Customs: Vietnamese brides to train before going abroad

To enter the Sohu Overseas channel South Korea is recently hit a TV series "Golden Bride", tells the story of the marriage to South Korea's Vietnamese daughter-in-law. In recent years, more and more Vietnamese girls have been married to South Korea and other land. 　　To give these brides a happy day, the Viet Nam Women's Federation plans to set up 40 information and legal aid centres nationwide to carry out risk education for Vietnamese brides who are about to be married. Realize the average week of marriage. Although Vietnam has been reformed and opened for 20 years, the economy has made great progress, but in some rural and remote mountainous areas, life is still very difficult.　　Many Vietnamese girls hope to marry foreigners in order to change their fortunes and improve the family's economic situation. Vietnamese brides are mainly married to China, Taiwan, South Korea, Singapore and other Asian countries and regions.　　As of now, there are 12,500 Vietnamese girls outside Taiwan and 25,000 Vietnamese brides in South Korea. Although these married Vietnamese girls have in the natural contact with foreigners, through free love to find happy marriage, but most girls are married through foreign matchmaking. Many of them from rural and remote mountainous areas, a low level of education, mostly only primary school, junior high school education, the age of more than 18-21 years old, no foreign language communication skills, no stable career. Most of them were married abroad for economic reasons through foreign-related matchmaking companies. These girls generally know from the "groom" that the average time of marriage is one week, the longest is only 3 months. Many Vietnamese girls have just arrived in Korea to marry, even at the wedding also holding a Korean conversation materials.　　The bride and groom could not speak to each other, and the embarrassment was conceivable. In the age gap with the groom, the vast majority of the 10 years old, a small part of the 20 years old. A Vietnamese bride who calls himself a "horn flower" is only 24 years old, and her parents are rural farmers in Vietnam and are living in poverty. She has borrowed a sum of money from relatives 5 years ago to Ho Chi Minh City to learn Chinese in order to marry "rich Taiwanese". A year later, her present husband went to Vietnam to find his wife, and soon took a fancy to her.　　The husband of "horn flower" is older than her father. Because you get up late and divorce because you do not understand the local language and cultural customs, lack of necessary understanding and communication before marriage, Vietnamese brides in the common life with her husband will appear a variety of problems. They have no experience of life, lack of financial means, often lack of respect in their husbands ' families and are often treated as private goods.　　They were married to the free maid of the husband's house, forced to obey the family life style, and many families had different degrees of domestic violence. Vietnamese woman Huang in a letter to her South Korean husband, Chen Shanfu, June 25 this year: "I have made a lot of effort to be a good wife ... But why don't you care about me at all?　　I want to have a happy home ... "the day after the letter was written, Huang was beaten to death by Chen Shanfu. Many matchmaking companies in pursuit of profit, often on the husband's family economic situation is not real exaggerated, Vietnamese brides can not get accurate information,Many people are financially difficult after marriage.　　Statistics from the South Korean Bureau of Statistics in March 2006 showed that foreign-related marriages accounted for 3.6% of the total number of registered marriages, with 53% foreign-related families living below the poverty line, only 13.7% per cent of families receiving subsistence allowances and 24% foreign brides without health insurance. Vietnamese brides face not only economic difficulties but also social rights and interests. They are completely unequal in their marriage, and some "grooms" are required in the marriage contract to specify "such as the bride escaping and asking for compensation from her parents".　　Some Vietnamese brides are unable to inherit property after their husbands have died, and some have even been deprived of their right to education. The divorce rate, which they cannot adapt to their husbands and their families, is also high, and husbands can request divorce at will for any reason.　　A 45-year-old Korean man, for example, married a 19-Year-old Vietnamese wife, filed for divorce on the basis of his "wife getting up late, not for breakfast at high School," and filed a lawsuit against the Consumer Protection Institute for payment of a marriage fee. The issue of naturalization is also a major difficulty for Vietnamese brides. At present, 90% of Vietnamese brides in Taiwan do not have official household registration. Taiwan's law stipulates that you can apply for naturalization after 3 years of life at Taiwan. South Korea has stipulated that two years of marriage may be naturalized.　　But many people's marriages only last a few months, or appear in the process of the death of the husband and so on, they will become no household registration of "black" person.　　In order to guide Vietnamese girls to deal with foreign marriages correctly, the Vietnamese government recently approved the International Marriage Assistance Scheme, which was provided by the Korean NGO "Vietnamese Women's cultural center" to the Viet Nam Women's Union, and the total aid amount of 2.392 billion won was completed in 5 years.　　Under the aid scheme, the Viet Nam Women's Federation will open 40 information and legal aid centres throughout the country, undertake the necessary risk awareness education and life skills training for bride brides, and provide information support and legal assistance on practical issues encountered by brides.　　The issue of Vietnamese brides is not only a Vietnamese government, but also a social issue which has become a common concern of the Government. The South Korean president has instructed the Government to implement aid policies for foreign brides, such as teaching Korean, introducing Korean culture, and helping the economic life of foreign-related families to stabilize as soon as possible through the introduction of work and welfare. Starting in 2007, the South Korean government will subsidize foreign brides marrying poor Koreans (whether they are naturalized or not), giving them the ability to raise children and ensure a minimum standard of living. The Ministry of Women also puts up a parenting fee (including health costs) for underage children. This year, the South Korean government will also introduce a new law, strict examination of foreign-related matchmaking rights, enhance the transparency of activities to prevent human rights abuses, and the introduction of a ban on discrimination between mixed-race and foreigners laws.