Century Jia Yuan matchmaker to help divorced women holding hands "words tuberculosis" male

Century Jia Yuan Matchmaker one-to-one member Caolulu sat in the service center appointment, softly asked Matchmaker: "I so divorced women, should find what conditions of men?" How to get along? "Do not fear divorce label happiness can be ripe century Jia Yuan matchmaker said that different people have different marital status, this different situation in the process of love will have different psychological effects on him or her. The majority of divorced women also belong to the older category, with some older unmarried women's mentality. But they went through a failed marriage, and their psychology was more complicated than the older unmarried women. First of all, the majority of divorced women's understanding of marriage more clearly, and all hope to have a happy family again, also believe that once again the marriage, will certainly take good care of happiness. But their different divorce experiences lead to a different view of love, and they also produce different psychological activities. Caolulu three years ago ended five years of married life, after the divorce, she is anxious to organize a warm family, on the other hand, distrust of men, fear of unpleasant events will repeat themselves, and from the heart want to contact men, but in practice unconsciously from the subconscious refused to contact men, Set a strong wall for your own psychology! Slopping three years have passed. Century Jia Yuan Matchmaker suggested Caolulu should first from their own emotional, cognitive level to establish their self-confidence, have the courage to go out of their own set of circles, let themselves out of the condom, and male contact. In the process of contact should be within the control of the full trust in him, and objectively evaluate, understand, and honest exchanges. So that two hearts to collide, so as to establish a solid, happy family. Take the first step of the brave flower into the marriage hall Caolulu himself is a training instructor, is a thoughtful, thoughtful person, matchmaker to tell her the truth, she all understand, just a little one to urge and remind. People often in the process of love, it is difficult to rationally judge and avoid some unnecessary contradictions. Caolulu first appointment with male members, because she is too introverted, the whole dating has been in the status of Jane answer, male members ask a sentence, Caolulu answer. Finally, the male member slightly angrily asked Caolulu: "You have nothing to know me?" "Caolulu:" I have learned from the material. "After the words, the appointment ended in failure. Before meeting the second male member Li, the matchmaker reminds Caolulu again and again, chats the process to find the topic to chat more. As expected in the matchmaker, the recommendation was successful, and Caolulu and Li soon got engaged. "The reason for their success may not be just a change in Caolulu," said Matchmaker. Before giving Caolulu a recommendation, through discussion, in addition to Caolulu on the other's external economic ability requirements, for the Caolulu character, we think she is more suitable for an optimist, ' word-TB ' type of man. The recommended Li, family view, career success, high quality, is in line with the above conditions. In addition, Li himself particularly sincere, really, Caolulu with matchmaker, this is Li impress her main reason. "Century Jia Edge emotional expert Zhang Jiarui once said that all things are complementary, humanGender in any sex is incomplete, there are a lot of "eccentricity", which is the reason for people to find a life partner, if interdependent and mutually complementary, to achieve harmonious perfection, the future of life will be warm and happy.