A good man without control is not a leader.

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One year MBA group interview, gathered in a group of students are middle-aged, there is a small success in the gas field, I sat in the third seat, the heart is actually very stage fright, I feel really green very.

The whole team is a table leader, however, the courage to enter the state of rapid, but the next thing is indeed as expected, for the interview topic of the process, who will not listen to who, each want to control each other, no one is willing to compromise, the objective of the discussion, that is, essay accounted for most of the time, No one can control the next steps and conclusions.

The interview was a failure that day, and then I thought about some questions about leadership and control, and reason and Eq. Recently in pursuit of a U.S. opera "Walking Dead", the surface is bloody living dead, but in the second quarter, the director began to penetrate the human nature, so the film chewing up more energetic way some, so at the end of the second season, I thought of the last problem point.

There are a number of male characters in the film, four male characters in the illustration, I think are the most likely to become the "leader" role of the Four, respectively: Rick, Dale, Shane, Daryl. But when reality--how to live, how to live, and constantly scour every character--everyone's three views begin to change subtly. My favorite character. Dale, an old, intelligent, moral, religious, humane character who, at the end of the year, won a female vote for "whether or not to rule a captive", my heart was like a broken egg.

Believe that he is almost lost--to reflect on a problem, why do people with a number of advantages can not become the leader of the masses?

Even his most favored Korean boy didn't get a vote at the key time? Again, Shane, once Rick's best friend, struggled to escape in a hospital filled with zombies, and left without forgetting to block the door of the unconscious Rick's ward, trying to stop the zombie from invading, albeit with a slim hope. After that, he methodically took up the whole escape line, play a pivotal role, until the friend Rick Life, breaking the level of calm, in all kinds of humiliation, the whole person become agitated, abnormal mood, unable to act as before sensible, in with the companion to take the drug to save people, by the living Dead encirclement, The selfish choice of killing companions to feed the Living dead, and the opportunity to escape, this episode, his image almost lost all the audience fans, although he retrieved the medicine to save the friend's child, but he eventually died in the friend's blade.

--reflection on a problem, when they are the same as group goals but the decision-making process is not willing to be subject to the same level of character constraints, in addition to conflict to a loss, there is no better solution?

Daryl throughout the second season, just silently do some people moved things, for an acquaintance of the mother to find the lost daughter found himself almost hung up, occasionally also with "the Flower of God" small fresh A, but bad mouth is very, put malicious words, or do not speak. At the moment when he was almost dead, he was hallucinating and saw his brother, the villain of the end. From here, can see, his bottom of heart has humble humble inferiority, care about the peripheral people to his negative views, fortunately, finally he defeated the illusion, success into a positive energy role, forming their own gas field: have to play, steady, brave. This is the key to the leadership role. So I put him here, and at the end of the second season, I just heard a woman blowing in his ear, "You shouldn't be humiliated," and he hasn't done it, or tried to get into the leadership circle.

Reflection on a problem, a humble background of the role of the former, whether can really say goodbye to the dark and the idea of leadership team, not only to do the right thing, but also to lead the team to do the right thing, become leader in leadership?

According to Peter, does the highest point of his life end in overcoming inferiority and doing the right thing and not being competent to lead others to do the right thing? Rick, who narrowly escaped the role of the team, had the most unlucky experience in the disaster, the most fortunate of which was his wife and children. He's in the whole story, many times, don't prioritize to save people, to fight, but friends Shane Help, the original bad outcome reversed to everyone can still accept; In this kind of mistake, he became prestige, this prestige comes from actually is Shane to help after various search and rescue events, in the team's eyes, He has a rational, humane, and more correct decision-making power leader. He hides the fact that everyone is carrying a virus; he stabbed a friend but hugged him to cry, he heard his wife frankly after the superficial calm actually has jealousy anger, in the outside, many emotions he controlled quite well, but the biggest enemy of the death of the end of the second season, he said, "From now on there is no democracy" Can make everybody's back hair cool, he seems and Shane already indistinguishable.

Rethinking a question: How long can he lead?

In summary, how to become a leader? How to be a good leader? How can you become a leader that most people can obey? The answers may vary from one environment to another and different team members at different times, but it is certain that:

1 a good man without control is not a leader.

2 to control the weak emotional quotient of the barbarians, the leadership of the time is not long.

3 need to have the spirit of adventure, in the course of the adventure of someone or willing or lucky accomplished things, based on this can establish their own prestige gas field, but to pay attention to the possibility of collapse. Apply an advertisement word, have a house to have.

4 Peter's principles are real, and the people who do their own things are not necessarily able to bring the team to the orderly.

5 If you decide to violate the bottom line of others, don't be naïve to think he really will forgive you, can forgive, is not the bottom line.

After writing these, the Gumbo in the Micro blog back to me that: zombies will not perish mankind, because can make mankind extinct, only ourselves. The living are the most terrible, we are the dead! This article is based on the American opera "Walking Dead" feeling.