recognized them. Of course, how old when the deeds began to ramble, I watched the old man I went to feed him to eat, did not expect him to cry, everyone advised the old man do not cry, I will wipe his tears, Everybody cried, I stood there speechless

Came out, to the grave more tears, I just look at the wooden. I do not know the feelings of the last generation, I just feel this a desolate loess, there are too many stories, perhaps not the people we grew up in the city can understand.